Virginity

I was raped when I was a prescooler, about 4 I guess.
 
Originally posted by naughty@May 8 2005, 02:42 PM
I am sending you a big cyber hug
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I'm following Naughty on this one. *hugs to Landshark, Naughty, and taven :grouphug:

I've never been in any of your shoes, but I can doubtlessly say that it has to take a lot of strength to tell your stories to others.
 
Counting my therapist, I've only told this to three people in my entire life. I think I've finally gotten to the point that the next person who mouths off around me about rape not being traumatic will get an earful. Thanks for the support.
 
Originally posted by taven@May 8 2005, 09:21 PM
Thanks for the support.
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Hey, that's what this group is for, Taven. Lots of love and encouragement to you and all the other folks out there who have been victimized.

I've worked with a number of men and women who have been victims of sexual abuse over the course of their lives, and it's truly sobering to see the pain they carry daily. Many of them have told me that being able to tell someone else, even years after, is empowering and liberating. It sounds like you and LandShark are each tackling the recovery process and doing the work that brings healing.

We all support you in your efforts! :grouphug:
 
I was in the eighth grade but had mature organs. My neighborhood buddy, a year younger, still had a tiny dick and balls. I guess he could tell about me because I stuck out in my pants. Anyway, one day he unzipped and jacked me and it was wonderful, even though I gushed a ton and soaked my pants and shirt tails.
I still love to be jerked, or, better, blown. That was more than 50 years ago and I still have an amazing sex drive. It all started with him.
 
I guess I'm sticking with the Virgin Club on this one! I'm sure there's SOMEONE out there who would have sex with me, maybe, but I'd rather wait for someone I truly care about and truly cares about me. That's just my take on it anyway. I guess being somewhat of a loner through most of my school life hasn't been so bad, I didn't lose anything to some random person. I really don't care that I'm a virgin. If anything, it's a good thing! :)
 
Well, technically I lost my penile viriginity shorly before my 19th birthday, but I lost my anal virginity some months after that not to exceed 6, whenceforth I was completely stripped of the title and rights that are "virgin".

Funny though, in many ways I still feel like a virgin despite my various experiences...I havent experienced the more emotional sides fo sex yet...

Also, as an intersting note: My first orgasm was anal at age 16, and it took me months to figure out how to cum again becuase I didnt know how to jack off... I'm sure your wondering how I had an anal orgasm at age 16 without having sex and no dildo. Well I had a ghetto self-adapted dildo of an M&M minis tube...and my hand. I was actually trying to fist myself (without really knowing what I was doing) when I came for the first time...
 
Originally posted by wispandex_bulge@May 9 2005, 04:54 AM
Also, as an intersting note: My first orgasm was anal at age 16, and it took me months to figure out how to cum again becuase I didnt know how to jack off... I'm sure your wondering how I had an anal orgasm at age 16 without having sex and no dildo. Well I had a ghetto self-adapted dildo of an M&M minis tube...and my hand. I was actually trying to fist myself (without really knowing what I was doing) when I came for the first time...
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You are the second person I've ever heard mention anal orgasm...how does that happen?
 
Originally posted by Kimahri+May 9 2005, 08:06 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Kimahri &#064; May 9 2005, 08:06 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-wispandex_bulge@May 9 2005, 04:54 AM
Also, as an intersting note:  My first orgasm was anal at age 16, and it took me months to figure out how to cum again becuase I didnt know how to jack off...  I&#39;m sure your wondering how I had an anal orgasm at age 16 without having sex and no dildo.  Well I had a ghetto self-adapted dildo of an M&M minis tube...and my hand.  I was actually trying to fist myself (without really knowing what I was doing) when I came for the first time...
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You are the second person I&#39;ve ever heard mention anal orgasm...how does that happen?
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Basically an anal orgasm is just where the stimulation to make you cum is from inside the anus....where a vaginal orgasm is from in the vagina...and a penile orgasm is every guy&#39;s best friend...
 
I was 15 and in-love. I remember it was after a party at a friend&#39;s house, and it was pretty special. I still think about the girl from time-to-time, as she was my first love. It&#39;s been a long time since I&#39;ve seen her, but she&#39;ll always have a place in my heart.
 
Originally posted by wispandex_bulge@May 9 2005, 10:34 AM
Basically an anal orgasm is just where the stimulation to make you cum is from inside the anus....where a vaginal orgasm is from in the vagina...and a penile orgasm is every guy&#39;s best friend...
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Actually, an "anal orgasm" has to deal more with the prostate and psychological stimulation.
 
Originally posted by jonb+May 9 2005, 04:52 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(jonb &#064; May 9 2005, 04:52 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-wispandex_bulge@May 9 2005, 10:34 AM
Basically an anal orgasm is just where the stimulation to make you cum is from inside the anus....where a vaginal orgasm is from in the vagina...and a penile orgasm is every guy&#39;s best friend...
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Actually, an "anal orgasm" has to deal more with the prostate and psychological stimulation.
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Hmmm then i guess i shodul say i had a regular orgasm from anal stimulation...not sure what was goin on but it was so long ago....
 
Originally posted by jay_too@Feb 9 2005, 04:17 AM
14

At the beach I went to sleep and woke up with a raging hard to the laughter of my older bros and friends. A French girl took me by the hand [so to speak] and initiated me. Damn, I was such a slow learner that I had to keep going back for more lessons. :p

jay
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I was 31 - had masturbated since age 11. It was with my fiancee and was wonderful altho I came after about 5 strokes.
 
14 too, with a girl from school. I was going through growth surge #1 (#2, making me really big came when I was 16), which made me already a bit bigger than the other guys.