Top vs. Bottom

[dickthrobbing]

Mostly prefer to bottom especially in a pure sex encounter, but I do like to Top occasionally in a BDSM encounter

 

[halcyondays]

For me it was a complete lack of anal pleasure until I reached age 40. I started topping guys at 22 and all attempts of others to finger or rim me gave no joy. For some reason my butt just said "meh." I have no idea why it changed as I aged. I like giving head but I've never been "cock crazy" like many gay men.

Most guys expect me to top but I really like it when a partner says "I want to dick you" and has his way with me.

 

[find83]

If I meet a guy I top. If I meet a women I top. I'm not into bottoming or having something up my ass and no it's not because of social stigma.

 

[find83]

For me it was a complete lack of anal pleasure until I reached age 40. I started topping guys at 22 and all attempts of others to finger or rim me gave no joy. For some reason my butt just said "meh." I have no idea why it changed as I aged. I like giving head but I've never been "cock crazy" like many gay men.

Most guys expect me to top but I really like it when a partner says "I want to dick you" and has his way with me.

Does the dude have to say "I want to dick you" or does your ass accept other words and terms to open it up ?lol

 

[halcyondays]

Does the dude have to say "I want to dick you" or does your ass accept other words and terms to open it up ?lol

Abracadabra usually works.

 

[find83]

Abracadabra usually works.

Hehe I'll keep that in mind

 

[Abagnale12]

I'm a bottom. I like big cock, not necessarily guys. I've topped twice, first time I stopped cause I didn't like it. Second time I did but it was a HUNG guy that was little and had no hair. From the back he looked like a girl. But I mainly did it cause I wanted to "dominate" a guy with a MUCH bigger cock than mine.

That being said if I want to fuck an ass I think a woman's is way hotter. I bottom when I do cause women don't have cocks and a dildo ain't the same thing.

 

[Bunny35]

Im bottom verse. I identify more as a bottom as i love the feeling of being penetrated and impregnated. Its as simple as that, i guess i have a submissive bent, but for me the mental feeling of being fucked and knocked up is so fucking horny!

 

[Long Island John]

I’ve tried being a top a couple of times but I’m too small and I don’t think that the other person enjoyed it too much. I really love being a bottom. The feel of a cock in my ass is much better than the feel of my cock in someone.

 

[NautiRogue]

I prefer to bottom. As someone had mentioned, I'm one of the guys who will top just in reciprocity, but I'd rather be fucked.

I've fucked both male and female ass. There's no difference. All being equal, I'll stick with female ass when I get the choice. But cock in my ass feels awesome.

 

[doncejankius]

I don't identify as either top or bottom, me and my partner always decide in the heat of the moment. I love both!

 

[erpap]

I have topped 3 times in my life and it's not for me. It's not horrible but it's more natural for me to bottom!

 

[ConorJ]

I consider myself a verse bi with a strong lean to bottom. When with a guy, I will defer to his preference. It's not that I don't / won't top, it's just not something required for my personal satisfaction.

 

[960417]

I think it is familiarity and comfort levels. My first time with a guy I bottomed and it hurt like hell, but I climaxed - so in my mind I was a bottom. Ever since then, when with guys, I bottom. I tried to top once and was wretched at it.

It is what it is.

 

[thongboy]

I top more than I bottom and I think this happens a lot with guys who have big cocks. We're in demand. But for m, a really hot session isn't complete unless I have a warm hard cock inside me at least once. When I was 19, I hooked up a while with a total bottom who was awesome, but I still wanted him in me as well. Sadly the very idea made him go soft. So now I only fuck guys who are vers like me

 

[Lakeshore]

Enjoy both, but as long as the dude is mannerly and patient I bottom. Probably have bottomed 95% in the experiences I've had.

 

[itscomplex]

Ok. I've only bottomed, but I consider myself versatile as I really wanted to smash my friend with benefits' ass afterwards but he never let me. It depends on the other man. I'd try strapon stuff if a willing woman is found. With me, anything goes if I'm into the other person. I like feeling free.

 

[sizehungry]

I have always been a bottom , it is the mix of pleasure and pain that gets me . As i get older , i feel that my bi sexual days are numbered , because I am becoming drawn more toward women . Should i be fortunate enough to find a new female partner , all of my attention will be hers , therefore my bi days will at an end .

 

[jimg]

I enjoy both,bottom and Top,depends on the mood ,if the guy has a nice cock and if he's a pure Top then I'll bottom for him,being with another guy who is versatile is great,but I go with the flow mainly,love to do both

 

[Doranq]

. I'm really submissive towards men. I have absolutely no desire to top and will not do so, 0 attraction towards penetrating/being sucked off by men. I have very strong desires to be penetrated, I like to be dominated, and I worship big dicks so that's why I choose bottom.

The only time I want to be the top is with women. That's a whole different ball game to me.