Showering together

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  1. jump_start

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    How many of you shower with your partner? How often do you do so? Enjoy or dislike? What do like and/or dislike about it?

    My last partner INSISTED that we shower together each night. I was a little skittish about it at first, but grew to really enjoy it and actually looked forward to it each night. I felt that it created a stronger bond between us, aside from the fact that we had some (lots of) fun in there as well :wink:

    Aside from sex, I found it to be more and more sensual as time went on. I learned about the more sensitive areas of his body, and he found out the same of me. It was a wonderful experience, getting to know someone on an intimate level that I don't think I could have ever achieved otherwise.

    Suffice it to say, I think you can learn a lot about someone by showering with them. In my case, I know I did.

    Thoughts?
     
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    My wife did it once with me and refuses to do it as "it is her time." I would shower with my ex all of the time and would always lead to shower sex. I think it is an awesome experience.
     
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    yes I love to shower with a friend or lover
    my first lover and I would shower together till he accidently knocked me out of the shower
    it turned out ok but would not shower with him for a while after that
     
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    Hate it. I am in the shower to get things done, then I want to get out. I am not in there to fuck, snuggle or have a groping session. Really not a fan of it.
     
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    i love showering together, don't do it all the time and it does not lead to sex most of the time. showering together after sex is fun too!
     
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    can be really fun and sensual... but yeah subgirrl you tend to want to sort your cleaning out when you wanna really shower haha
     
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    That was my point-of-view before he convinced me to give it a try.

    I take 2 showers a day. I had to make it very clear that the morning shower was MY time, and was off limits.
     
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    Absolutely!
     
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    Our last house had a large shower cubicle - we occasionally had three in there, wife and girlfriend would wash each other's hair, then I'd join them. Wife and I often shower together. Even if you don't fuck it's still sexy.

    We stayed in a naturist swinger campsite in France last year with unisex showers. There was lots of fucking going on. Naturist campsites tend to have unisex showers which is fun.

    My ex was one of those people who hated sharing her shower, really had a thing about being alone.
     
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    That sounds like a pretty good compromise to me :smile:
     
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    Sure. Before the kids were born we'd shower once a week together, but never during normal shower times. It was meant to be a sexual experience. However, penetration was forbidden. It was all about exploring each other's bodies. It was great being able touch, kiss, and lick every inch of her body. With enough practice I was able to bring her to an orgasm without ever touching her pussy. I will admit that gave me a nice boost to my male ego.

    With the kids, we're down to about twice a month of so, but we still make the effort to fit it in (so to speak).
     
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    My husband and I shower together almost every morning. We used to fight over who got to stand under the water and for how long, then we moved into a place with dual shower heads.

    On most days it's just hugging and fondling, but we do keep lube in the shower for special occasions.
     
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    When I had my house built, I had 2 heads installed in the Master shower.

    Nuff said? :biggrin1:
     
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    I try to shower in the morning to shave and shampoo my hair. At night I will shower a second time with someone else but not to have sex in there. It is more or less piece of mind for me knowing that they will be clean. :redface: Most people probably don't want to shower with me any way. My water is almost scalding and I don't think many can tolerate that. :eek:
     
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    i'd get soapy with you!!:087:
     
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    I'm warning you it gets HOT in there. :biggrin1:
     
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    a shower is great, but it's not a very comfortable place to fuck around. hot water and soapy slippery rubbing is great, but only goes so far.
    Great place for water sports tho... good clean fun!
     
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    As with the Japanese and some of the old Soviet Block countries showering with another or even taking a bath are most enjoyable even in close confines.

    I truly love soaping her body up with lather and working away the tension as well as helping her shave and when the tables are turned it is an incredible turn on which almost always creates a throbbing monster…

    As for sex in the shower or bath (or even pool or hot tube) what a turn on; I mean I love as the water cascades down her body as I try to kiss and suck in her body.

    Oral sex especially is an erotic turn on amplified by the warm water running downward but when you come from behind and gently slide your shaft up inside her body. Cupping and caressing her breast and pulling her closer to meet your thrust as you softly nibble and kiss her neck and shoulders. It just seems like the sex will take a slower, longer and more passionate sensation.

    As for Cumming or shooting your hot cum WOW…,my cock is already at heighten sensitivity but pulling it out and watching it explode oozing its hot lava in spurts as the warm water hits it – its is phantasmagoric!


     
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    hotter the better and i bet it does!!!
     
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    Tell us how you really feel :p lol
     
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