When did you know?

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I have been fascinated with the
male species for as long as I can
remember.

Men are simply glorious and a
female has nothing to arouse
any interest in me.

The guys have it all ! :wink:
 

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Matthew said:
Brilliant! Alex, is that what life is like for you?
Ach, mein lieber Mathew, if only my parents had been so understanding. They wouldn't even let me wear Lederhosen around the house or take my David Haselhoff magazines into the bathrooom with me. :mad: :tongue:
 

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Pecker said:
Here's Gunther, coming out to his parents and enjoying his new life.
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Pecker, you're priceless!
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Jeff,
I was insulted being called a "homo". But, I'll answer your query.

First, I noticed good looking guys in print advertisements when I was a teenager. That didn't progress to noticing real live men until I was in college.
First sex with a man was not until I was 25 years old.
Never sexually attracted to women.
 

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Webster said:
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Jeff,
I was insulted being called a "homo". But, I'll answer your query.

First, I noticed good looking guys in print advertisements when I was a teenager. That didn't progress to noticing real live men until I was in college.
First sex with a man was not until I was 25 years old.
Never sexually attracted to women.

No reason to be insulted Webster... I just type too fast and look for any abbreviations I can get away with... aka homo= homosexual. I fixed it for you though and anyone else who may have taken offense, because it wasn't my intention to cause problems.:cool:
Thanks for responding:biggrin1:
 

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GoneA said:
oh that was you....


(no really Sorcerer, lolol, have you considered writing for playboy or something like that - they'd pay you good money to put on paper the sexual trashy-talk that goes on in you heard :tongue:)
As soon as I get sick of wheeling and dealing in the business world, I absolutely want to.

And BTW, all the stuff I write in Fictitious Stories is true.
 

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I've always liked boys and girls. I could name members of both genders I had crushes on as far back as kindergarten. In those early years it didn't occur to me that it was unusual but once I learned what gay was and that it was "bad" I went into that denial phase and tried to explain my attraction to guys as envy. During that period I had the "if i were a girl I'd date him" thoughts. I think it was the last year of middle school (12-13 years old) that I finally progressed to the "if he was gay I'd date him" ones. I'm still trying to figure out my gay/straight ratio. I definitely pefer guys by far but I am interested in women. I think it's probably around 80/20.
 
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I'm still not totally sure! But I do remember looking at the sears catalog for the underwear ads. And then back to the toys!
 

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There are two questions, really. When did I know? And when did I admit it?

I knew probably a little at 7-8 when a friend and I did a lot of show and tell and i loved looking at his pretty little butt and fingering the hole.

Fast forward to 13-14 in junior high, and I can still remember the boys in my gym classes -- from the super hung dude (he knocked up a girl by 9th grade) to the late bloomer who dressed next to me and had the smallest cock i'd seen and no hair. Felt real sorry for him but he got his growth spurt in high school and then didn't have a problem.

I continued through college knowing I loved gay porn and even made trips to the baths back in the 70s. Didn't do much but look, but I knew I was interested, but I couldn't admit it to anyone.

Got married shortly after and hoped marriage would "cure" me. Wrong. Totally wrong. Made it so much the worse, because I had to really hide it more.

Came out after about a dozen years or marriage, and basically everyone knows. At least it's in the open again, though I haven't really acted upon it much, and she's totally cool.
 

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jeff black said:
To all the people in the forum... this question may have been done... but I didn't want to look :rolleyes: .

I have been talking to a few people lately (gay, bi, and straight) about the time when they realized they were the sexual orientation they are now. I guess this is more aimed at people who are gay and bi.. but I am sure that some straight people in here may have thought about homosexuality and some homosexuals who have thought about heterosexuality.

So if you are comfortable sharing... When did you realize that you were the sexual orientation you are now??:cool:

I did not put a word on it until I was 11 or so, but I have known I was attracted to men since at least 3 - 4. It's funny, even though I was raised in an Italian Catholic home, it was never an issue for me...the only "problem" I have ever had with being gay was other peoples' reactions. Even then, I was lucky; the one person who I was most nervous about telling -- my older sister -- already knew, and it did not make any difference to her, at all...

...come to think of it, she is much more of a gay man than even I am (and that is pretty damn gay!). Thanks for asking...
 

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I have always known, but it took me untill i was about 14 to come to full terms with it and be able to tell people about it. I never told my parents untill I was going to be able to move out, my step-dad and I had some conflicts...

I beleve the first quote I heard that was anti-gay was "if anyone in this house is gay I'm cutting it off." from there it just got worse...
 

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For as long as I can remember I've loved girls. Girls girls girls. Even though I've had a threesome with my best bud and my girl, there was no attraction. We even talked about it later and I was like "Dude. Sorry, no attraction."
He's straight, I'm straight, my girl's straight, it was just lust.
I see other guy's penis's all the time being in the locker room and I'm never attracted to them.

I like pussy too much.