I am horny a lot. How do I find and talk to a "real" woman as into sex as me? I mean actual face to face, not online.
Please don't insert dick pics in Ask a Woman threads...
You're much more likely to get a favorable response, or -any- responses to threads (in Ask a Woman) if you don't do so
As for when I was promiscuous, single, and had multiple friends with benefits? Some I found online and some I found through social circles. Less so the latter, because while I wanted to be able to have a conversation with the people I had sex with, I didn't want to run into them all the time either. Especially if they behaved like an asshat and I cut them off.
You're much more likely to get a favorable response, or -any- responses to threads (in Ask a Woman) if you don't do so
As for when I was promiscuous, single, and had multiple friends with benefits? Some I found online and some I found through social circles. Less so the latter, because while I wanted to be able to have a conversation with the people I had sex with, I didn't want to run into them all the time either. Especially if they behaved like an asshat and I cut them off.
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I'm probably way more into sex than you. But I never asked to see your dick. If I had wanted to, I would have looked for your gallery. If I found you interesting, you would already know. There are two sections on this site where embedded dick pictures are unwelcome. This is one of those.
To answer your question, be a decent and interesting dude. Live life. If you aren't meeting women compatible with you, examine your interactions, and yourself. The answer is in there.
Try the other site. Sexual Forums. Same owner. I hear the women there are friendlier to your type.
I mean... You ask how to meet women as interested in sex as you in person, and then flash your dick. Have you been doing that in person too? Because... That's rude, and might be the problem. You should treat people online the same way you treat people in person.
To answer your question, be a decent and interesting dude. Live life. If you aren't meeting women compatible with you, examine your interactions, and yourself. The answer is in there.
Try the other site. Sexual Forums. Same owner. I hear the women there are friendlier to your type.
I mean... You ask how to meet women as interested in sex as you in person, and then flash your dick. Have you been doing that in person too? Because... That's rude, and might be the problem. You should treat people online the same way you treat people in person.
DAMN IT! DUDE!! Bad form!
No embedding the dick pic. If people wanna see ya peen, they will find your gallery. Drive-by dick embedding is just not done in AaW.
I'm very interested in sex. I very much enjoy sex. My current sex life and my sexual history. I'm a sex-positive lil hump monkey.
I'm not currently on the market for a new partner. The one I got keeps me happy
No embedding the dick pic. If people wanna see ya peen, they will find your gallery. Drive-by dick embedding is just not done in AaW.
I'm very interested in sex. I very much enjoy sex. My current sex life and my sexual history. I'm a sex-positive lil hump monkey.
I'm not currently on the market for a new partner. The one I got keeps me happy
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GROSS
MY VAGINA JUST FLEW AWAY TO BERMUDA WITH MICKLEYLEE & CO FOR DRINKS AND FUN
MY VAGINA JUST FLEW AWAY TO BERMUDA WITH MICKLEYLEE & CO FOR DRINKS AND FUN
Oh, I'll add that even when fucking 1-2 times a day on average I still would be happy having sex more often than that. There's a reason why during my time spans of being single I usually had multiple FWBs who all knew they were just an FWB and that we were not exclusive. I told them to have good sex/have fun when I knew they were going to spend time with other people they fucked.
I love sex. I love lots of sex I enjoy and love my sweetie's body, including his dick. I watch porn. I don't appreciate when guys on here flash me their dick without my prior approval. I can look at galleries and I'm more than capable of asking to see someone if they interest me. There has been a grand total of -one- man I've asked to see more photos of in the last few years on here. Maybe even the last several years? I can't remember at this point. That's because he was an interesting person, even if we may not agree on everything (which honestly, thank goodness for that... that would be immensely boring if everyone was the same). That's because he was polite. I checked his gallery out all on my own and chose to ask to see more of him, when he mentioned not showing as many photos openly on here due to tattoos. Attractive personality, attractive intellect, the attractive face and body he has are just a bonus.
From spending time here and elsewhere, it seems men who are seeking men online deal with a fairly significant amount of catfishing and bots and so one, just like men seeking women online. It takes some effort, no matter who is seeking what it seems like. Especially if you don't have low standards. I'm an introvert. I would rather curl up with a good book than to go to a bar. That doesn't lessen the amount of back clawing, muffled moaning, hot and bothered sex I enjoy. In the past I did find hook-ups through the internet. I was selective as hell. I screened/filtered like hell. I was very specific about what I sought, what I was offering, and the boundaries I had. I rarely wanted a full blown one night (or afternoon or morning) stand. I liked being able to have someone I knew enough to have really good sex with regularly. That also meant I had to be able to have conversations with them without wanting to strangle them.
I didn't have to go to social events with them. I generally didn't want to. Sometimes one of us would bring food when we went to spend time with the other, but not often. It's not like we went on dates. It's not like we begrudged if the other person was having sex with other people. The ones who did, I dropped. I didn't begrudge when they had someone they were romantically interested in and stopped having casual sex. So did the people who were selfish/didn't make sure I enjoyed myself as well. So did the one person who I found out had a significant other. I don't want anything to do with cheaters. So did the one person who didn't get the hint to up his hygiene. I'm not an arrogant/etc person, but I know I'm pretty cute. I know I'm kinkier than a fair few folks. Being female and that I mostly sought male partners for casual weighed odds in my favor. It allowed me to be picky. Men who responded who seemed pushy, needy, mean, or stupid didn't get responses from me. They had to be at least a little charismatic. Immediately being sent a dick picture knocked them out of the running too.
