In my new, limited, and recent experience here, I would say it all depends on which side of the fence you're standing. Just as with any other place, echo chambers are abound. Cliques form mainly to reaffirm ones own beliefs, such is the nature of groupthink.
As far as women may appear to have come, this is still a patriarchal, male dominated society whereby the ruling group sets the standards for what they deem acceptable at any given time. It ain't ok til they say it's ok and then it's, "damn you! how dare you not agree with this or that moral stance!"
As welcoming as it may seem, to someone who's identity/personality has been considered "appropriate", this site is predominantly male and gay male. Therefore the gaze and overall themes of the site are seen through the perspective of gay male interests. Of course, in the interest of "acceptance", they'll allow the existence of outright and blatant female sexuality... etched out in a small corner. Which is absolutely fine, it's part of what makes the nation great. However, it would be interesting to find out if there are equivalent places out there in size and popularity that are primarily accommodating to women and particularly gay women.
**These are just my thoughts and opinions, not meant to offend anyone or instigate a negative response. Please and thank you.
