Can a man really improve his stamina? I know people talk about jelqing and things like that but they always say it's to help you learn the sensations and when you're getting close to the point of no return, then you can switch up speed/position/etc so you can keep going. But I've seen videos of guys lubing up and just going to town and lasting 5+ min. If I were to do that I would bust in a minute or two. Is that something I can actually work up to? Can some guys really go as long as they want and just decide when they want to cum?
I had ED problems since my 20's. I think it is a nerve/spine issue
And I was always worried about cumming too soon.
Now, I am giving myself Trimix injections into my dick. It stays rock hard.
And guess there was some mental switch that got flipped.
It takes me like forever and trying 4 different positions before I can cum.
My girlfriend absolutely loves it.
The plus side to those Trimix shots, once I cum, my erection still stays rock hard.
But it takes a lot of effort and concentration for me to cum a second time. Lately, it has been my right hand beating furiously while my girlfriend is naked laying next to me. She watches intently...after she has tried giving me a BJ and an HJ.
I am also 44 years old. I had 5.5 year long dryspell between January 2011 and May 2016 where I didn't date anybody. I knew I had a low testosterone problem, but it wasn't being treated. I don't want to get a woman all primed and ready to fuck snd NOT be able to close the deal.
I think part of my problem was not going to a civilian college and experiencing normal male to female relationships.
I think part of my problem was not going to a civilian college and experiencing normal male to female relationships.
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But of course! They can also learn to fire just one nut, insuring at least 'double pleasure'
And a few---very few, actually===can learn to orgasm w/o ejaculating. Two separate acts, generally happen simultaneously, often considered to be one and the same. But they're not.
And---ya!---the holy grail for many here----penis 'optimization' is very possible, has been happening for thousands of yrs----but all of the above are best initiated at an age that's outa bounds here.....
And a few---very few, actually===can learn to orgasm w/o ejaculating. Two separate acts, generally happen simultaneously, often considered to be one and the same. But they're not.
And---ya!---the holy grail for many here----penis 'optimization' is very possible, has been happening for thousands of yrs----but all of the above are best initiated at an age that's outa bounds here.....
My wife and o have literally fucked for two hours before. We used several non streneous positions when would get tired. Our erotic feelings would take over at times. I have learned to put off cumming longer and longer over a period of years. Yes you can learn to prolong cumming longer and longer to answer your question. It takes practice. We love to fuck!
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Can he? Yeah of course. I'm guessing it depends on health. Otherwise, you do realize theres a difference between flopping the meat stick and sexy time though right? Regarding stamina i mean.
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I like to cum on her tits first. I don't orgasm, just cum. That takes the pressure off so I can pound in to the finish.
I can go as long as I want.... 15min... 30 min..... 45min.....then when I am ready I focus and then cum.....
play with yourself... fuck her often.....it helps.....
play with yourself... fuck her often.....it helps.....
Ok,, so I'm gathering from a few that you were able to improve your control (some didn't really say where they started - like could you only last a minute or two). What are some actual tips in improving?
dude at times when I was going to cum... and I didn't want to I would think of baseball, or eating something nasty. Like I said , play with yourself 1st... the whole something about mary gig... you don't wanna go in with a loaded gun!
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I've had guys that didn't last 10 seconds, and ones that lasted 5-6 hours or longer.
I'm pretty sure it's a skill just like any other, and you can practice and get better at it.
If its any help, the guys that can last a really long time switch positions a lot, go really slow now and then, and sometimes even totally stop for a minute. The change in rhythm is really nice, and if you're going to fuck me for hours it helps to keep things interesting
I enjoy a good hard pounding but not when it's just like a monotonous nonstop jackhammer
I'm pretty sure it's a skill just like any other, and you can practice and get better at it.
