The joys of SPH experiences and fantasies

Derringer

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I have posted a lot in regards to my SPH inspired sexual history and ever increasing sexual lifestyle. I would love to hear about and exchange stories about this fetish with fellow fetishists and any others who are connected to or curious about it in anyway.
I consider myself very fortunate that I have been able to fulfill some fantasies, realized new ones and have had three different girlfriends, numerous much better endowed guys and numerous entirely new and previously unimagined activities that I never thought I would engage in. Examples of some of these are 'Watching as better endowed men fuck my girlfriends and/or their partners' - Engaging directly with the other guy involved in a threesome or foresome in numerous ways including letting them fuck me while the woman or women watch - entertaining the desire to suck their 'superior member' while the woman/women watch (as yet not engaged in but I am close to giving it a go) as well as a huge variety of sph related activities aided and abetted by various women either by circumstance or direct involvement to give me an sph kick. It can be as simple as them confessing that I have a surprisingly tiny penis and being unsatisfied by it or engaging in gossip with female friends about size related things and revealing to them that I have a tiny cock while they boast about their partners past and present being decently endowed and skilled.
I had one gf who was totally embarrassed that her much younger sisters much younger bf totally outmanned me. This was unintentional sph for me but she didnt know I was in the early stages of the fetish. I actually got more aroused than angry when I caught her fucking a well endowed flatmate and to my surprise I found I enjoyed watching him fuck her. We still broke up but nonetheless it was a huge turn on.
 
I first realized that I actually enjoyed being smaller than most t when I shared a poolside locker with a mate nicknamed Titch due to being 5’2” tall. I’m 5’10”.
He looked down at my groin, laughed because my balls had disappeared and my dick was a skinny two inches at the most.
He then waggled a thick five inch softy sitting on top of a huge pair of balls and said “ if everyone could see us now you’d be the one called Titch!”
It was very embarrassing but also tinged with an unexpected sense of excitement
 
I first realized that I actually enjoyed being smaller than most t when I shared a poolside locker with a mate nicknamed Titch due to being 5’2” tall. I’m 5’10”.
He looked down at my groin, laughed because my balls had disappeared and my dick was a skinny two inches at the most.
He then waggled a thick five inch softy sitting on top of a huge pair of balls and said “ if everyone could see us now you’d be the one called Titch!”
It was very embarrassing but also tinged with an unexpected sense of excitement
It is odd actually getting off on being smaller but I often fantasize being even tinier - more often than being bigger. I have occasionally purposefully had a cold shower or other means that cause shrinkage before a girl has seen my tiny penis just so it will be absolutely babysized. It shrivels up to truly babylike proportions.
 
It is odd actually getting off on being smaller but I often fantasize being even tinier - more often than being bigger. I have occasionally purposefully had a cold shower or other means that cause shrinkage before a girl has seen my tiny penis just so it will be absolutely babysized. It shrivels up to truly babylike proportions.
I’m the same. Even on LPSG I like putting up pictures where I’m at my absolute smallest. Some other members are shocked, think I’ve digitally altered the photo and even, on one occasion asked if I was on hormones to shrink my cock! Knowing that I’m not just small but small enough to provoke disbelief is honestly a turn on!
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I’m the same. Even on LPSG I like putting up pictures where I’m at my absolute smallest. Some other members are shocked, think I’ve digitally altered the photo and even, on one occasion asked if I was on hormones to shrink my cock! Knowing that I’m not just small but small enough to provoke disbelief is honestly a turn on!
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mine shrivels up to about the size of a baby gherkin and the lack of girth as well as length makes it appear absolutely babysize.
 
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I’m the same. Even on LPSG I like putting up pictures where I’m at my absolute smallest. Some other members are shocked, think I’ve digitally altered the photo and even, on one occasion asked if I was on hormones to shrink my cock! Knowing that I’m not just small but small enough to provoke disbelief is honestly a turn on!
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Then you should be turned on because holy shit that is a really small dick.
 
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Then you should be turned on because holy shit that is a really small dick.
Believe me, I am! The fact that even amongst SPH enthusiasts online I am still giving away at least an inch in flaccid size means I might genuinely have the smallest soft penis on this website (waiting for photographic evidence to prove otherwise. . .)
 
Are used to hook up with the guy who cock was twice my size and length and width.
He would grab my hard little dick and mock my size which only made both of us harder.
something about seeing my little cock in huge hands made me whimper with excitement.
he told me one time he’s gonna suck my ass until my cock get bigger. That almost made me cym right in his hand. Needless to say he tried but I never got any better but I loved the challenge
 
Are used to hook up with the guy who cock was twice my size and length and width.
He would grab my hard little dick and mock my size which only made both of us harder.
something about seeing my little cock in huge hands made me whimper with excitement.
he told me one time he’s gonna suck my ass until my cock get bigger. That almost made me cym right in his hand. Needless to say he tried but I never got any better but I loved the challenge
Love the look of a big hand on my little dick. Bet your hardon looked minuscule.
 
