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[Idk09090]

I’m 24yo still somehow virgin, white blonde uncut I need advice and help:

I’m scared that on first time having sex either with boys or girls the foreskin breaks or start bleeding, mine does completely come down exposing the full head but still I’m scared, should I get the circumcision or not?

I think getting cut will make the head dryer and idk

Don’t take it wrong I’m still virgin but got to jerk off friends and finger girls just not used my dck just yet

 

[stevej6814]

If you're "serious" as your post states, then you would ask your doctor and follow the advice of medical professionals known to you -- you certainly wouldn't be asking unqualified people here!

 

[JohnnyDanger610]

I’m not a medical professional but I do talk to a lot of doctors and nurses, and recently the topic of adult circumcision came up. A nurse told me a lot of young men (i.e. in their 20s) get circumcised in the U.S. because apparently keeping their uncut dick clean is too difficult. Some guys also expressed a desire for a “normal” looking penis—I guess they compare themselves or their girlfriends compared them to circumcised dicks.

As a guy who was cut at birth, I wish I hadn’t been. If I wanted to get cut, that should be my choice. We treat female circumcision as barbaric and cruel, but shrug off male circumcision as normal and healthy. I wish I had the increased sensitivity a foreskin provides on the glans, and I wish I was “natural” just like the day I was born.

I did meet a guy who’d been cut when he was in his early 20s, he said it was because his dick was too big for his foreskin, to the point it was uncomfortable. I asked him what that was like and he said he couldn’t touch his dick “for weeks” after the surgery, but by the time I’d met him everything was fine, his penis was great and spectacular-looking.

Lastly, I did hook up with one uncut guy and accidentally broke his foreskin giving him a handjob. It was a little embarrassing, especially when he had to run across the hall to let a nursing student friend take a look, and maybe a little painful, but AFAIK he healed.

@Idk09090 if you’re somewhere a lot of guys are cut, I’d talk about it with my partner first, especially if they’re not used to uncut penises. Talk about what feels good, what doesn’t, and any precautions they should take, like not rubbing the foreskin so vigorously it tears or breaks.

 

[cofrader]

I’m scared that on first time having sex either with boys or girls the foreskin breaks or start bleeding, mine does completely come down exposing the full head but still I’m scared, should I get the circumcision or not?

I don't think even the worse phimosis risk that, wich is not your case.
If you manage to jerk and exposed the head there is nothing wrong, don't fix what it isn't broken.
Ask a doctor for a more scientific answer.
It seams circumcision became a fashion on usa, if you can pull it down and wash it you will never have any problems.
But if you are on a place where discrimination is strong you could do it to blend in.
Humanity manage to survive for ages without it and only recently did start with ritual partial circumcisions then fully rituals circumcision an around 1900 some doctor wanted to impose it to prevent epilepsy and masturbation, non religious circumcision it's just business unless you are the 1 percent actually needing it.

 

[hzs3fg]

I’m not a medical professional but I do talk to a lot of doctors and nurses, and recently the topic of adult circumcision came up. A nurse told me a lot of young men (i.e. in their 20s) get circumcised in the U.S. because apparently keeping their uncut dick clean is too difficult. Some guys also expressed a desire for a “normal” looking penis—I guess they compare themselves or their girlfriends compared them to circumcised dicks.

As a guy who was cut at birth, I wish I hadn’t been. If I wanted to get cut, that should be my choice. We treat female circumcision as barbaric and cruel, but shrug off male circumcision as normal and healthy. I wish I had the increased sensitivity a foreskin provides on the glans, and I wish I was “natural” just like the day I was born.

I did meet a guy who’d been cut when he was in his early 20s, he said it was because his dick was too big for his foreskin, to the point it was uncomfortable. I asked him what that was like and he said he couldn’t touch his dick “for weeks” after the surgery, but by the time I’d met him everything was fine, his penis was great and spectacular-looking.

Lastly, I did hook up with one uncut guy and accidentally broke his foreskin giving him a handjob. It was a little embarrassing, especially when he had to run across the hall to let a nursing student friend take a look, and maybe a little painful, but AFAIK he healed.

@Idk09090 if you’re somewhere a lot of guys are cut, I’d talk about it with my partner first, especially if they’re not used to uncut penises. Talk about what feels good, what doesn’t, and any precautions they should take, like not rubbing the foreskin so vigorously it tears or breaks.

To be fair, female supposed "circumcision" is an entirely different thing - in fact the term circumcision has nothing to do with what is happening there. It is the outright removal of the clitoris and, often, the inner labia as well. The purpose being to take any pleasure out of the sex act for the woman, hence ensuring that she will be less inclined to lose her virginity outside of marriage and unlikely to engage in extramarital sex - given that she derives no pleasure at all from the sex act.

It is, indeed, a barbaric act.

 

[techpump]

I would not. I would at least feel pussy first while uncut. You absolutely should do it uncut. I'm cut and wish I could feel what that's like. Besides, you'll probably be fine, don't worry! At least if it does tear a little, you felt the most wonderful feeling in the whole world.