Quality Over Quantity.

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This whole "You have a huge cock, you must be so blessed and happy"

Sorry dude, we don't get all the booty we want. Women who love big cock are few and far between (and are usually more cautious because of guys hitting on them, pretending to have big sticks)

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truth be told, booty comes with personality and game, not to mention understanding women as a whole. having a big dick is hit or miss with each woman that you can get into the sack. now don't get me wrong, if you advertise that you got a big one and can deliver, that will get you laid as well (if getting laid is all you're concerned with) with the size queens that exists out there and there's plenty out there.

if you want pussy then be confident and secure in who you are. learn about women and learn how to socialize with them. you won't get them all but there's plenty enough out there that you will get your fill if you know what you're doing.

it's not that hard. what's hard is getting over yourself in your head in who you are and what you can do.
 

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Women don't choose penises as sexual partners. We pick the actual person attached to the penis before we even see the fuckin thing.

Caught you speaking for all women when you constantly point out that no one here should speak for all women or men.
 

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Caught you speaking for all women when you constantly point out that no one here should speak for all women or men.



Maybe I need to put a disclaimer on every single fucking post of mine in the future:

TNJ DOES NOT REPRESENT/SPEAK FOR ALL WOMEN.

There, fuckin happy??
 

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Or you could make "I" statements like "I've never chosen a sexual partner based on his penis." ;)

I'm pretty sure I'm not the only woman on this board who has communicated the exact same thing, and we all get ignored every time. Except THIS time, because of some nitpicking shit.

Yes, some women will make choices on sexual partners based on things like penis size, but I doubt there is a majority of women who actually see a man's penis before she's decided whether or not she's willing to fuck it.

It's just a matter of circumstance. Most times, I *can't* see it until the actual sex is happening. I'm speaking on behalf of myself and women I know who understand what I'm talking about. #notallwomen.
 

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I'm pretty sure I'm not the only woman on this board who has communicated the exact same thing, and we all get ignored every time. Except THIS time, because of some nitpicking shit.

Yes, some women will make choices on sexual partners based on things like penis size, but I doubt there is a majority of women who actually see a man's penis before she's decided whether or not she's willing to fuck it.

It's just a matter of circumstance. Most times, I *can't* see it until the actual sex is happening. I'm speaking on behalf of myself and women I know who understand what I'm talking about. #notallwomen.

lol... don't pick nits and yours won't be picked in turn... #gotcha
 

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lol... don't pick nits and yours won't be picked in turn... #gotcha

I'm gonna say what no one is supposed to.

When I picked those nits, I was right. I should have phrased my original post in this thread more carefully, you're right about that ...
 

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I'm pretty sure I'm not the only woman on this board who has communicated the exact same thing, and we all get ignored every time. Except THIS time, because of some nitpicking shit.

Yes, some women will make choices on sexual partners based on things like penis size, but I doubt there is a majority of women who actually see a man's penis before she's decided whether or not she's willing to fuck it.

It's just a matter of circumstance. Most times, I *can't* see it until the actual sex is happening. I'm speaking on behalf of myself and women I know who understand what I'm talking about. #notallwomen.
Well, you’re speaking for me here. I’ve never picked a penis out of a lineup and then checked out the guy. If so I’d be so happy with the plethora of dick pics I receive - I could pick my lovers based on the penises I like. Alas, I don’t. I get whatever penis is attached to the man I like.
 

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Well, you’re speaking for me here. I’ve never picked a penis out of a lineup and then checked out the guy. If so I’d be so happy with the plethora of dick pics I receive - I could pick my lovers based on the penises I like. Alas, I don’t. I get whatever penis is attached to the man I like.

And this brings up an interesting point.

I won't speak for all my gay brethren here - however, it seems to me that dick size is prevalent in gay society quite a bit. Its lampooned in culture, comics, and gay jokes. Size seems to matter to men more than women.

In my case, does it matter? Not overall, but it does - to a point. Some of you may recall that at one point i was married previously on here, and some others may recall that my ex was eventually unable to have sex due to medical issues (couldn't top OR bottom). The relationships itself didn't falter because of those issues. Not those alone - they did contribute - so I can't deny that, but I COULD have continued in that relationship.

I can't deny that I've posted that I am very satisfied with my partner's size (8.5x5.5). I can even be man enough to admit that it was ONE of the reasons I hooked up with him originally - though it was his personality that caught me entirely.

That being said - it could be that 'size matters' to women, it could also be totally not true. I don't know for sure as I'm not a woman. But its obvious that through culture, through humor, and through many other things that size does matter at least to men. It's all over the boards. There are plenty of 'are you bigger / thicker / longer' threads in the show-off section here. I can even say that it does matter - to me.

More than likely the reflected self importance men see in their own members is what drives the disbelief that size doesn't matter. It matters to them, so why shouldn't it matter to women. I have a suspicion that the above is the reason for the belief, and for the existence of this thread.
 
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I have encountered a miniscule amount of women over the years who are size queens. This is with years of being on here and other adult/sex positive sites. This is with decades of interest and practicing of BDSM, going to dungeons, sex positive events, hanging out with swingers, etc. All things considered, it is still a small sample size compared to the total amount of women on the planet.

Having said that, I think it gives me a pretty solid idea of what many women's preferences are (of the ones who have sex with men/people with a penis). Men are significantly more likely to care about dick size than women do. Of the women who do care about dick size? It's most likely they care only out of concerns about a dick being larger than is comfortable for them to accommodate.
 

