Size and your reaction to porn

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Coming to porn at a relatively mature age, and having a reasonably sized penis (7.5x6.0), I've never found the members on display in porn films to be very intimidating on a personal level. In fact, it appears to me that the very well endowed "actors" often find it difficult to get truly rock hard, and as this has never been a problem for me, that fact provides a measure of reassurance as well.

I'm curious, though, as to how an average, or below average, sized man responds to the typical porn images of large penises. Is the inevitable comparison ever a problem? I suspect that this may be more of an issue for straight men, but I'm open to all views.
 

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When i was into watching porn the images of big cocks were expected and therefore didn't phase me much. Wasn't until I saw cocks bigger than mine in real life (during my bi- phase) that it became a bruise to my ego. and i mean a big bruise. There's nothing quite like having a big 8-inch cock side to side with one that's 6.5" at best. Thankfully most of the dudes I've seen hard in real life were the same or smaller than me, but I remember 2 cocks in particular--yeah, a little tough on the ego.
 

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Sure, most of the guys in porn have big cocks, but that's just part of the qualifications for the job, that and staying hard, and being fit, etc. I've got the same measurements as you... are we long lost twin brothers.. separated at birth? LOL
 

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when i watched porn it made me proud of my cock, too. I would think to myself, "I've got one of those, too!" not meaning a great big one, but just a cock -- just a friggin' cock that gets rock hard, looks real nice all greased up with a woman's wetness, and one that shoots out cum as i groan and buck with pleasure.

I've always thought even the smallest hung dude can take a woman who is not so crazy about his size, and first have her grab his cock to show her how rock hard it is, and then he can lay back and jack his cock while she watches, shootin' his spunk out over and over again like a geyser, and then turn to her and say, "ok, let's see YOU do that! let's see YOUR cock!"
 

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pexman said:
When i was into watching porn the images of big cocks were expected and therefore didn't phase me much. Wasn't until I saw cocks bigger than mine in real life (during my bi- phase) that it became a bruise to my ego. and i mean a big bruise. There's nothing quite like having a big 8-inch cock side to side with one that's 6.5" at best. Thankfully most of the dudes I've seen hard in real life were the same or smaller than me, but I remember 2 cocks in particular--yeah, a little tough on the ego.
how pathetic
 

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I find that most average men in porn i had watched have thin penises... they may have good lenght but for sure are thin...at least to me. They must take from lenght and add on girth!!!

I would not moan and have good time as that ladies "act" they are having with penises like that...:rolleyes: who believes in porn orgasm anyways ??? i dont they look sooo fake !
 

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I'm a str8 guy,but I do enjoy watching porn were the guys are very large(mandingo, lex, ..ect.)..I think there's more of an element of realness when the guy is really packing. It makes the women do more than just go thru the motions.

That's just my 2 cents.
 

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:smile: Yes i would agree the size of their cocks didnt impress me Then my second thought was now thats a dream job! Having sex and getting paid for it.!
 

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I have never felt intimidated by a cock in pron (or real life). Watching pron actually made me NOT notice that I was hung. Seeing Peter North, Ron Jeremy, FM Bradley, Ray Victory and Sean Michaels led me to mistakenly think that my size was an average, every day occurance. Once I started seeing other people's cocks, I realized differently (and once I was told so in college).
 

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I first watched porn at some Bachelor Parties where we would play poker and watch porn and drink. Most of the people at these were older than me, but the comments were always "Look at the horse cock on that guy" or stuff like that and I was thinking how that wasn't so big.
I was bigger than some, smaller than others. Being a grower, I'd never really thought my hard cock was that big because of others with bigger ones soft that I had seen in locker rooms.

Since then, I've found that porn with huge cocks sure puts the [FONT=&quot]emphasis[/FONT] on the novelty of owning a big cock and I'm sure most of us here find some satisfaction and pride in that
 

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I used to get intimidated. But then I realised that most guys in porn were my size (in some cases smaller) and only a few were HUGE. I saw Julian in a porno the other day, that shit looked huge. maybe 8 long but I'd say more than 6" girth...

Now its fun to think that I could be a pornstar :)

I don't watch porn much anymore but when I do there's not usually any jealousy etc involved. Unless the guy is REALLY huge. Then I just think 'ouch' for the girl hehe.
 

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uncut said:
:smile: Yes i would agree the size of their cocks didnt impress me Then my second thought was now thats a dream job! Having sex and getting paid for it.!

it's a freaking hard business and not a dream job :wink:
 

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Snakebyte said:
it's a freaking hard business and not a dream job :wink:

Yup. Imagine fucking in a cold set with lights, camera and crew all around. Imagine having to fuck in unnatural positions to allow the camera to catch the action/penetration. Imagine having to keep hard for hours on end. The pay isn't as good as most people think and porn isn't made in 1 take. If you can. Most porn stars who want good money strip and prostitute on the side.
 

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I have to say that "big length" is much more common than "big girth" in the world of porn and among men in general.

Big length does not impress me near as much as big girth.

Maybe penis size should be determined by weight. what do you think? Boys with big girth would automatically win, unless you're competing with Madingo. LOL

In fact, who are some porn stars known for big girth? Brian Pumper? Mr. Marcus?
They have some meat between their legs.
 

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Porn's a fantasy thing. You watch in porn stuff you wouldn't necessarily like/want in real life so I think comparing the reality of your schlong to a figure on the screen is slightly bizarre and to be intimidated is crazy. Furthermore none of my self-image is caught up in the size of my dick so its relative size is pretty irrelevant.
 

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Oh yeah, compared to the dirty factory job I'm about to get til school starts back up, getting paid to have sex with a girl like Jenna Haze is like slavework. :rolleyes:

Seriously though, I'm not trying to be a dick - I just have one posted on the interweb.
 

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I do like a pron film with a huge dick. What would anyones recommmendation be for a film that was all-out wall-to-wall giant cock from start to finish. I want to see tears of pain and possibly some DP