Those Damn Grey Areas

DC--it's not like you to talk so vaguely.

I am in agreement with ManlyBanisters and DC on this one.

Freddie--I don't think this thread would be necessary if there was ever any explanation about why certain decisions are made or upon what reasoning they are reached. You know I have felt this way since we were both mods.

People on the site can't understand the rationale behind moderator action and that makes it hard to understand moderator thinking and reflect on your own behaviors as a poster.
I'm not trying to be vague. you know I'm usually pretty damned blunt. But Freddie asked "no names," so that's about as blunt as I can get.

*just my opinion here*
I think Freddie probably got volunteered by the team to test the waters here. I think several reports have most likely been made, about specific posts, and the moderators are evenly split on how to handle it. I think they will most likely make a few decisions after this thread has been up for a while. I think this is a critical mass decision that they are contemplating, and will evolve the site closer to a social networking site, or devolve the site closer to its origins. It's either going to be a place to LOL at your friends, count to 25,000, and repeat the OHMYFUCKINGGODHEATHER mantra; or a place where the big dogs can debate serious issues in a sink-or-swim manner.

But that's just my opinion.
 
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Getting a little trigger-happy there, are you, WoBbles?

Love ya, hope you have a good holiday weekend... come see me!
 
This is an adult site. The posters here are adults - I don't know about you guys but profanity is part of a good proportion of my adult conversation. I don't want to be told here of all places how to use different types of language. I have posted to other sites where I have had to be more careful in my language, but on those sites is has been the case from the start and sexual swear words were not part of the on topic content of the site.
 
I'm not trying to be vague. you know I'm usually pretty damned blunt. But Freddie asked "no names," so that's about as blunt as I can get.

I am obviously missing a lot of the context here, which is fine by me. I am sure someone can catch me up via a PM.


ManlyBanisters said:
This is an adult site. The posters here are adults - I don't know about you guys but profanity is part of a good proportion of my adult conversation. I don't want to be told here of all places how to use different types of language. I have posted to other sites where I have had to be more careful in my language, but on those sites is has been the case from the start and sexual swear words were not part of the on topic content of the site.

Everyone here may be over age 18, and not everyone here is an adult. (love ya--mean it!)

Here is the elephant in the room: No standard of poster behavior on a site like this can be adequately and effectively maintained by a small team of moderators unless, as a whole, the group reads every post by every member to understand all the social context and nuances. I know from being a moderator that that only person current or past who did that was Matthew.

You can set any standard you want. However, you should never set a standard that is either unrealistic or unenforceable.
 
This is complete and total bullshit.

I think all the meds are getting to you, Freddie. LOL :biggrin1:

Those damn pink areas. Your computer mouse avatar is intoxicating me.
Are you really left handed? I just want to CLICK and FLICK endlessly. :tongue:
 

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Fuckitty Fuck Fuck Fuck... :biggrin1: LOLZ OMGHeather!

DC, Lex, Manlybanisters, WOBbles, rawbone, y'all are just a bunch of fucktards and I think each one of you deserves a boot to the head.:wavey: :fest30: :baby: :arms: :cool222: :fing02: :borladuck: :147: :grinning-smiley-003 :clap: :alien: LOL~!
 
To the original post and not to the original poster.

First of all, this is the internet, good luck keeping that lily white.

Secondly, this is a sex site. Fucking is what we talk about.

This is not a professional environment where we should have to mind our P's &Q's constantly. Fuck that shit.

Discussions occur here which can get heated. People get on each other's nerves. Sometimes profanity is the only way we can express our frustration and I think it's healthy that that be allowed.

I'm terribly sorry if there are some who aren't able to cope with strong language, in fact I pity them. How do they cope in day to day life? Seriously?

The hypersensitivity is going off the charts lately in a variety of areas and I'm loath to cater those with such delicate sensibilities. This is an adult site and people should not come to it expecting pablum.
 
To the original post and not to the original poster.

First of all, this is the internet, good luck keeping that lily white.

Secondly, this is a sex site. Fucking is what we talk about.

This is not a professional environment where we should have to mind our P's &Q's constantly. Fuck that shit.

Discussions occur here which can get heated. People get on each other's nerves. Sometimes profanity is the only way we can express our frustration and I think it's healthy that that be allowed.

I'm terribly sorry if there are some who aren't able to cope with strong language, in fact I pity them. How do they cope in day to day life? Seriously?

The hypersensitivity is going off the charts lately in a variety of areas and I'm loath to cater those with such delicate sensibilities. This is an adult site and people should not come to it expecting pablum.

QFMFT.

I don't care if you did vote to warn me. That shit is tight.
 
To the original post and not to the original poster.

First of all, this is the internet, good luck keeping that lily white.

Secondly, this is a sex site. Fucking is what we talk about.

This is not a professional environment where we should have to mind our P's &Q's constantly. Fuck that shit.

Discussions occur here which can get heated. People get on each other's nerves. Sometimes profanity is the only way we can express our frustration and I think it's healthy that that be allowed.

I'm terribly sorry if there are some who aren't able to cope with strong language, in fact I pity them. How do they cope in day to day life? Seriously?

The hypersensitivity is going off the charts lately in a variety of areas and I'm loath to cater those with such delicate sensibilities. This is an adult site and people should not come to it expecting pablum.

Gee-girl! QFMFT! You go girl!

I don't care if I had a beef wit'cha. Diz iz real talk. :cool:
 
Can someone tell me since i wasnt here last July, does June/July usually make everyone get so.....INSANE....around here?

There have been a lot of multiple personalities, trolling and fucking horrible language gallore as of late and frankly its making me wonder how everyone across the planet can all be going loopy at the same time.

I'm feeling a little like we are doing the LPSG version of One Flew Over The Cuckoos Nest.
 
The hypersensitivity is going off the charts lately in a variety of areas and I'm loath to cater those with such delicate sensibilities. This is an adult site and people should not come to it expecting pablum.

Agreed... but they do these days. I don't understand it. It'd be like me wandering up to the football fields here, taking their ball and giving them some sticks and a sliotar. They'd tell me to fuck off.

I'm feeling a little like we are doing the LPSG version of One Flew Over The Cuckoos Nest.

I dunno why but I'm seeing Pecker as Nurse Ratched :eek::eek:
 
Can someone tell me since i wasnt here last July, does June/July usually make everyone get so.....INSANE....around here?


I dunno what's with all these fucktards...vitamin D deficiency, perhaps? Summertime completely mellows me out...I live for this time of year.

My advice: get the fuck outside. Lie in the sun. Go swimming. Better yet, do some skiing...or wakeboarding...or whatever.
 
Can someone tell me since i wasnt here last July, does June/July usually make everyone get so.....INSANE....around here?

There have been a lot of multiple personalities, trolling and fucking horrible language gallore as of late and frankly its making me wonder how everyone across the planet can all be going loopy at the same time.

I'm feeling a little like we are doing the LPSG version of One Flew Over The Cuckoos Nest.
Uh, yeah, think about it for a moment, Rouge... the kids are out of school, and spending more unsupervised time on the computer...
How about...

we blow this thread and just fuck the living hell out of one another?

POUNCE! SNIFF! LICK!

Whaddaysay?

hell yah..come on over... I call dibs on top first!

Wrestle for top? In singlets or speedos?

Get yer ass over here!
Gee, thanks you two, just leave me out of the loop.

Lex, do you know anyone who has a nice selection of speedos (and recently got more) and a sling?