Yea when that happened with the cops, we were like we've gone too far.
Although it was always harmless fun, not ever any serious threats made, nothing that could get somebody in actual trouble. The cops just put on a show to put the message out that this shit was gonna stop.
I definitely think the show is a bit staged. I mean, if you're really Catfishing somebody, and Nev calls you, you're just not gonna be like "Sure, bring the cameras and show the world how weird I am!" Unless you're really starved for attention. But, you'd have to think realistically, that would happen at least 50% of the time, and that's being generous. Nev and Max don't just fly around, filming, just hoping, on the off chance that they actually catch the real Catfish and get them to come clean on camera. They have never once shown an episode, or extra scenes where they went somewhere and didn't "hook their catfish" am I right? I think they already know who the person is before N and M actually show up, no telling if the victim knows or their reactions are genuine.
The movie I felt was phony, I think too. Nev decides to video record his online romance, and tries to act all shocked and hurt when he "discovers the truth" but he's such a great and forgiving guy "We're actually real friends now!" I'm not buying it.