When its 2 big!!!!!!!

Hi Amy and welcome. I'm new here myself. I've found this to be a problem for both me and my partner. I like to thrust deep and pound, and more than half of my partners can't take my length. This means I have to go slow and easy, or use short strokes. The problem for the partners - aside from occasional pain from hitting bottom, is that her clit doesn't get stimulated as much as it might need, so finger stimulation is often required. It's still great to be inside, but it makes it difficult to have barn-burning sex.

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Hi

My first thread on here, i am curious to know if you guys get annoyed when u r wiv a girl and its just 2 big!!! Seeing the size of some on here i would be on edge if i came across 1 like ive seen on here. My point is that i like a good shag!!!!!, by that i mean really going 4 it, (headboard banging etc) but surely some of u guys cant do that cus of your size. I have had 2 tell a guy 2 take it easy wiv me, and that he couldnt fully insert it all, which i dont think he was 2 pleased. Is this a downside 2 being big??? Does this annoy u????

On the other hand i just want 2 say that it really turns me on seeing pics of big ones, and if i had 2 choose between small and big it would def be big

AMY xxx

hey amy nice pics :) im new here. and yeah i have been told im too big before by some women whereas others can handle more than half. i take it as a compliment if she cant take me all. just shows how big i am which i love. however it is also a better shag when i can insert it all deeper and fcuk her harder.
 
Responding more to the validity of the question rather than the questioner:

I've always been very conscious of the comfort of my partner. There is usually always trepidation at a first encounter. I'd try to start off slow.

My wife is quite accustomed but I still go slow in the beginning. But it never fails that in the heat of passion I bottom out or go where no man should go. I hate to hear her express any pain or discomfort. I've even gone so far as to apologize before we even start.
 
Responding more to the validity of the question rather than the questioner:

I've always been very conscious of the comfort of my partner. There is usually always trepidation at a first encounter. I'd try to start off slow.

My wife is quite accustomed but I still go slow in the beginning. But it never fails that in the heat of passion I bottom out or go where no man should go. I hate to hear her express any pain or discomfort. I've even gone so far as to apologize before we even start.

Thats so sweet to apologize before you get started. That's actually quite sexy to think of my guy getting frisky enough to know he's going to possibly get rough enough to hurt me ahead of time. He usually doesn't apologize unless im moping on the toilet afterwards with a cold washcloth.
 
When you really love someone, you find a way to make things work. I think it's more intense to be madly in love, and have to go very slow, than to just bang a girl I don't care about really fast.
 
I'm very skeptic about the poster being who "she" says "she" is. But the question is legitimate.

I've always had problems with my size when it comes to casual sexual contact. Most women just can't take it.

My current girlfriend had difficulties getting my dick in for the first times we had sex, even with lube. She could just get the tip in and it hurt her a lot. After a while though she could get it in, but we couldn't do it for that long before it hurt her too much.

She claimed that it "hurt in a good way", but still, I can't feel anything but bad for her. Now, it's not really a problem anymore.
I just get her excited and wet enough and she will eventually basically shove it in with determination :)
 
I've had a few flat out refuse to have sex once they've seen it, and many say take it easy. And then, and then, there's the sizequeen. She wants it all wheather she can take it all or not. As one of my buddy's g/f told me..."fuck me til it hurts, then lets change positions and make it hurt again."
 

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I've had a few flat out refuse to have sex once they've seen it, and many say take it easy. And then, and then, there's the sizequeen. She wants it all wheather she can take it all or not. As one of my buddy's g/f told me..."fuck me til it hurts, then lets change positions and make it hurt again."

I can see why lots of ladies would refuse your monster cock, mister. Dayum!
 
I'm very skeptic about the poster being who "she" says "she" is. But the question is legitimate.

I've always had problems with my size when it comes to casual sexual contact. Most women just can't take it.

My current girlfriend had difficulties getting my dick in for the first times we had sex, even with lube. She could just get the tip in and it hurt her a lot. After a while though she could get it in, but we couldn't do it for that long before it hurt her too much.

She claimed that it "hurt in a good way", but still, I can't feel anything but bad for her. Now, it's not really a problem anymore.
I just get her excited and wet enough and she will eventually basically shove it in with determination :)
This, pretty much, though I'm not as thick as you.
 
I can understand when I am first with a girl and many times after; but it does get annoying after many times having sex and still cant get all the way in. My wife and I have been married for 10 years. I still cant get all the way; physically impossible without seriously hurting her. Its annoying but Im not complaining. I love her and would never hurt her. Thats what I get for marrying a 5'1" 105 lb girl.
 
Girls being sore after isnt all down to size. Had a friend with about 4 inches and gis girlfriend could hardly walk for days after his
Sessions. Saying that, my girl says she can feel where ive fucked her for days after, due to my girth. Think thats normal?
 
Yeah, this has happened to me a few times but mainly with petite girls who haven't had that many partners. I do find it quite annoying and having to endure blue balls doesn't make it any easier!
 
Well first time I put my cock inside the pussy most girls seems to feel some pain (because they say so or judging by their faces).

But once we are fucking I can penetrate balls deep without problem (I really love to feel my balls beating again the pussy).

Sometimes, if I stroke too hard while in certain positions, some girls feel pain (maybe because I hit their cervix, I guess).

But when it comes to anal sex, being 6,5" around I couldn't do anal first time I fucked any girl. All of them refused afraid of feeling pain. With my current partner I do anal but then again it takes plenty of lube.

It seems to me that most female's pussies adapts very well to the length of the cocks. In fact, I've seen that almost all hung porn actors can penetrate balls deep without problem (the only exception to this I have seen is Mandingo).

Anyway, as I said, I simply love stroking balls deep (al least vaginally).
 
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Being too thick does have it's problems.
After 6 years of sex and my wife having a baby naturally, I still have never been able to get into her without lube. We keep the lube business going.
It certainly kills being spontaneous. And once I'm in her I can't pound her near as hard as I want, she is in to much pain from hitting bottom, not to mention ripping tender areas, which ends sex until she heals.:(
 
nice topic- especially since a hot lady is asking.

My gf- never had kids, very delicate, tight, slender. When we first met, she needed 5 days off to recover. First she's afraid, I take it slow, then she loves it, then before long, she's sore. Can't do many positions. If not well moistened- is painful. She can't take the cowgirl, or any pounding.

Sometimes some hair pulling (done right), gets her going.

I wouldn't mind learning how you react to a big thick member in good standing. Nice pics Amy.
 
Theoretically, nothing is too big because vaginas stretch over time, as some guys have mentioned. You just have to stretch the pussy in increments over a period of time.
 
Allways give the "power" to the girl if she think it is to big...I usually start with girl on top position...Don´t move so much at all, let the girl feel it until she feel she like it...then you can do more and more...