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[ManlyBanisters]

Whilst it may come as a shock to the school that maintains that all women have the same sized vagina, it may be that you simply have a small vagina or vaginal openning. This is no less common than a man having a small penis. OK it may be slightly less common, but it is not unusual.

Certainly for now, I would advise that you are going to be size incompatible with an average and larger sized man. We spend lots of time here discussing the ramifications of not being sexually compatible with the average or smaller sized man and it is really no different for the inverse.

The plus side is that few guys are going to feel a bad rejection if you tell them that they are too big for you. Everyone has to find self acceptance for their physical self, so you are certainly not alone.

I know what you're saying, but for her to be unable to use tampons at all or insert a single finger without pushing hard it seems unlikely that it is simply a case of having a very narrow vagina. Were that the case, she'd need a man with an extraordinarily thin penis, not just small, thin. We're talking 2" circumference or less. How many men out there have that thin a penis?

Besides, it seems more likely that she has vaginismus.

 

[petite]

If you're a virgin, it could be that you have a thicker than average hymen. Some women are born with hymens very thick and will not tear easily. I suggest you visit your gynecologist to see if this is the problem. If it is, it is easily solved and can be corrected quickly and easily.

 

[Drifterwood]

Besides, it seems more likely that she has vaginismus.

She probably has both. I just didn't want the fact that some women are indeed very small to be overlooked.

 

[dolfette]

If you're a virgin, it could be that you have a thicker than average hymen. Some women are born with hymens very thick and will not tear easily. I suggest you visit your gynecologist to see if this is the problem. If it is, it is easily solved and can be corrected quickly and easily.

or, like women in my family have, a thick one that stretches right up to the cervix, creating a double vag.
there's all sorts of possibilities.

 

[ManlyBanisters]

or, like women in my family have, a thick one that stretches right up to the cervix, creating a double vag.
there's all sorts of possibilities.

Oh dear, dolfie. Loadsa strange PMs coming your way from the double vag fantasy camp!

*clicks off to compose a pm* :biggrin:

 

[dolfette]

Oh dear, dolfie. Loadsa strange PMs coming your way from the double vag fantasy camp!

*clicks off to compose a pm* :biggrin:

13 years too late :tongue:
mine tore through when i gave birth.
...they gave my sis a c-section because they were worried the tearing might cause too much blood loss though.

 

[petite]

13 years too late :tongue:
mine tore through when i gave birth.
...they gave my sis a c-section because they were worried the tearing might cause too much blood loss though.

May I ask why you didn't choose to have it cut by your gynecologist long before you gave birth? I was under the impression that it was a very simple procedure that did not adversely affect sexual enjoyment but made sex easier. Am I incorrect?

I have no personal experience with this, my hymen tore easily with very little discomfort, but I have read about women whose hymens were so thick that it required the intervention of a gynecologist to make sex possible.

 

[dolfette]

because i had faith in nature.

 

[jess316]

I've heard of vaginismus and I'm positive thats not it.

Here is a pic... http://www.lpsg.org/gallery/showphoto.php/photo/245836/cat/500/ppuser/540471

 

[petite]

I've heard of vaginismus and I'm positive thats not it.

Here is a pic... http://www.lpsg.org/gallery/showphoto.php/photo/245836/cat/500/ppuser/540471

Very pretty!

Except... Honey, you have the most discreet inner labia I think I've ever seen and your clit seems to be completely hidden. Are my eyes deceiving me?

Do you know if you have an intact hymen? I think you need to discuss this with your gynecologist.

 

[dolfette]

where's your clit?
seriously, i can't see it.

 

[petite]

where's your clit?
seriously, i can't see it.

Okay, so it's not just me!

 

[dolfette]

girly, is there a chance you've been circumcised?

 

[petite]

girly, is there a chance you've been circumcised?

Jeez, that would explain the absence of visible inner labia and a clit, wouldn't it?

I saw it and wondered if it had been badly photoshopped.

 

[jess316]

girly, is there a chance you've been circumcised?

I've heard of Aposthia. It's a condition where men are born without a foreskin. Maybe I was born with a similar condition?

 

[MickeyLee]

is a dude or a female mcfibber... using porn stills for an example photo.

you can see the scar line from labia reduction. i doubt a 20 year old virgin *who hasn't been to a gyno* opts in for genital alterations.

 

[D_Letha Weapons]

Jess, go see a doctor, asap. If you are too embarrassed to go to your family doctor/PCP to get a referral, or (as was once the case with me) your PCP *is* your gynecologist, or if you don't have health insurance, there is probably a Planned Parenthood near you where you can be seen and they usually bill on a sliding scale. You need to be examined by a professional and get on your way to having a healthy sex life.

 

[petite]

is a dude or a female mcfibber... using porn stills for an example photo.

you can see the scar line from labia reduction. i doubt a 20 year old virgin *who hasn't been to a gyno* opts in for genital alterations.

They don't cut off the clitoral hood for a labia reduction, do they? Who would do that? That's unethical. And that looks a lot more than "reduced" it looks like it's totally missing.

 

[dolfette]

see your doctor.

 

[dolfette]

is a dude or a female mcfibber... using porn stills for an example photo.

you can see the scar line from labia reduction. i doubt a 20 year old virgin *who hasn't been to a gyno* opts in for genital alterations.

that does NOT look like a cosmetic reduction.
not in the slightest!