Why do some men think....

[B_VinylBoy]

The act itself is gay, and the men engaging in it are participating in a homosexual act.
That doesn't always translate into men being 100% gay, but it does show some level of bisexuality and acceptance of the gay lifestyle. That doesn't mean that once they've "suck a cock" that they're always going to be a gay male. That's just not true.

IMO, your overall preference leads you to your identity. If you're 100% straight then the idea of being on a website dedicated to dicks would not even interest you. The scale slides more towards the middle from there, whether or not you enjoy looking at other people's dicks... to whether or not you'd jerk off with others, or even let others jerk you off or blow you, etc. These kinds of actions have to bring you somewhere towards 90/10, 80/20 or even 70/30.

 

[hung]

It is imperative that what has been stated is very important to each poster.

In my own experience, during the time of my tender youth and also in College I must admit that I did experiment with male on/to male activity. As someone else pointed out here in a reply, it was situational or the opportunity was right.

That stated, I have aged and find that male with female sexual activity is indeed the most satisfying for me.

Could I now state that if I had not experimented in my tender youth?

Something to consider. Life is the total sum of all the experiences that one human has been involved with/in.

I am grateful and acknowledge that my experiences have certainly formed me into the human that I am now.

I always Enjoy Life.

 

[Cochranfan4life]

VinylBoy, yo do make great points. It's just it's so ridiculous when they always stutter afterwards that doesn't make them any bit gay. They stil lthink they are a 100% straight but really they are a small percentage gay. But..you're points are wonderful.

 

[B_VinylBoy]

VinylBoy, yo do make great points. It's just it's so ridiculous when they always stutter afterwards that doesn't make them any bit gay. They stil lthink they are a 100% straight but really they are a small percentage gay. But..you're points are wonderful.

Thanks. :wink:
Some people just need to realize that engaging in a homosexual act doesn't always have to include actual, physical sex. Just because a straight man may find someone else's cock to be nice doesn't mean that they want it in them. But the attraction to another man's penis counts for something. And even if they did engage in sex, I wouldn't be quick to call them gay. Was it just curiosity? A "once-in-a-while experience"? Or a regular sexual exercise?

The reason why put a 10% Straight rating on myself is because I have had two girlfriends growing up and we did have enjoyable sex. At least it was enjoyable for me and I hope they liked it to. :redface:

And part of me would still intimately kiss a woman today, although it's clear that I have my preferences towards men. Plus I love breasts. Boobs rule the world. But I digress, of course... :biggrin1:

 

[Cochranfan4life]

I like both sexes. I find both men and women sexy. I understand some men experiment with other men. I guess they want to experience gay sex once or twice. I thibnk it's cool because they are more open minded.

 

[auncut10in]

I completely agree that being gay is totally different than having gay sex. And I would also say that someone that gets sucked off is not "using" the other person. That person sucking is doing it because he wants to. Some guys really get off on just sucking dick.

 

[D_Frederick Fuzzynuts]

i completely agree with you, iv never understood how guys can say that they are not gay if a guy gave them a blowjob. they could at least admit that they are bi.

and also when guys are in their teens and growing up most probably watch porn together. then ull obviously need to wank and so either u wank there or go to the bathroom. if the 2 guys r both there just anking themselves, not paying attention to the other then thats not gay. if they both cum without help from each other then thats not gay. but was is gay is if the 2 guys either wank each other off or suck each other off then that is definately gay. i never got how guys could admit to this and say that there not gay because they are obviously doing it for the pleasure of being sucked off by another guy.

its straight though if the 2 guys wank together because they need to whilst they are watching the porno.

 

[Cochranfan4life]

11inchbill...thank you!!!!

if two guys jerk off at the same time that is stright i agree.

 

[Phil Ayesho]

..that if a guy gives them a blow job then they aren't gay. Sorry..but if a man alows another man to blow them then that is considered gay sex.

This is not a good argument.

By this logic, then masturbating is Gay, because you are being pleasured by a man.

 

[D_Gunther Snotpole]

This is not a good argument.
By this logic, then masturbating is Gay, because you are being pleasured by a man.

Nonsense.

 

[Cochranfan4life]

not if you're masterbating yourself while another man masterbates himself.
if a man jerks another man off then that is gay to me.

 

[deleted213967]

..that if a guy gives them a blow job then they aren't gay. Sorry..but if a man alows another man to blow them then that is considered gay sex.

By making such pronouncements you are discouraging straight dudes from experimenting.

It's as though you told me that if I were to lick up tight titties it would be "straight" sex.

 

[Cochranfan4life]

I'm not discouraging them from experimenting. If they want to experiment go ahead. There's nothign wrong with it. all I'm saying is that some men don't consider it gay when a guy gives them head or whatever. By all means I don't discourage experimenting. Hell I encourage it!

 

[D_Relentless Original]

Hmm, so many different views, just wondering where i fit with this, i have relationship's with men etc, but on occasions i absolutely love cunnilingus with women am i -

A) A part time straight
B) A part time gay
C) Straight
D) Gay
E) Bisexual.
No need for a poll just comparing if a straight guy gets head from a bloke, then a (gay) guy giving women pleasure, shouldn't they fit into the same category ?, if people need to categorise.

Anyway, my opinion is " who gives a shit" enjoy what takes your mood at that time, people damage so much and cause unnecessary guilt by labeling.

 

[Cochranfan4life]

Your points are good.

 

[deleted15807]

The issue is so complex it is in fact ludircous to say by virtue of one act you can in fact determine sexual identity.

Sexual Orientation: The organisation of an individual’s eroticism and/or emotional attachment with reference to the sex and gender of their sexual partner. Sexual orientation may be manifested in any one or a combination of sexual behavior, thoughts, fantasies and desires.

Sexual Identity: The overall sexual self identity which includes how the person identifies as male, female, masculine, feminine, or some combination, and the person’s sexual orientation. It is the internal framework, constructed over time, that allows a person to organise a self-concept based upon their sex, gender and sexual orientation, and to perform socially in regards to their perceived sexual capabilities.

Sexuality, Sexual Health and Relationships Education (SHARE) - Sexuality Definitions

 

[B_bigbanana]

..that if a guy gives them a blow job then they aren't gay. Sorry..but if a man alows another man to blow them then that is considered gay sex.

This is why I DON'T accept blow-jobs from men. LOL

 

[ginger_qboy]

I do believe that there are straight guys out there that really do love oral sex and for whatever reason their wives or their girlfriends will not accomodate them, and who will turn to gay men in mild desperation for the very thing they want...

I agree 100% i've known a few married guys that just LOVE having their cock sucked. They are not there for my body, ME or any in depth conversations. It's just a sexual experience an they cum.

 

[Viking_UK]

It's hard to draw a line as to what's gay or straight because there's such a wide grey area and that's down to people's varying definitions.
I think that getting sucked off by a guy once can be classed as experimentation, but more than that is definitely edging towards gay.
Saying that, I know some very straight guys who just want to get off and they're a hell of a lot more likely to get a quick no-strings bj from a guy than from a girl unless they pay for it. They're not doing it (allegedly) because they get off on being blown by a guy, but because they get off on being blown, and a guy will do it without three dates and having two bottles of expensive wine first. As a friend of mine once put it, "Any port in a storm, any hole in a hurry."

 

[midlifebear]

Yawn.