so tell me, was this wrong?

Sounds fine to me. Once they found out you weren't interested, at least you gave them something to beat off to.

 

Sounds a bit over-analysed. Since you asked for opinions, my feedback is that you might try to concentrate less about the levels of "why am I feeling this way" and "what will other people think" and allow yourself to enjoy the moment and how it makes you, and those with you, feel.

Sex, and I mean the noun, not the verb, is a pleasure. The only guilty pleasure is chocolate - we deserve all the other sorts.

Ease up on yourself and have fun.

 

It happens to me frequently at spas and saunas. Guys will often get hard when seeing other guys especially if you're hung. Sometimes they will engage in conversation and talk to you about it. I've been asked what it looks like when it's hard and what it measures. I'm proud of my cock and don't mind people talking about it or looking. I avoid any unwanted touching be clearly stating, I'll get it hard for you but no touching. I'm amazed how turned on they get watching it grow. People are naturally curious but I have boundaries. There have been times when I have allowed some one to touch me in the sauna and even suck me off but on rare occasions. I guess you have to evaluate every situation, keep you towel handy and leave if you are uncomfortable.

 

I think you did the right thing. I'm not an old person, but given that I have done a wealth of cruising for my age, I've noticed a couple of things when it comes to older men in cruisy situations. The first thing is, it's either go in head first, or get nothing. Once you hit a certain age (or weight for that matter), you are mostly undesirable to the general cruising sect. So in order to keep your place, you have to become majorly aggressive. The first cock you see, grab it...it doesn't matter what it looks like because that might be the only thing they get their entire time.

The second thing I noticed is that sometimes, just paying them some attention is the best way to gain respect. If you've got a big cock and the older men are kind of playing you close, just do what you did: let them see it, maybe put on a show, but make it clear that you aren't interested in taking it further. They will get off just the same watching you. They might be constantly pushing for that next step, but all you have to do is stand your ground and they'll leave you alone.

Things that don't work are showing aggressiveness back towards them. Being rude will only get you a cock block. If they don't take "no" for an answer, just leave. They will get the lashing from the other people around for chasing you away. Come back in a little while and they might be gone, or if they aren't, they won't really bother you because everyone else has got your back.

If you snap at them, two things can happen. One: You can inadvertantly chase off any other potentials because of your rude attitude, or two: they can just block you from getting any other action by following you around and trying to get in on your time with someone else.

I know I just broke down Wild Kingdom: Cruising Edition and alot of you may be like "WTF!?!" but these type of behaviours and the actions countering them actually work. I may spend or have spent a little too long cruising in my young life, but I have gained a wealth of street knowledge in the process.

 

There are tramps and teases out there every day People are used to it and aware of it Any time a man or woman wears extra revealing clothing they are trying to be a tease

I would caution you though because one day you might be over 60 yourself unless you are dead before then and ask yourself hw much would you like this sort of thing being done to you? Maybe think of some person who turns you on giving a show and then at the last second making clear there is no way they will let you touch them or they touch you Think of that and know what it would be like.