Why do guys with a small penis.........

[cuthroat_8.5X6.5]

I think most guys would wish for a bigger dick, even guys with big dicks, I know I wish mine was a inch or 2 bigger!!!

 

[wilderness]

depends - if you're looking for a quick online hook-up (ie craigs list) - your opportunities seem to be much better with a big dick.

if you're looking for a relationship as well as sex, it doesn't seem to matter.

as far as the mens locker room goes - there's always that envy factor which can be satisfying on some levels

 

[psguy64]

Well said which has been my experiences

depends - if you're looking for a quick online hook-up (ie craigs list) - your opportunities seem to be much better with a big dick.

if you're looking for a relationship as well as sex, it doesn't seem to matter.

as far as the mens locker room goes - there's always that envy factor which can be satisfying on some levels

 

[mako shark]

Totally a visual thing, I can tell you from my experiances that very few women want a large penis and there are many threads in LPSG that explain the negative side of having a large one. Can only speak for the straight side as I gather that it might be different for the gay fellas :smile:

 

[littleguy2]

Guy with a small penis here or a perceived small penis since it is all relative. When soft i have a thin 2 inches with a small head that looks like that of a little boy. Really would like to be a bit thicker so look more like a man. My 5 inch hardon is pretty good and really can't complain about that but would to be nice to be a bit longer so wife and I could do certain positons better. Side to side hard to get all the way in but on top I can bury myself to nuts. A big long penis can't always get all the way in. I joined LPSG to see what it would be like to big bigger and see some of the pitfalls. Also see that a lot of guys with pretty large hardons are growers and not that big soft anyway. I am also a member of measurection a site for small guys and learned that I am not that small and not really a big deal to not be large. All that said i still feel like hell when i see a big one at the urinal or at the gym. I am so much more than my cock and glad I have my looks, body, career and personality. Would not give up any one of those for a bigger cock.

 

[AtomicMouse1950]

There are some particular problems in the gay community regarding large cocks. Some having to do with anal penetration and some problems having to do with deep throating . But in relationship to size, women are much smaller than men are. Men are almost equal to each other in size equality. Not talking about cock size, as that varies due to genetics.

 

[aqua-illusion]

I wish my penis be larger because...I just do? lol

Minimally an average one would be nice. If a man could at least minimally have a "normal" sized one the world would be great.

BUT then an average one would be considered small and large ones considered average and massive ones considered large.

It's a vicious cycle so maybe I'll use numbers. If I could be 7 inches instead of 5.1 inches it would be wonderful...2 inches does a lot to ones ego and look.

 

[pimpinguy72]

try walking around with this and u would understand

 

[bassman70]

I've been told I have a nice cock, and have been told it's a good size, but I'm sure I would hear the same thing if I was a.n inch longer and a bit thicker

 

[Jetsfan4life90]

I guess visually a big cock looks better. I would like to have a bigger soft penis because I'm a shower.. My penis hard has never been called small but it's obviously not big

 

[wilderness]

try walking around with this and u would understand

nothing wrong with that dick. i'd grow back your bush though - way more masculine and mature looking. body looks nice and fit too

 

[Electric_V]

The very reason this thread exists is why men want bigger penises, the bigger the better in terms of social clout. A guy has a big dick, he gets talked about, if he is careful with how he deploys his member he gets respect for his sexual prowess. A guys dick is personal business until it becomes big, then its on everybody's lips. Seriously, a big dick has created such a fascination that we have about a hundred guys posting their personal social theories about an organ.
I recon it probably has more to do with the people that like the dick than the dick itself, we are a greedy bunch

 

[HJ1958]

I know this is not really a profound comment, but I think it is human nature to always wants more that what you have. I think, I have a nice dick, always thought of it as average to big, but have always wanted a little more length and girth. Just human nature.

One thing that has really bothered me lately is the "small cock humiliation" trend I am seeing. I know everyone has different fantasies and turn-ons, but I really can't get into humiliating anybody.

