"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder", I believe someone once said. I think that it can be used in this sense too. Although I can't give experiences from the smaller (can i say that around here without getting into trouble?) perspective, I can tell you what i have heard from the girls i work with. For Women (this is excluding the outliers of "size queens" as they dont represent a large percent of the female population) Size is nowhere near as important to women as it is to men. For the most part if a woman is looking for someone for a longterm relationship then all the guy has to have is the knowledge of how to use what he has. I have heard many times that after sleeping with a range of penis sizes that the smaller ones tend to know how to use it better. Women have an entirely different dimension to sexaulity which is emotion (not that guys dont have it but it is more predominat in women). If you know how to hit the right spot at the right time the woman will think your huge and thats all you will need.
Trust me when i say that there is a point where it is too big. Theres about 2 inches of me thats still a virgin. Although it does look impressive to have a buldge in your pants its absolutely not required.
So to the original question then "size is in the eye of the beholder". The idea of large, and average, is and always will be different for different people. Dont focus so much on size, learn to use your tool and you will see how unimportant size is.