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Well, you’re speaking for me here. I’ve never picked a penis out of a lineup and then checked out the guy. If so I’d be so happy with the plethora of dick pics I receive - I could pick my lovers based on the penises I like. Alas, I don’t. I get whatever penis is attached to the man I like.

I still don’t understand how this happens. Why do men send unsolicited dick picks to you (and many other women). I don’t doubt it happens, I just don’t understand what goes through their minds. I’ve got some pics posted on my profile, but what kind of screwed up logic makes you think anyone that hasn’t specifically asked for it wants a picture of your dick? Never encountered this with gay guys. Is it a straighr thing?
 

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I still don’t understand how this happens. Why do men send unsolicited dick picks to you (and many other women). I don’t doubt it happens, I just don’t understand what goes through their minds. I’ve got some pics posted on my profile, but what kind of screwed up logic makes you think anyone that hasn’t specifically asked for it wants a picture of your dick? Never encountered this with gay guys. Is it a straighr thing?
I wish I knew. Obviously, it’s straight/bi guys sending me pics. And I can’t really ask on the forums because I don’t recall any active poster doing it.

It’s confounding to me. If you wouldn’t flash a stranger in real life, why do it on the internet? What reaction is the guy hoping for? Lust? A return pic of some sort? Sure this is an adult community. Post your pics. If I like you, I know where to find them. It’s just weird. It’s like some odd LPSG handshake. I just don’t want to touch it.
 

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I wish I knew. Obviously, it’s straight/bi guys sending me pics. And I can’t really ask on the forums because I don’t recall any active poster doing it.

It’s confounding to me. If you wouldn’t flash a stranger in real life, why do it on the internet? What reaction is the guy hoping for? Lust? A return pic of some sort? Sure this is an adult community. Post your pics. If I like you, I know where to find them. It’s just weird. It’s like some odd LPSG handshake. I just don’t want to touch it.

It is really strange. They just did a survey in The Netherlands and about 60 percent of all women who are active online get dick picks send to them without asking. Does it mean that these guys would actually flash a stranger in real life if they knew they couldn’t get caught for it? That’s a rather frightening thought.
 

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Women don't choose penises as sexual partners. We pick the actual person attached to the penis before we even see the fuckin thing.
Well, you’re speaking for me here. I’ve never picked a penis out of a lineup and then checked out the guy.
I have encountered a miniscule amount of women over the years who are size queens.


I've had lots of women in my life.* I've always maintained that size isn't that important to most women. At least, not a killer issue. However, there are some -- and, no, not a minuscule amount -- for whom size is a big thing (pun intended). Especially for one-night stands.

But I'll agree -- it's nowhere near a majority. Luckily for me: my wife chose quality over quantity.




* It's the looks and personality, not the cock; I'm hung like a chipmunk.
 
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I've had lots of women in my life.* I've always maintained that size isn't that important to most women. At least, not a killer issue. However, there are some -- and, no, not a minuscule amount -- for whom size is a big thing (pun intended). Especially for one-night stands.

But I'll agree -- it's nowhere near a majority. Luckily for me: my wife chose quality over quantity.




* It's the looks and personality, not the cock; I'm hung like a chipmunk.

Why is your anecdote more valid than mine?
 
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Why is your anecdote more valid than mine?
It's not. Everybody has different experiences. Also, what's minuscule exactly? Plus, we both probably suffer from what pollsters call the "Bradley Effect" -- what people say is not necessarily what they do. There may be more women you've encountered who are size queens than have told you so, and not every woman who's been disappointed by my size has told me so.*

My anecdotes were not meant as a criticism or invalidation of yours. I'm thoroughly willing to admit they're just slightly different. And notice I prefaced my qualification with the opinion "that size isn't that important to most women," which is essentially what most the female responders were saying.

Thanks for your response. I always enjoy reading your posts.



* Although I've always been surprised by the number of women who have. In most instances, there was no reason to do so; they simply had to say "Au revoir."
 
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It's not. Everybody has different experiences. Also, what's minuscule exactly? Plus, we both probably suffer from what pollsters call the "Bradley Effect" -- what people say is not necessarily what they do. There may be more women you've encountered who are size queens than have told you so, and not every woman who's been disappointed by my size has told me so.*

My anecdotes were not meant as a criticism or invalidation of yours. I'm thoroughly willing to admit they're just slightly different. And notice I referenced my qualification with the opinion "that size isn't that important to most women," which is essentially what most the female responders were saying.

Thanks for your response. I always enjoy reading your posts.



* Although I've always been surprised by the number of women who have. In most instances, there was no reason to do so; they simply had to say "Au revoir."

Well, out of the hundreds of women where it has come up/I've observed conversation? Less than ten placed emphatic priority on big dick. One night stand or otherwise. Women who may consider it a perk, but don't count dick size as part of picking someone to fuck, much less date? Maybe ten. I feel pretty comfy saying the amount of women who are size queens is miniscule. A metric crap ton of men on LPSG and otherwise wish it were otherwise, but it really isn't. Way more men are prone to have a kink, fetish, obsession, whatever about the almighty wang than women as a whole are likely to.

I don't participate in this kind of behavior, but mainstream culture makes dick size an easy thing for people to use to turn someone down. So, while dick size may have been given as a reason for rejection by some people, I wouldn't consider it 100% guaranteed that it was actually about the dick size.

As for interviews by people in porn, etc? Yeah, I had a spiel I gave when I did cam work. It was in zero way representative of reality/how I really felt about anything. Gotta keep that facade going and earn the almighty dollar.