Why do guys with a small penis.........

[GorillaHorse]

Why do guys with a big penis want a larger penis?

There's the real question, lol.

 

[colgan1999]

human nature

 

[bigbadger]

And yet...men do not want big noses, oversized ears, a bigger belly, wider thighs. So why should they want a bigger dick? Yes, a nice sized organ is desirable, but it gets to a point where it looks stupid. After 8 inches, it's about as attractive as having a huge nose.

LOL, speak for yourself buddy. I myself have never seen a very large cock and thought "wow, that looks pretty stupid". Or gross, weird, unnecessary or anything of the negative sorts. At least for me, there are few things more beautiful, stunning, and visually appealing than a much larger than normal cock. I love all penises but especially love the look of a huge cock, even more so when it is on a short and skinny guy.

 

[marcsdc]

While having a big penis does not make up for other things, no matter how handsome, successful, athletic, etc. a guy with a small penis is, he always will know he is not good enough. This is why most small-dicked gay guys are bottoms, and why most small-dicked straight guys are so faithful to their wives. They just cannot compete, and therefore will do anything to satisfy their partners. Bravo to the small-dicked guys who are not ashamed to show their cocks in the locker room, on cam, etc. They are proud of what they are; but, they also know their place. Which is behind guys with bigger cocks.

 

[puckman4]

To be superior.
I see guys with a big dick as superior.

I have 5,5 inch and I started bodybuilding to compensate something if you know what I mean

bodybuilding not going to save you from being a mental weakling

 

[someperson]

It has often been suggested that under-endowed men buy sports cars.

Not to mention LARGE trucks (Height wise) as a daily commuter

that v12 engine getting a whopping 5mpg

Size doesn't matter, until you're nude. Once your clothes are off, it's a whole other story. If there are two or more other guys nude together, the guy with the largest cock will get the most attention and respect. Growing up,my best friend who was a couple of years younger than me, would always look up to me, and be impressed by everything I did and said. Almost everything changed the first time our underwear came off and we jerked off together. I'm barely averaged size, and his cock was almost twice as big and thick as mine. I was then really impressed by him, and he felt a kind of superiority over me. I don't know if that's the case with everyone, But I realized the power of a big penis at that point.

it's true too I went from "the socially awkward guy" to the "cool guy" over night after a roommate saw my massive morning wood it was more harder then normal aswell.

 

[thickcockjames]

I've said this here before, but men think about their dicks like women think about their breasts. Parts of the body that their desired partners (gay or straight) notice, have preference about, and in the attempt to error on the side of bigger is better a lot of guys with smaller dicks want a bigger dick and a lot of women with smaller breasts want bigger breasts.

The compound that with the expectation set forth by hollywood, magazines and other aspects of pop culture and then it becomes a hell of a mess trying to fit in.

When the best thing to do is, just be happy and confident with your body and you'll have no problem in the sex category. And the guys with smaller penises have to remember this really important thing: Lets say the average size of an erection is 6" (I know there are hundreds of studies, they all have different answers, I'm just using 6" cause its easier for the math haha) If your penis is 3" erect, you may actually experience a similar number of problems in the bed room as a guy with a 9" erect penis. I know plenty of women who have been with a guy with a 9" penis (one of my good friends is that long) and most of them have broken up with him over it. The shitty thing is, because of the cultural outlook on penis size, the guy with a 9" can play it off in a positive light even though he still got kicked aside where as a guy with a 3" can't. But its the same problem, the guy with the smaller penis just has to hold his head up and keep looking. There are women out there who prefer smaller penises, just like their are guys out there who prefer smaller breasts.

 

[someasianguy]

Cause its a stereotype about my race (asian) and it makes me insecure cause i think girls expect it and since i live up to the stereotype its unfortunate

 

[jb3]

'..... When the best thing to do is, just be happy and confident with your body and you'll have no problem in the sex category. And the guys with smaller penises have to remember this really important thing: Lets say the average size of an erection is 6" (I know there are hundreds of studies, they all have different answers, I'm just using 6" cause its easier for the math haha) If your penis is 3" erect, you may actually experience a similar number of problems in the bed room as a guy with a 9" erect penis. I know plenty of women who have been with a guy with a 9" penis (one of my good friends is that long) and most of them have broken up with him over it. The shitty thing is, because of the cultural outlook on penis size, the guy with a 9" can play it off in a positive light even though he still got kicked aside where as a guy with a 3" can't. But its the same problem, the guy with the smaller penis just has to hold his head up and keep looking. There are women out there who prefer smaller penises, just like their are guys out there who prefer smaller breasts.

