I've been bottom once it hurt some but I loved it. Haven't got to try being Top but I want to. My question is why do some guys ID them self's as one or the other? Is it just out of personal preference or is there something I haven't experienced yet?
I think people identify as top or bottom as a gravitational pull towards what they enjoy the most. Once it's there, it's like advertising. If you're a top you don't wanna have sex with a top, you want a bottom who is gonna enjoy what you are doing to him, vise versa.
From what I've seen, 95% of men who sleep with other men are bottoms. This whole "versatile" thing just means "I'll fuck you if I have to."
My theory, as to what makes you a top or a bottom, is which side turns you on more. Most guys like dick, some would rather eat ass all night long. I can see why so many guys are bottoms seeing you can climax from just getting fucked.
Does anyone know the rule of when two tops get together? I was surprised my roommate didn't know but, if you think about it, the answer is obvious. Let's just say someone is gonna be in a lot of pain. If you're a true top, anytime you've tried bottoming it hurts just like it was the first time.
From what I've seen, 95% of men who sleep with other men are bottoms. This whole "versatile" thing just means "I'll fuck you if I have to."