If its any help, the guys that can last a really long time switch positions a lot, go really slow now and then, and sometimes even totally stop for a minute. The change in rhythm is really nice, and if you're going to fuck me for hours it helps to keep things interesting
I enjoy a good hard pounding but not when it's just like a monotonous nonstop jackhammer
I think 22D rock has it right. Practice, change positions, vary the speed and techniques . My record , two years ago, with just one person is a total of four hours fucking in a six hours session before exploding at the end. Another tip is to pinch the root of your penis when you feel the orgasm rising and hold tight until it subsides. I used to use this in my youth. Now at 75 it does take longer to reach orgasm and ejaculation anyway but is it still bloody good when it cums.
I've had guys that didn't last 10 seconds, and ones that lasted 5-6 hours or longer.
I'm pretty sure it's a skill just like any other, and you can practice and get better at it.
If its any help, the guys that can last a really long time switch positions a lot, go really slow now and then, and sometimes even totally stop for a minute. The change in rhythm is really nice, and if you're going to fuck me for hours it helps to keep things interesting
I enjoy a good hard pounding but not when it's just like a monotonous nonstop jackhammer
^^^^^^^This all day!
Nailz, that's how I do it too! I especially love the complete stopping and being inside her; that chance to hold, hug and stare into each other's eyes and smile and laugh and even talk a little bit, it makes for a very passionate and relaxing moment. And then when you start moving again, it feels REALLY fantastic and she loves it!
The one thing that is key, for me, is breathing. Taking deep breathes during sex is amazing. When I start to feel like I'm at like a 7 out of 10 from cumming, I say to myself "wait a minute, I got more than this, she wants to keep cumming, take a deep breathe fool!" and while still fucking I'll breathe in and out purposefully and start focusing on the sex way more intensely. I'm not a mega stud and don't insist we fuck for hours, our longest sessions go like 30 minutes because it's too much on her pussy: better to fuck today AND tomorrow rather than a long time today and not get it for a few days while she heals...
I mastered being able to last a while from focusing more on the sex and her than thinking about the movies or ballgames. The distraction, at least to me, seems to make the sex feel more jarring, like "I'm thinking about basketball...but wait!! I'M HAVING SEX AND IT FEELS SO GOOOOOOD!!!!" and blammo, I cum. So I gave up on that, just seemed like the distraction made me detached from the sex-act and when I tried to NOT focus on the sex, my cock, and her, it made me hyper-aware of it and I would cum instantly.
Exercise is great too. Build up your muscles so you can hold up your body over her for endless periods of time. I can stay strong in missionary for probably 15 minutes and not ever feel like my body is worn out. Making the blood flow hardcore from exercise is wonderful, lots of benefits. if you have stamina in exercise, imagine the stamina you have during sex!!
Do you get blowjobs before sex? That might help reduce the pleasure sensations once your in that sweet pussy
Kind of a warm up for your cock, gives you that nice feeling before you finally dive in for the best feeling!Once I'm going, especially after the 10 minute mark, I have to make myself cum. I have to focus on my moves and work up the sensation in my whole pelvis to erupt. My wife loves it, she loves that I'm working hard to finish, and loves my finish all over her
But every now and then, she moves her hips a certain way when I'm behind her and I'll go to 9.9999999 out of 10 on the O scale, and have to either change position right away or, again, breathe and try to work the reflex down.Lastly communicate! Talking, and not just dirty talk like "you like this cock?!" or my favorite "take this cock bitch/girl/slut/ho/woman!!!" that's not the talky talk I'm talking about. And not "did you pay that bill?" or "what do you want for dinner?" but more like "how is this for you right now? Do you want to try another position? Does this feel good? Wow this is awesome honey, you're the best!" Stuff like that, and stuff that makes you laugh a little. All that little itty bitty stuff can center you and help you not worry about lasting longer, and instead you actually start having sex with your significant other that continues for a duration rather than using the time to focus on lasting longer. I guess the idea is to not think about lasting longer while doing it, but focus more intently on the matter at hand: your cock in the person you are with right now!
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Cardio and edging works well for me. I usually put out at least a 45 min session. There is no such thing as a quickie in my case.