Good response in an interesting thread! The happy / confident bit takes time and effort - like many good things - and can't be constant. A little darkness and self-questioning is healthy too. Popular culture has much to answer for, just as it is a source of much happiness (and perhaps even a boost to morale...). Forums such as this, where folk think with their big heads as well as their little ones are helpful - but like most things, one has to decide what to take notice of and what to ride over.
Or sommit.

 

[BlackLantern]

Here's an entire thread why.

http://www.lpsg.com/27262-best-reaction-to-your-size.html

Because we NEVER EVER hear anything remotely like these comments. The first comment I ever got about my size was, "Wow. You're nowhere near as big as my last boyfriest." I've been cheated on repeatedly and told that it was because I wasn't big enough. No woman in the history of the world has ever said she gets wet thinking about a small dick.

Take a look at my pics and see. Who the hell would lust after THAT?

 

[Scott8361]

I am almost 6.5" but only 4.5" around. I wish it was bigger...especially in girth.

Why do I want it bigger? I think it looks so much more masculine. In my years of bi play I just loved the look and feel of a nice, thick cock. To hold and stroke such a big, heavy, stout member filled me with envy.

I wished my cock could have that effect on my partners. I want to impress!

 

[deleted136887]

A previous poster mentioned we only want larger cocks and not bigger noses/ears/etc
I happen to have a VERY prominent nose. In my youth a considered a nose-job, glad now I did not have it . In SE Asia, where I spend the bulk of my time, girls love my nose, since the ave asian nose is very petite and unobtrusive. And then when we get to bed, they seem very taken by my cock.
However I still want a bigger cock.
Why?
Because I want a BIGGER cock!

 

[unzipped]

imagine those poor guys with micro conditions...we should thank our lucky stars we can measure in girthy inches...

 

[deleted136887]

imagine those poor guys with micro conditions...we should thank our lucky stars we can measure in girthy inches...

Indeed.
Be thankful for what we have.
Thanks for injecting a spark of realism into this thread.

 

[1Cody]

I still want an inch more length and girth, when I am bottoming!!

 

[DevonTexas]

We're genetically programmed to want and/or have a big dick. It's also reinforced culturally.
Size is naturally a status symbol. Tallest building, biggest house, most land, etc. the penis happens to be a the ultimate tool for that competition

 

[giantsfrey]

Ah, thanks for clarifying. I happen to think it's artificial if it's superficial.

far from so--species of all genera all over the world select for artificial display, from fish to birds to bonobos. mates are oftentimes selected for brightest plumage, reddest butts, bluest feet, largest overall body mass, and all sorts of appearance aspects. penis size may or may not be something that human females would purposefully select for, but regardless, superficial cues are often the best clues that animals have to go by for healthy mate selection.

 

[Steven115]

I think us smaller guys want larger dicks because like others have said, the penis is THE symbol of masculinity, male sexuality, and male power.
Think back to the days of our distant ancestors, the ones whose genes we still carry for things like body hair in places we do NOT need it anymore (I will leave those "places" to your imagination). Before we learned to cover ourselves with clothing, the men's dongs were out there for all to see. This was likely how prehistoric men attracted mates. That is, if they didn't actually just club the poor woman over the head and drag her back to his cave or den as some think. Anyway, a large penis may have been one of the physical signs of male fertility, just like a woman with wider hips. Evolutionary my dear Watson.
Speaking for myself, I have a 5 x 4.25" erect penis. It isn't tiny, but it is on the smaller side of average at best. On LPSG, I have a micropenis, lol. Would I like to have a larger penis? Yes. 7 x 5-5.25" is what I consider my ideal. I have obsessed and worried and lamented about my size all my post-pubescent life. Every guy I have been had sex with has been bigger than me. And nearly all that I have seen online (granted there are many AOL-inch measurements and Photoshopped pix online), have been bigger than me. It makes me feel small and less masculine. But, when it comes time to get nekkid.... I'm not overly shy about it. I work with what I've got!

 

[fournineteenfiftynine]

"Why do guys with a small penis.........
.......wish so much they had a larger penis?"

Really this has to be the stupidest question that has ever been uttered on this planet.

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

I think us smaller guys want larger dicks because like others have said, the penis is THE symbol of masculinity, male sexuality, and male power.

I think masculinity, sexuality, and power have more to do with how you carry yourself in public. A few extra inches in your pants isn't going to change anything.