The venting about gym creeps thread
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When I was a competing hardcore bodybuilder, I'd do two-a-days in the gym. Always hit the gym by 5:15 am and out by 7:30 am. Still had three guys in various places in the gymspace follow me. On days I worked back, I go into the steam room and lay my back on the hot tiles soothe the muscle pain from deadlifts and other exercises. A guy in his late 70s would give me head . I never needed much stimulus to get a hardon cock. And then, I'd go into the showers, a bear-type bodybuilder would be lathing himself up with soap for 10 minutes or more and looking at me. Then, in locker room, some Vietnamese guy would get right into my space when putting on clothes again. At night when I did 8 to 9:50 pm workout for small bodyparts needing attention and doing cardio for 50 minutes. guys would follow me into locker room. And if i went into the steam room, they would all follow me in. Got pissed a couple of times at them and did the expected alpha dom verbal thing they were expecting. It should have been filmed!
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Is there any way to compliment a guy in the gym on his physique or dick size without staring or coming across as a creep?
Oh, I've thought about that too, and sometimes I see old faces at the gym that I don't recognize but see often, and I'm tempted to compliment them when I see them progressing and getting in better shape.
But I don't dare to compliment them, it feels weird to imagine the scene.
It's just that I don't even dare to mention the body shape, and the cock is even more so. At most, I'd sneak out a wow when I saw they had big cocks.
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or you could see it as a flattering move on his part. He thinks you are hot. a compliment is a compliment...
Yeah. Just make it genuine and about their progress. My gym buddies and I (all straight) periodically complimented each other and it wasn’t creepy. It happens frequently. Even occurred from a stranger in the locker room. It wasn’t creepy because it was just, “Dude, your shoulders look strong as fuck”.
I don’t think he was hitting on me at all, and it wasn’t creepy. I THINK genuine comes off as genuine.
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Agreed. Muscles or form, yes (without being gross about it). Dick, no. You compliment dicks in a bathhouse.
dude taking pictures of people without their consent is creep behavior compliment or not.
It just came to me... I'm 66... I'm now the creep at the gym.
Dude -
Doesn’t that piss you off!
It pisses me off.
Dammm nailed it !This right here. ^^^
Now I'm in no way defending "creeping". And I'm sure it can be uncomfortable to the person at the receiving end no doubt (every women I know has a story). But we have a problem with aging: Our brains don't care. When I was in my 20's (and single), I flirted a bit and made small talk at the gym. Most times it was just in quick passing. Occasionally it led to something fruitful. I was young and in decent shape. But now we are older. And a woman in her early 20's with a fantastic body still looks just as attractive to us as when we were "young". So beside the important fact that I'm married, I also had to teach myself to understand I'm a much older man. Aging does not automatically turn off the "that much younger person looks hot or approachable" indicator. So we are left with our own self control. And like all things in life, some of us have not quite mastered life. I had an uncle teach me his "two second rule". If you look more than two seconds... You're leering (creeping).
Physique - of course. It's the hard work there that warrants it. Dick - never. The hung don't want to be told the obvious - it's not news to them, and is a fast way to end communication with him.
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Well... It's part of life so I accept it. But I do fight aging with diet and exersize the best I can. This may sound very stereotypical but... Being "checked out" by an in shape guy seems to be given more of a pass compared to the out of shape ones.
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definitely. You're there doing a sport together. Vs. You're there doing a sport and I'm there leering and touching myself.Well... It's part of life so I accept it. But I do fight aging with diet and exersize the best I can. This may sound very stereotypical but... Being "checked out" by an in shape guy seems to be given more of a pass compared to the out of shape ones.
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