brad2002: I have never had too much of a problem with virgins. I am almost 9 inches long and almost 7 thick, so my girth tends to be more of an issue. It takes a lot of time, fingering, tonguing, and lube to get into virgin pussy when your're big. And don't expect to get in the first night.
She has to be relaxed. Once you get the head in, just stay there for a while without pushing so she can get used to it. Kiss her, rub her tits, whisper sweet nothings in her ear and all that stuff. Then ASK her if it is ok to proceed. I have never been asked to pull out because I don;t just stick it in and pound away. Then proceed SLOWLY, one inch at a time. it might take a half hour or more to get it all the way in her. I kind of like the feeling of just being in there and not thrusting. The wet warmth is awesome. When you are hung, you probably won't be able to let loose the first night. It could take a few, or several tender fucks before you can plow into her.
If you are able to do this for a virgin, she'll appreciate that she gave her virginity to someone who treated her with gentleness and respect.