Straight men getting head from gays?

[BlackGirl]

I've said it countless times before, but... On this very site, and on a few others, you'd be amazed at how many 100,000% "straight" guys (married, 2.3 kids, the whole deal), have hit me up privately. It's why I don't really bother with the whole labeling thing, in the first place.

Homosexuality is still stigmatized in society, so those who are in denial and are afraid of coming out will seek the shelter of a marriage, kids and all the trappings of a heterosexual lifestyle. It is men in this category who are hitting you up for sexual encounters, not heterosexual men.

 

[BlackGirl]

It may be your definition of gay but it is not what being gay is. Only a straight man would give an answer like this. So here is the deal. Whan you are gay you are attracted to and desire both sexually and emitionally to be with a guy. I was once married, and had sex with my wife. I was never straight. I was a gay man having sex with a woman. The old addage Just because you are in the garage doesn't make you a car is true.

You can be straight but have gay sex. But having gay sex does not make you gay. Even a little.

Maybe it is easier for a gay man to understand that because we often are pressured by society to pretend to be straight and yes even to the point of getting married to a woman. I actually thought at 20 years old maybe getting married would some how make me straight. It didn't.

And you are the type of gay man who would have been hitting up Novice btm for sexual encounters while married, while he would have thought he hit the jackpot by getting that all elusive "straight" men that so many gay men lust after. :smile:

 

[BlackGirl]

I don't think I've ever seen any of the "straight" guys anser this age old question....

If a gay man in a gay relationship, sucks on a womans nipples, is he then straight?

What if he has intercourse with her? Straight then?

Why is he sucking on her nipples? What led up to it? This sounds like a bisexual man to me.

 

[BlackGirl]

There was an interesting thread recently about whether gay men would let a woman give them a blow-job. The majority who responded, wouldn't. They wanted more sense stimuli than just a warm wet mouth divorced from the actual person performing.

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So when all these gay men were showing their disgust at a woman giving them head(because I know they were), were straight men and women coming in the thread and attacking them by telling them that they were lying, that "if their eyes were closed it would feel good from a woman", they're in denial, etc...and all those other stupid arguments that are used to discredit straight men? Probably not.

 

[D_Luke_DickStalker]

LOL



ok, so why is a man sudddenly gay if he's letting another man blow him?

Straight with bi tendencies is how I would describe it. :smile:

I would just call it bi, but I hate putting label on things.

 

[BlackGirl]

I would just call it bi, but I hate putting label on things.

There's nothing wrong with labels, this site even put labels in the profiles. It seems like the only time when people have a problem with labels is when it comes to heterosexual men.

 

[Countryguy63]

Why is he sucking on her nipples? What led up to it? This sounds like a bisexual man to me.

Ok, but why is he "bisexual", and a guy that considers himself "straight", but let's a guy give him head and enjoys it, is automatically labelled as "gay"?

I really believe people that do that, do it in a negative way.

 

[BlackGirl]

Ok, but why is he "bisexual", and a guy that considers himself "straight", but let's a guy give him head and enjoys it, is automatically labelled as "gay"?

I really believe people that do that, do it in a negative way.

The guy who considers himself straight but engages in oral sex with another man will be either bi or gay, but not straight.

 

[novice_btm]

Homosexuality is still stigmatized in society, so those who are in denial and are afraid of coming out will seek the shelter of a marriage, kids and all the trappings of a heterosexual lifestyle. It is men in this category who are hitting you up for sexual encounters, not heterosexual men.

When the only indicator available, is their little "100% Straight" label, and them screaming in the forums that they're STRAIGHT!!! You can see the dilemma of not being able to identify who really is and isn't actually a Kinsey - 0, as opposed to a Kinsey - 1-3. As an aside, Kinsey 1 & 2, are still classified as "straight".

 

[BlackGirl]

When the only indicator available, is their little "100% Straight" label, and them screaming in the forums that they're STRAIGHT!!! You can see the dilemma of not being able to identify who really is and isn't actually a Kinsey - 0, as opposed to a Kinsey - 1-3. As an aside, Kinsey 1 & 2, are still classified as "straight".

So what if heterosexual men scream that they are straight? Why is that so offensive to some homosexual men? Homosexual men, who are proud of who they are scream that they are gay all the time and nobody questions their true intentions. Is it that heterosexual men who are comfortable with their orientation make you feel somehow unwanted and rejected? Furthermore, this is just an anonymous forum, we don't really know who is behind each and every one of these profiles, anybody can pretend to be anything they want, but if you say that you have all these "straight" men beating down your door then that would mean that these men are not really hetero after all and are just gay or bi men who are hiding behind the institution of marriage.

 

[mandoman]

It's almost exclusively 100% straight guys on cam here.
A contradiction? Seemingly. Who am I, to question someone else's sexual self identification?