I often peruse 'Ultimate Surrender Wrestling' websites. If you dont know what they are basically they are challenges where the opponents engage in 'sexual wrestling' getting points for a variety of sexual grabbing, fingering, rubbing , fondling etc etc whilst wrestling. The eventual winner then has their way with the vanquished. The competitions are girl on girl, guy on guy or girl on guy.
I view all the variations for different sexual kicks but for me the most arousing for SPH purposes is the girl on guy where the woman wins. I fantasize that I am the losing male with the added humiliation of having a tiny penis. In my fantasy version she of course right from the start she mocks my little cock. In the end she doesnt just wank my pathetic little prick but she fucks me with a huge strap on.
 
It is odd actually getting off on being smaller but I often fantasize being even tinier - more often than being bigger. I have occasionally purposefully had a cold shower or other means that cause shrinkage before a girl has seen my tiny penis just so it will be absolutely babysized. It shrivels up to truly babylike proportions.

I've done something like that also. I was prescribed some medication that made my penis shrink like I had been swimming in freezing water. I would wait until I was headed to the gym to take the meds. I get off to being tiny and shrunken in the locker room. I would not try covering up and would walk naked to and from the showers. No one has said anything, but I would get looks though. It is strange that I get off to being so small while around men with large swinging dicks. I also fantasize about being even smaller. I've been locking it up in a small flat chastity penis cage recently to make it even smaller.
 
I've done something like that also. I was prescribed some medication that made my penis shrink like I had been swimming in freezing water. I would wait until I was headed to the gym to take the meds. I get off to being tiny and shrunken in the locker room. I would not try covering up and would walk naked to and from the showers. No one has said anything, but I would get looks though. It is strange that I get off to being so small while around men with large swinging dicks. I also fantasize about being even smaller. I've been locking it up in a small flat chastity penis cage recently to make it even smaller.
It looks great. Small but very hairy is a hot combination in my opinion (my cock / bush is similar) and having that stark contrast with a huge thick swinging cock is just *chef’s kiss*
 
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The entire concept of SPH amazes me. I didn't even know it existed until a couple of years ago. I came across so many stories of guys desiring the very experiences I've been having for years and not once have I ever asked for.
Anybody who loves and craves sph would love being a small(er) dicked black man.
 
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I have a rampant SPH fetish. (anyone who has perused almost any of my postings probably figured that out)
I have enjoyed my kink for quite a long time but new SPH kicks can be harder to experience. As a result of that my sex life has become considerably more expansive and explorative (with a great deal of aiding and abetting by my current girlfriend as well as a couple of former gfs)
Since the onslaught of the pandemic much of this activity has been put on hold despite things in general having normalised (if you put aside all the other dystopian events competing for our attention)
However our broader sex life has not kickstarted into life again. We lost touch with some people we were engaged with, a couple of others are in new relationships and they have basically monogamised.
My gf is so busy with her work I only see her once or twice a week and that is almost entirely on weekends. We havent engaged in one on one sex with each other for at least 6 months but our sexual activities mostly included other guys or couples very early on in our relationship anyway.
(this was supposed to be a quick post about the here and now but I seem to need to set the scene with a bit of history)
Basically she has been getting pretty much all of her sexual gratification from our hookups with others. I get much of mine from the SPH that comes with the territory. We were both well aware when we coupled up it was not based on my ability to satisfy her sexually. ( she likes big dicks and I have a very tiny one)
Right from the start we planned to bring other guys into the bedroom. i love watching her get satisfied properly and I am hugely aroused by the SpH aspect of it. We are moving into a new phase though due to the fact that the threesome, foursome thing has ( at least for the time being ) been off the cards.
I gave her tge green light to fuck other guys while I am not involved even in a voyeur capacity. She agreed to give me at least a partial play by play of any hookups she has and if any of them are up for some fun with me present as just a voyeur watching and wanking or to any degree they like.
Two things happened today when I saw her. She told me that she had recently fucked a guy she met on one if her temp jobs but will give me details when I see her on the wknd. She also hinted that he may possibly be into fucking her in front of me. She had put to him after they did the dirty deed. She told him about me and our semi open relationship suggesting if he wanted to fuck her again She was into it but would like to spice it up a bit saying she loves to be watched (very true which is another bonus for her in our sexual activities)
I dont know if it will actually happen at all but I am imagining it and hoping that it will spice up my weekend. I am extremely aroused right now by the idea of it. ( she told me his cock is almost as big as the biggest guy we have ever engaged with. That guy had what I would refer to as a truncheon. )
 
It turns me on how confused well hung guys can be by a small dick like mine, when they don't know how to jack it at first, and almost can't seem to understand what they're looking at. For me, I think the thrill of sph is mostly about being seen honestly by a well hung guy, and his being interested in the difference. That's inherently humiliating, but it doesn't involve exaggerations, like calling my dick a clit. I just love it when a well hung guy can't fathom being my size, and gets off on how I worship his big one compared to my little one.
 
It turns me on how confused well hung guys can be by a small dick like mine, when they don't know how to jack it at first, and almost can't seem to understand what they're looking at. For me, I think the thrill of sph is mostly about being seen honestly by a well hung guy, and his being interested in the difference. That's inherently humiliating, but it doesn't involve exaggerations, like calling my dick a clit. I just love it when a well hung guy can't fathom being my size, and gets off on how I worship his big one compared to my little one.
Very interesting. You know how I feel about small cocks being a big guy. What you think about that ? Does it confuse you ?