 

[BlackLantern]

Just a thought as I don't know you, but maybe your preoccupation with your size prevented you from developing great techniques that work with your size. Maybe that is the problem and not your size. Your exes told you what was quickest and easiest because it was what you have been projecting out there to the world. Just a thought.

I personally know women who it took them years to get accustomed to their husbands' large penises. One woman had to wait until after giving birth, five years into their marriage. One woman said it was a chore. Still another just could not achieve orgasm with her ex at all. All that to say that I believe large men have the same problems in reverse. You are on the a site for large penises and therefore are going to hear a lot about the perks of large penises and absolutely ZIP about the perks of a small penis. There are perks to a small penis just like there are perks to a big penis. And if you are paying attention it is mostly you guys who are carrying on regarding this issue. :shrug: As long as I love the guy and it is attached to him, we'll work out any issues that need working out.

Actually no, I never gave it a thought until after being cheated on by two different people. Being told "Wow, you're nowhere near as big as my last boyfriend." and "I deserve more."

 

[Orderstar]

It'd be nice not to feel like the object of ridicule, or somehow lesser than. Maybe women who've undergone breast enlargement for their own confidence can understand. Too bad men don't have that avenue.

 

[B_ILIW]

Curiousty. Damn those evil innate traits

 

[someperson]

The very reason this thread exists is why men want bigger penises, the bigger the better in terms of social clout. A guy has a big dick, he gets talked about, if he is careful with how he deploys his member he gets respect for his sexual prowess. A guys dick is personal business until it becomes big, then its on everybody's lips. Seriously, a big dick has created such a fascination that we have about a hundred guys posting their personal social theories about an organ.
I recon it probably has more to do with the people that like the dick than the dick itself, we are a greedy bunch

You can go from the unknown person to the "popular "cool person overnight especially in dorm conditions.
I do believe people knowing if a guy has a huge penis it change how people think of him. some people will stop claiming to have a large penis around you or stop bragging about something they don't have

 

[B_ILIW]

The very reason this thread exists is why men want bigger penises, the bigger the better in terms of social clout. A guy has a big dick, he gets talked about, if he is careful with how he deploys his member he gets respect for his sexual prowess. A guys dick is personal business until it becomes big, then its on everybody's lips. Seriously, a big dick has created such a fascination that we have about a hundred guys posting their personal social theories about an organ.
I recon it probably has more to do with the people that like the dick than the dick itself, we are a greedy bunch

This. I think if cutting to the chase, big dick is about ego. Whilst modern society can be PC, humans (not just us men) like to seek dominance and betterment over others, or at least feel as such. It is as is, and won't change anytime soon. :smile:

 

[deleted356736]

Women generally prefer sex with well-hung men over average, so once you have attracted a woman as your partner she will be more likely to stay with you in order to enjoy good sex that comes from a well hung partner. She may even boast about it to her friends. This is what smaller-sized men think, and there is some truth there.

 

[Indelicate]

Note to the mods: the post below deals with puberty, but only on the broadest of physical and psychological developmental levels, with no discussion of any sexual activity or personal specifics. If this post somehow crosses the line for acceptability, please delete it.

Perhaps it's because when one's penis starts to grow it is a sign of adulthood and thus greater control over their social environment. When one has an adult size penis it means that you are capable of being a parent. Puberty is not only a change in one's body, but also of one's sense of self. The same holds true for females with the development and size of their breasts. Those early psychological associations with the development of a larger, adult sized, penis can carry on through life, especially as some peers attain this physical sign of adulthood before others in the cohort. This genital development differential is also often linked to changes in height and muscle mass (and thus adolescent social status) which further the adult/child associations made with genital size during puberty. In adulthood many carry along these feelings of genital size-based inferiority/superiority throughout their lives. That is why I believe some men become fixated on wanting a larger penis than they are endowed with.

^^ This.