Unwanted PM.........

Devil's Advocate...

Not that anyone deserves to be stalked, and everyone is entitled to their wants and opinions, but going into a gallery to leave an unprovoked "1" and a semi-slighting comment isn't going to endear one to others.

e.g. http://www.lpsg.org/gallery/showgallery.php?cat=500&ppuser=51751
http://www.lpsg.org/gallery/showphoto.php/photo/31366/cat/500/ppuser/51751
Comment #5: "I don't see what all the fuss is about"

I'm just of the thought that, again, when unprovoked, if you can't say something nice, then save your keystrokes for elsewhere.

Good find, novice...

And just as I thought that this thread was dying out... here we go again. :biggrin1:
 
Devil's Advocate...

Not that anyone deserves to be stalked, and everyone is entitled to their wants and opinions, but going into a gallery to leave an unprovoked "1" and a semi-slighting comment isn't going to endear one to others.

e.g. http://www.lpsg.org/gallery/showgallery.php?cat=500&ppuser=51751
http://www.lpsg.org/gallery/showphoto.php/photo/31366/cat/500/ppuser/51751
Comment #5: "I don't see what all the fuss is about"

I'm just of the thought that, again, when unprovoked, if you can't say something nice, then save your keystrokes for elsewhere.


Before you go digging up my comments you might want to check the other 99 nice comments i left on people's galleries. I think the owner of this gallery rightfully knows why he got this comment...it was the only negative I have ever left on anyone's gallery...I usually don't say anything at all if it can't be nice or positive ( referring to gallery pics) unless the pics are lifted or fake..... but he well deserved it. You might want to ask him why I replied to his gallery in that manner....but then again bigone2 would never fess up what he did in the first place to deserve such a comment.....
 
Before you go digging up my comments you might want to check the other 99 nice comments i left on people's galleries. I think the owner of this gallery rightfully knows why he got this comment...it was the only negative I have ever left on anyone's gallery...I usually don't say anything at all if it can't be nice or positive but he well deserved it. You might want to ask him why I left it.

Uh oh... does that remind you of something?
 
Good find, novice...

Before you go digging up my comments...
It wasn't really a find, or digging. It was just a random stumble, that coincided with my following this thread, that made me go, "Um, HUH?"

...you might want to check the other 99 nice comments i left on people's galleries. I think the owner of this gallery rightfully knows why he got this comment... he well deserved it. You might want to ask him why I left it.
Well, I DID wonder about that. But, as it has been discussed before, and I believe a member was even banned over this, the galleries aren't a place for revenge posts. Anyway, like I said, I completely agree that you shouldn't have to be concerned about your privacy, and safety here, and actually enjoy your honesty about your wants. It just struck me odd when I happened across that comment. I actually had an, "Oh, that kinda sucks, I like her", disappointed moment.
 
Uh oh... does that remind you of something?

yes it does, and frankly what he wrote ( deleted from my gallery) does not even compare as to what I left him. Before you go judging others you might want to have all of your facts straight. If I remember correctly people assumed the worst of you in regards to shelby, and you asked everyone to mind their own "fucking business" you might want to take heed on your own advice.
 
I usually don't say anything at all if it can't be nice or positive ( referring to gallery pics) unless the pics are lifted or fake..... but he well deserved it. You might want to ask him why I replied to his gallery in that manner....
Gallery bombing for slights elsewhere, real or imagined, is not wise here. It will definitely be held against you, not matter how good you believe your justification to be. If you wish to attack someone, do it where appropriate; don't try to stab him in the back.
 
Gallery bombing for slights elsewhere, real or imagined, is not wise here. It will definitely be held against you, not matter how good you believe your justification to be. If you wish to attack someone, do it where appropriate; don't try to stab him in the back.

I agree 100% , and hence bring it up as a post or topic of interest....
 
yes it does, and frankly what he wrote ( deleted from my gallery) does not even compare as to what I left him. Before you go judging others you might want to have all of your facts straight. If I remember correctly people assumed the worst of you in regards to shelby, and you asked everyone to mind their own "fucking business" you might want to take heed on your own advice.
Pardon my butting in here, but I can't help myself.

