Diamond, I think your expectations for dick size, combined with other physical/mental attributes would render you hardly getting laid. If some guy had the expectation of a smart female, a gorgeous face, 34DDD natural boobs, long legs, short torso, chess playing, small pussied woman....i'd imagine he'd come across this type once in a life time. And if his most important attibute on her were to be 34DDD breasts, he's probably getting laid by a bunch of dumb ass big-titted women with no common sense/life skills.
The chances of coming across what you are looking for is highly unlikely, but by your posts you'd think you've struck gold everytime you pull a mans pants down. Either youre not that picky about everything else the guy has, outside of his dick, or you are the luckiest woman on the planet to land the package deal everytime you fuck someone new. Which one is it?