Visual Arousal in Women

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  1. CooperLex

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    Over years it has been said that women don't respond to visual stimulation.

    However, several studies as well as the reports of women here on this forum paint a different picture: Women respond to visual stimulation and watch pornos too - as long as a complete non-sensical plot doesn't turn them off.

    What I wonder is whether just looking at some "hot guy's" body (not fully nude, penis covered) is already enough to get the juices flowing?

    I am particularly talking just about viewing, without any thought of what that guy might do to you (and without viewing his cock, only a 'hot' body).

    Give me a picture of nice tits (dressed or nude) and I'm hard as brick.

    Does the same work for women? Show her a picture of a nice male upper body and it's all soaked?
     
  2. Hardballin

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    good questions, im built like a girl then, because i cant get rock hard just by looking at a womens body, need more...
     
  3. B_New End

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    Ill just say:

    I have never, ever got hard from seeing a strange woman in real life, ever. No matter how hot, no matter how skimpily dressed. I'll dare say I have never even been slightly sexually aroused by a strange woman, ever.
     
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    Visual stimulation is not my thing. If I get aroused by something visual, the visual thing must be pretty special (hands - that's all I'm saying, you know who you are). I don't watch porn, not because I think it's yucky, but because it just doesn't do anything for me.

    I prefer words.
     
  5. D_Rosalind Mussell

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    Depends on the visual for me.
     
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    I am very visual... i enjoy words as well but lets say... i see a man walking down the street... and i look down seeing a nice full package... i start wondering what it looks like and how it would feel in me. Later on that night i will probably be masturbating to just the thought of him.
     
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    I tought only men did that
     
  8. B_New End

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    She's pretty new here.
    Just be careful is all I'm sayin'.
     
  9. HiddenLacey

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    I'm somewhat visual, it depends on what I'm looking at.

    I like porn, but only certain porn. I have to weed through a lot to find stuff I really like. No fake breasts, no overly loud screaming by the woman, no plots (or if I like the rest I fast forward through the plot.) I normally like movies with Julian R, Manual F and Scott N.

    Pictures are sexy and sometimes I might find a few by someone that fuels a fantasy for me, but I don't continue staring at the pictures. I don't need to, I have a good imagination.

    Random guys on the street... this is more difficult for me. Most of the time I don't just look at the guy and feel instant attraction, there has to be more to it. BUT there have been a few times where someone was just incrediably sexy to me and arousing.

    However, I have never noticed anyones package on the street? It's normally their forearms, hands, biceps, the way their shirt moves aross their back... facial features (last) that get me going. I don't mean guys with huge muscles either, slender guys sometimes have the most interesting muscles in their forearms. For some strong reason guys with tats on their forearms and biceps, that I get to just see beneath their shirt drive me crazy. I've never been that into tats, but lately I notice those guys more.
     
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    some guys turn women on. my wife said, I was a real turn on when I had my shirt off, showing my broad shoulders,narrow waist, and cute ass (her words). she first saw me riding my 10 speed with just a pair of shorts on, she said she rode by me several times, and then almost freaked out when we were at the same event a few weeks later, and I was with a girl she knew from HS. so it gave her an excuse to get close up, and I just barely remember meeting her that day. years later, when I built a garage, there were 'breaks' cuz she needed nailing more than the garage.
     
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    Porn got us into swinging; we were in bed watching a dvd shot in a crowded swinger club playroom, and she was obviously turned on by the constant swapping, so I asked if she'd like to give it a try, and she said yes please! The actual club was an hour's drive away, so we went the next Saturday. It took us a couple of visits before we had the confidence to do a full swap, and we've been swinging ever since.

    She likes women-oriented porn by a female director called Anna Span, lots of kissing and tenderness but plenty of fucking too, however the guys usually cum inside their girls rather than pulling out. We often have a porn dvds playing on the lounge and main bedroom TVs if we're having a party.
     
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    Visuals absolutely work for me.
    They are vital actually.
     
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    visuals work for me to some extent, but soaking wet? i have to start thinking of all the crazy cavewoman on crack caligula-inspired fuck-fests we'd be having first.

    going out in public must be pretty tough for you :eek:

    i am glad my girlie boners are hidden :redface::biggrin1:
     
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    This is sort of a yes and no question for me. Seeing a hot wet sudsy body does nothing for me, but that's mostly only because I'm generally not attracted to those kinds of people. BUT, looking at the people I find physically attractive does arouse me a bit, even if I don't know them.
     
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    Hmmm, I guess I can't say right out that visual doesn't work for me, but it has to be special. Forget porn. I think it's just too in your face, no pun, for me. I like the tease and the suggestion in some hot scenes in mainstream movies.

    Seeing a guy walking down the street, I might notice his bum if I can't see his smile. That won't get me wet, but if I follow him long enough and watch his buns at work that might get me going (Sorry, Cap! LOL!) Of course, Cap will be the beneficiary of the workout.

    So I guess I'm visual to an extent. Whip it out and I'll tune you out immediately.
     
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    You mean photos like these?

    I have absolutely no idea why I have so many photos like these. Nope. None.

    I plead the fifth.

    :biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1:
     

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    Awwwwwww, darn *saved*! Yes, those work nicely, thanks Petite:cool: I love all of them, but that first one, he needs someone to dry him off sans towel.
     
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    after perusing petite's posted images, i may have to revise my answer a little bit

    also i might need to change my pants

    *right click, save as*

    although, after looking at them again, i see that all but one depict some kind of action -- which naturally leads to sexy thoughts of how it'd feel to be in that particular position. that kind of goes against what the OP is asking, i suppose, because what is turning me on is not just the visual imagery but the thoughts of similar super happy good fun time.
     
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    Feeling like the odd one out here. They're doing nothing for me. Although I haven't been able to get my mind off this one since I first saw it:

    thank you.jpg
     
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    Seriously ladies, the hot sexy porn pictures are freaking great this morning *saved* now I need to go look for some.
     
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