No one assumed the worst, they were simply making jokes, and unfortunatly they were not funny considering the situation. It was a heated time, and he was speaking out of frustration, not revenge. No one attacked him at all, there were simply some remarks that if anyone actually knew the details behind it would have reacted the same way. People were speculating random shit about our relationship, and nowhere was it publicly stated what happened. Therefore minding your own business is a justified statement.

You cannot ask someone to mind their own business if you are making the comments in public. When you act on your "revenge" in such a way, you cannot expect people to form their own opnions of you as well, because you are lowering yourself to the standards of the person you are fighting with.
 
Um, but doesn't that, contradict this:


I'm not trying to stir anything up, I'm just trying to figure out what's going on here. :confused:


of course you are......and since that comment I have opted not to say anything ( unless it is a fake pic or lifted) and take the issue up as a post...hence I agreed with big dribble stating that if I had an issue with a member to take it up in a forum.
 
of course you are......
Um, OK, fine. I'll drop it. I was trying to give you the benefit of the doubt, as well as the opportunity to give your side. Besides, it looks like enough other people have sufficient curiousity and questions, that I can just sit back and watch anyway.

:popcorn:
 
of course you are......and since that comment I have not left any derragotory comments on anyone's gallery ( unless the pics are lifted). Hence I have opted not to say anything at all and take the issue up as a post...hence I agreed with big dribble


You are such a Drama Queen. :) This thread just won't end. To believe your pics you got a hot body. Your profile tells us you have a brain. Why the fuck do you care what Wingnut has to say?

Be content in the knowledge he probably pops a nut from time to time thinking about you and knows how he'll never, ever get to tap that.:biggrin1:
 
yes it does, and frankly what he wrote ( deleted from my gallery) does not even compare as to what I left him. Before you go judging others you might want to have all of your facts straight. If I remember correctly people assumed the worst of you in regards to shelby, and you asked everyone to mind their own "fucking business" you might want to take heed on your own advice.

to be fair, deb, i've seen you post in threads multiple times things like, "well, it's obviously smaller than my 9X6 minimum, so no it's not big enough." those gallery comments really aren't very out of line with what you've said many times in threads, so protesting that it was a one-off reaction to his comment in your gallery doesn't really matter so much.

and, FWIW, i'd venture to say 9X6 does exclude more than 75% of the men here, despite reports to the contrary.

granted, i'm not a huge fan of the "rate my dick" threads either, and it is part of the culture here to treat them with an eyeroll, grimace. or smartass remark.
 
Um, but doesn't that, contradict this:


I'm not trying to stir anything up, I'm just trying to figure out what's going on here. :confused:
This song comes to mind:
Caught you in the act thats enough of that, messin where you shouldn't be, I wanna hear you say your sorry, cause no one takes advantage of me.... alas stirring up shit is fun. Look where it gets us.... the truth!!
 
yes it does, and frankly what he wrote ( deleted from my gallery) does not even compare as to what I left him. Before you go judging others you might want to have all of your facts straight. If I remember correctly people assumed the worst of you in regards to shelby, and you asked everyone to mind their own "fucking business" you might want to take heed on your own advice.

Wow, talk about a comeback much harsher than the original 'insult'... which wasn't even one in the first place. I was simply highlighting the obvious double-standard of your actions and comments, but never mind that I guess. It would have been easy for me to reply something like "shut up, you stupid bitch", but...

Pardon my butting in here, but I can't help myself.

No one assumed the worst, they were simply making jokes, and unfortunatly they were not funny considering the situation. It was a heated time, and he was speaking out of frustration, not revenge. No one attacked him at all, there were simply some remarks that if anyone actually knew the details behind it would have reacted the same way. People were speculating random shit about our relationship, and nowhere was it publicly stated what happened. Therefore minding your own business is a justified statement.

You cannot ask someone to mind their own business if you are making the comments in public. When you act on your "revenge" in such a way, you cannot expect people to form their own opnions of you as well, because you are lowering yourself to the standards of the person you are fighting with.

...she did such a better job at a rebuttal than I could have. Thank you for confirming my thoughts about you, Deb.

Suddenly, wingnut doesn't seem that crazy anymore.