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I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years now, and this past year we've all but stopped having sex. It's been three months since we've had actual intercourse and going on two months since we've fooled around.
Whenever I try to initiate anything sexual he quickly makes an excuse not to, and says "Let's do it tomorrow" and tomorrow never happens. I've asked him if he's not attracted to me or if there's someone else and he always says that's not it, and that he just doesn't have much of a sex drive. I find that to be kind of bullshit though because of how often I walk in on him jerking off and how often he leaves porn open on my computer.
I'm honestly just really confused, and it's starting to affect my self esteem and my confidence in our relationship. I don't know if I'm just being crazy, this is my first serious relationship so I don't have much experience to go off of. I'm not sure what I need to do.
Whenever I try to initiate anything sexual he quickly makes an excuse not to, and says "Let's do it tomorrow" and tomorrow never happens. I've asked him if he's not attracted to me or if there's someone else and he always says that's not it, and that he just doesn't have much of a sex drive. I find that to be kind of bullshit though because of how often I walk in on him jerking off and how often he leaves porn open on my computer.
I'm honestly just really confused, and it's starting to affect my self esteem and my confidence in our relationship. I don't know if I'm just being crazy, this is my first serious relationship so I don't have much experience to go off of. I'm not sure what I need to do.