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I can honestly state that my family is totally NOT dysfunctional.
Yes, issues and problems are quite normal for any family but we deal with them and they do not, of themselves, make the family dysfunctional. My dictionary defines dysfunctional, in the social sense, as: "deviating from the norms of social behavior in a way regarded as bad". By that definition no-one in my immediate family has (yet) provided the necessary ingredient to label our family dysfunctional. I did have one grandmother who lived to such a ripe old age (nearly 100) that she went senile and turned mean, and though that was a bad thing I would regard it as altogether normal under the circumstances. If one were to add in all of the aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, etc. to the definition of "family" then it would be fair to say that a couple of our family members were dysfunctional. One extended family member who had to deal with mental illness and another who was an alcoholic. But even they dealt with their dysfunction in a manner that caused no problems for society.
... I have yet to meet a normal family without issues or problems...
Yes, issues and problems are quite normal for any family but we deal with them and they do not, of themselves, make the family dysfunctional. My dictionary defines dysfunctional, in the social sense, as: "deviating from the norms of social behavior in a way regarded as bad". By that definition no-one in my immediate family has (yet) provided the necessary ingredient to label our family dysfunctional. I did have one grandmother who lived to such a ripe old age (nearly 100) that she went senile and turned mean, and though that was a bad thing I would regard it as altogether normal under the circumstances. If one were to add in all of the aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, etc. to the definition of "family" then it would be fair to say that a couple of our family members were dysfunctional. One extended family member who had to deal with mental illness and another who was an alcoholic. But even they dealt with their dysfunction in a manner that caused no problems for society.