It’s simple. I need and want to keep a degree of anonymity here. I’m married with two teens, first of all, and being discovered on this site, if somehow was found out - well that would be over. No chance to explain anything, no discussion... basically AMF (adios motherfucker). It’s enough I’ve had the balls to even be here, exposing myself to this community (and it’s been a bit rewarding don’t get me wrong) but This is something I thought I’d never, ever do, as I’ve been very self conscious my whole life. I can’t begin to tell you how much of a huge step this has been.
Would I like to have my wife be into this whole thing? Sure! If I was on this site before we met, I’d would have told her up front about this, but I didn’t know I’d ever get to this point.
If I was single it wouldn’t matter.