 

[B_nudebudlondon]

Its not a competition between the genders its all a matter of preference.ALso an understanding of your own genitals. I've heard many woman say they prefer cunnilingus which another woman.

Lets also face it a 'Straight' man is having a blow job of another man then he's not 100% straight. Which is one thing I like about this site it asked you of your sexual %.

Honesty about sexuality without passing judgement on our personal preferences is helping us all to being one step closer to a loving WORLD!

That's your opinion and those of other gay and bisexual men. Within a heterosexual relationship, there is more than oral sex. Women have VAGINAS, that can be wetter and tighter than a mouth. This is why I believe that homosexual men who are obsessed with heterosexual men are so fixated on oral sex because that is the one thing they feel they can trump women over, but they can't.

 

[novice_btm]

So what if heterosexual men scream that they are straight? Why is that so offensive to some homosexual men?...

You completely missed the point. What I was saying is that when the heterosexual is screaming that they're straight, and then PM other guys that they're curious, how is someone, whose only indication is their label, and their public screaming, to know which is which?

And I really don't think homosexuals find heteros claiming to be straight offensive. That's putting words into their mouths, and this thread is about cocks being put into mouths, not the defense of today's beleaguered state of being a male, whatever the label. But that's not fitting into the agenda of some.

 

[houtx48]

I say the 99% of men have had some sort of gay experence in their lives. Some have more, some never do it again. I think most happen during adolescence.

 

[Zayne]

It may be your definition of gay but it is not what being gay is. Only a straight man would give an answer like this.

Haha, we have different definitions of a word? Fine, generalize the term "gay" to apply to the entire human race if it makes you feel less stigmatized, guilty, sad about past school incidents, etc. Accept yourself, you are not flawed, but we are not all the same in our sexual attractions.

 

[woodyq]

Would you (assuming that you're straight) ever get a blowjob from a gay guy?

i said no way for about 27 years then accepted one and it was amazing. have since gotten it from him twice more

 

[D_Jess_Kilme]

i said no way for about 27 years then accepted one and it was amazing. have since gotten it from him twice more

Good for you Woody. And tell me, did you grow horns or become gay, bi or green with polka dot pink spots because of it? I suspect not.

Like somebody said earlier on this thread, "the fact that I sometimes eat (and like) broccoli does not make me a vegetarian!"

MXM sexual acts are not the preserve of the gay and bi only! In fact, every time a guy jacks himself off he is making love to a guy. Gay? Hell no!

Gay or bi is much more involved and complex a state than merely fucking or sucking people of the same gender. To suggest that gay is defined simply by engaging in MXM sexual acts is to dumb it down - the source of much of the anti gay hysteria out there.

At the same time, to suggest that straight is defined by a lack of MXM sexual acts, is equally dumb!

Let people decide what they are, let them self identify and then let them be.

And dump the labels!

I am proudly NOT gay, bi or straight.

The fact that I indicate 90% straight here on LPSG is because if I said I was 100% straight I might lose out on a hot blow job from a hot gay!

 

[mj21045]

Woody...what finally made you change your mind?

i said no way for about 27 years then accepted one and it was amazing. have since gotten it from him twice more

 

[BlackGirl]

Its not a competition between the genders its all a matter of preference.ALso an understanding of your own genitals. I've heard many woman say they prefer cunnilingus which another woman.

Lets also face it a 'Straight' man is having a blow job of another man then he's not 100% straight. Which is one thing I like about this site it asked you of your sexual %.

If a woman says she prefers sex with another woman, or if a gay man says he prefers sexual acts with another man, no one will try to chastise them and tell them they are repressing their feelings for the opposite sex. This only happens if a straight man says that he loves women. Then you will have all the gays coming out telling him that he needs to try men, men are better, he's homophobic, blah blah blah..... These gay men who show intolerance to hetero men are usually misogynists because women are their natural competition when it comes to getting straight men. You see it time and time again on this board and in real life. And I agree with you, there is nothing straight about a man getting a blowjob from another man and this is the point that seems to draw a lot of ire on this site.

 

[BlackGirl]

You completely missed the point. What I was saying is that when the heterosexual is screaming that they're straight, and then PM other guys that they're curious, how is someone, whose only indication is their label, and their public screaming, to know which is which?

And I really don't think homosexuals find heteros claiming to be straight offensive. That's putting words into their mouths, and this thread is about cocks being put into mouths, not the defense of today's beleaguered state of being a male, whatever the label. But that's not fitting into the agenda of some.

You won't know which is which on this forum, this is the internet, anybody can claim anything while being another. It's not like everyone has to pass some psychological analysis before becoming a member. For example, I have several male friends on LPSG tell me that gay men have created profiles posing as women to try to get them to cam or send nude pics. Now why would they do that? Because until sites like this require that members undergo background investigations before joining, people will always put up whatever facade they want because they know they can get away with it.