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So I have this friend of a little over 2 years. We really started becoming close around the spring of 2014. We'd hang out together, go to a lot of events together, hang out at each other's houses, etc. Then late last year/early this year, we kinda started drifting apart and idk why. Towards the end, I'd have to be the one initiating hang outs, etc. Then around April/May, I reached out a few times (spaced apart) and didn't get a reply at all. So I just gave up...
We never did anything sexual. Mainly because at the time, I had severe body dysmorphia and thought I was ugly/deformed so I never came on sexually to a woman, ever. I've now gotten over it, but still have not met any woman with as good as chemistry as her and I have. A lot of people said it seemed like she liked me, and everyone is shocked we didn't do anything. I'm sure she might have stopped talking to me because I never made a move and so she might have moved on, idk.
Anyways, at the end up September, I went to an outdoor music/arts event with a couple friends of mine. While I was there, she ran into me, and gave me a hug. This time, she initiated the "hello" to me. She also talked with my friends and I for a good 10-15 minutes, and seemed to be genuinely interested in the conversation. Anyways, later on after we all dispersed, my friends wanted to leave early, so I never had the chance to say goodbye to her before I left. I wanted to reach out and make plans, but I didn't know how.
Anyways, several months have passed since that event. And every now and then, good times with us have popped up in my mind, and I really miss her and think about her a lot as of recent. I really want to reach out, but I'm so scared of coming across as a creep. What should I do?
TL;DR: Friend dropped off for a few months for no reason. However, she ran into me at an event 2 months ago and said hello and we had a good conversation for a good amount of time. How can I try and reconnect without being creepy?
We never did anything sexual. Mainly because at the time, I had severe body dysmorphia and thought I was ugly/deformed so I never came on sexually to a woman, ever. I've now gotten over it, but still have not met any woman with as good as chemistry as her and I have. A lot of people said it seemed like she liked me, and everyone is shocked we didn't do anything. I'm sure she might have stopped talking to me because I never made a move and so she might have moved on, idk.
Anyways, at the end up September, I went to an outdoor music/arts event with a couple friends of mine. While I was there, she ran into me, and gave me a hug. This time, she initiated the "hello" to me. She also talked with my friends and I for a good 10-15 minutes, and seemed to be genuinely interested in the conversation. Anyways, later on after we all dispersed, my friends wanted to leave early, so I never had the chance to say goodbye to her before I left. I wanted to reach out and make plans, but I didn't know how.
Anyways, several months have passed since that event. And every now and then, good times with us have popped up in my mind, and I really miss her and think about her a lot as of recent. I really want to reach out, but I'm so scared of coming across as a creep. What should I do?
TL;DR: Friend dropped off for a few months for no reason. However, she ran into me at an event 2 months ago and said hello and we had a good conversation for a good amount of time. How can I try and reconnect without being creepy?