Having said all of that, those are just the things I looked for and some of the things I avoided. I've been monogamous and happy for years at this point. I've never used Tinder or any of that shit, so I have no idea what that crap is like. Other people's experiences differ wildly, I'm sure.
I love sex. I love lots of sex I enjoy and love my sweetie's body, including his dick. I watch porn. I don't appreciate when guys on here flash me their dick without my prior approval. I can look at galleries and I'm more than capable of asking to see someone if they interest me. There has been a grand total of -one- man I've asked to see more photos of in the last few years on here. Maybe even the last several years? I can't remember at this point. That's because he was an interesting person, even if we may not agree on everything (which honestly, thank goodness for that... that would be immensely boring if everyone was the same). That's because he was polite. I checked his gallery out all on my own and chose to ask to see more of him, when he mentioned not showing as many photos openly on here due to tattoos. Attractive personality, attractive intellect, the attractive face and body he has are just a bonus.
From spending time here and elsewhere, it seems men who are seeking men online deal with a fairly significant amount of catfishing and bots and so one, just like men seeking women online. It takes some effort, no matter who is seeking what it seems like. Especially if you don't have low standards. I'm an introvert. I would rather curl up with a good book than to go to a bar. That doesn't lessen the amount of back clawing, muffled moaning, hot and bothered sex I enjoy. In the past I did find hook-ups through the internet. I was selective as hell. I screened/filtered like hell. I was very specific about what I sought, what I was offering, and the boundaries I had. I rarely wanted a full blown one night (or afternoon or morning) stand. I liked being able to have someone I knew enough to have really good sex with regularly. That also meant I had to be able to have conversations with them without wanting to strangle them.
I didn't have to go to social events with them. I generally didn't want to. Sometimes one of us would bring food when we went to spend time with the other, but not often. It's not like we went on dates. It's not like we begrudged if the other person was having sex with other people. The ones who did, I dropped. I didn't begrudge when they had someone they were romantically interested in and stopped having casual sex. So did the people who were selfish/didn't make sure I enjoyed myself as well. So did the one person who I found out had a significant other. I don't want anything to do with cheaters. So did the one person who didn't get the hint to up his hygiene. I'm not an arrogant/etc person, but I know I'm pretty cute. I know I'm kinkier than a fair few folks. Being female and that I mostly sought male partners for casual weighed odds in my favor. It allowed me to be picky. Men who responded who seemed pushy, needy, mean, or stupid didn't get responses from me. They had to be at least a little charismatic. Immediately being sent a dick picture knocked them out of the running too.
Having said all of that, those are just the things I looked for and some of the things I avoided. I've been monogamous and happy for years at this point. I've never used Tinder or any of that shit, so I have no idea what that crap is like. Other people's experiences differ wildly, I'm sure.
You *think* you want a woman who is constantly horny until you realize that your dick isn't capable of staying hard as long as her vagina is capable of getting fucked. Then you start feeling insecure, like you can't satisfy her... Then eventually you accuse her of cheating because she's always horny and you don't fuck her Every Single Time she asks for it.
Then YOU start being the one who isn't as interested in sex because it just makes you feel like less of a man...
(I'm being an asshole on purpose. That's what you get for the dick-pick)
Then YOU start being the one who isn't as interested in sex because it just makes you feel like less of a man...
(I'm being an asshole on purpose. That's what you get for the dick-pick)
I can't possibly fuck someone who wears an onion bag for underwear.
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Apparently you already know how to talk to "real" women - you just force your dick in their faces. "Real" women just luuuuuv that...
Be likeable
Be fuckable
Understand nobody is interested in your dick until they're interested in your dick
The fact that you think your dick had anything to do with your question doesn't bode well for you...
Be fuckable
Understand nobody is interested in your dick until they're interested in your dick
The fact that you think your dick had anything to do with your question doesn't bode well for you...
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Oh dear oh dear, well you've learned not to post dick pics here (which for the record believe me is by no means an impressive one at that) We very much exist hunni, I somehow think I'd have you with my morning coffee and be looking for a REAL MAN to dig out the disappointment you left sweetie!
Well that was interesting. I am not an internet chat genius nor know the rules of everything on here. And fyi, I did try to delete the dick pic after i posted it. I thought i was just posting the link to my profile page and that showed in the thread. So sorry about that. I still don't know how to delete it out of the thread. So please forgive my internet ineptitude. As for people talking shit about my pics....thank you. I am sure you are all perfect specimines!
Thank you for the common sense fair reply. You sound like a solid person.DAMN IT! DUDE!! Bad form!
No embedding the dick pic. If people wanna see ya peen, they will find your gallery. Drive-by dick embedding is just not done in AaW.
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Well hey now... I threw in a silly face for fucks sake.
I was being honest though, I don't know how a lot of men would really feel about being with a woman who is sexually more demanding than him.
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My husband doesn't know how to handle it either. I just get turned down a lot because he works a lot and he's tired.
I guess my earlier posts weren't "common sense" or "fair" enough
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It takes a very strong & secure man to " handle" us high drive Sexual Goddesses -
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