Why do some straight men masturbate together?

[Brit69]

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[DeepDarkSecret]

Just out of sheer curiosity, if two men are straight, why would they masturbate or jack off together?

As a gay man, if I'm with another guy, it's because I find him attractive, and I obviously want to be physical with him; So what's the appeal in jacking off together for two or more straight men, if they're not even attracted to each other?

I think it has more to do with the need for a sexual act without any emotional feelings involved. It’s simply just a sex act.

That’s always been my attitude at least. I’ve had several sexual experiences with men and it was strictly out of chance and/or opportunity, not lust or passion.

I simply needed an orgasm and it just so happened that the person available was a willing male, not necessarily because I’m attracted to men.

I hope this helps.

 

[Hakan1]

I think it has more to do with the need for a sexual act without any emotional feelings involved. It’s simply just a sex act.

That’s always been my attitude at least. I’ve had several sexual experiences with men and it was strictly out of chance and/or opportunity, not lust or passion.

I simply needed an orgasm and it just so happened that the person available was a willing male, not necessarily because I’m attracted to men.

I hope this helps.

I think this is very true. This applies for many straight guys who do that.

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

I think this is very true. This applies for many straight guys who do that.

And those guys are not straight, however since you are not either, you should not be posting in this section as only straight men may answer here.

 

[longstroke7]

I have never had even the urge to jerk off together with another guy. I don't see the point. If I'm jerking off that's for my own pleasure

 

[techpump]

Probably because they aren't that straight to begin with?

 

[techpump]

I have never had even the urge to jerk off together with another guy. I don't see the point. If I'm jerking off that's for my own pleasure

Same here. Never once in my life has this thought crossed my mind. I didn't even know men did this together until I was like 25 years old or something, and even then I said "when did this phenomenon begin?"

 

[londonlad1990]

Same reason I did anything else with my mates together, shared experiences are much better than solo. The bonding, the chat about the porn you're watching or recent fucks you've had, the openness. Watching a close buddy cum is pretty fucking special, not turned on sexually by it but happy to see a mate happy.

 

[Brit69]

Same reason I did anything else with my mates together, shared experiences are much better than solo. The bonding, the chat about the porn you're watching or recent fucks you've had, the openness. Watching a close buddy cum is pretty fucking special, not turned on sexually by it but happy to see a mate happy.

Double sexy and huge turn on if rather than porn it is real pictures or video of your girlfriend or wife and you talk your mate(s) through how she really feels and how she gives pleasure.

 

[Lucius2s1]

Same reason I did anything else with my mates together, shared experiences are much better than solo. The bonding, the chat about the porn you're watching or recent fucks you've had, the openness. Watching a close buddy cum is pretty fucking special, not turned on sexually by it but happy to see a mate happy.

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[justahornyguy174]

Just out of sheer curiosity, if two men are straight, why would they masturbate or jack off together?

As a gay man, if I'm with another guy, it's because I find him attractive, and I obviously want to be physical with him; So what's the appeal in jacking off together for two or more straight men, if they're not even attracted to each other?

I guess it is more exhibitionism, I'm straight but I have loved being at a nude beach having my cock out and like getting it out in the showers at the gym. I'd kind of like to jerk off with another guy in the showers but wouldn't have any interest in touching or anything more, just wanking off in front of a complete stranger has an appeal

 

[H.ricky]

Bear with me on this. I think there are a lot of things within sex, sexuality, etc. that gets confusing not because of acts itself but because of society and heteronormativity. The act of jacking off while a normal sexual activity doesn’t have a sexuality linked to it if that makes sense unless sexual acts occur between people then that’s different.

as to why straight men jack off with other straight men .. I guess the answer could simply because they’d want to idk

personally, I’m straight and jacking off with other men is not something I seek at all. But because of my upbringing with my brothers and close friends we have a locker room type of a bond that we’ve seen it all and nothing phases anyone. So if I was jacking off in the open with porn on the TV and someone would join for their own self — I don’t see a problem. So it could just be leisure thing

 

[Brit69]

Bear with me on this. I think there are a lot of things within sex, sexuality, etc. that gets confusing not because of acts itself but because of society and heteronormativity. The act of jacking off while a normal sexual activity doesn’t have a sexuality linked to it if that makes sense unless sexual acts occur between people then that’s different.

as to why straight men jack off with other straight men .. I guess the answer could simply because they’d want to idk

personally, I’m straight and jacking off with other men is not something I seek at all. But because of my upbringing with my brothers and close friends we have a locker room type of a bond that we’ve seen it all and nothing phases anyone. So if I was jacking off in the open with porn on the TV and someone would join for their own self — I don’t see a problem. So it could just be leisure thing

As someone who enjoys jacking off on my own as well as with others the difference for me is really about the energy/electricity that builds when you are excited at the same time as one or more guys. Personally I get turned on seeing that I am not the only person getting pleasure from some sexy situation, porn, or live action - when we start stroking together it is amazing to share insights if it is a significant other being shared, or fantasies and thoughts / feelings if watching porn or live action without previously knowing participants. Seeing another guy cum over my wife and being able to shoot my load as well is almost as good as being in a threesome or group sex experience

 

[mako shark]

Mostly a younger thing to do but not never have I had the urge to do anything else but jack myself off.

 

[Lost cover]

Hey, I'm straight, i wud enjoy jerking off with another guy just cos i can, i wouldn't be kean to jerk him or have him jerk !e, its just a bit of fun between boys.

 

[mrjobuddy]

The answer is simple. Society has made us hide the act of Masturbation all our lives. Made it a dirty and unspeakable act. So yes being able to share the act with someone that is not judging you and being there to witness the beauty of it is almost spiritual. Come on this is something you do on a regular basis and can't mention a word about it to anyone!!!!! Anyone!!! So to be open enough to be able to share it is awesome. There should be no lable to it!!! Its natural and beautiful. And if less people would judge others Period!!!!! We wouldn't be having this conversation.

 

[Tarheelcoast]

It’s about power. I just posted about having a few older guys suck me off in college. I got off, it felt good, I couldn’t believe my college body drove these seemingly normal men to act like a whimpering puppy for my dick. That does a little something in your headspace. Did I want guy bf? No. Did I want anal-to give or get? No. Something about the risk, the danger, the power dynamic got me hard as a brick.

 

[Kuriousym]

Never have but sounds fun

 

[Sexedup]

I really only heard of this at private all boys schools.
In that scenario I figured most of the participants were straight but just exploring their sexuality.
Some would have been bi or gay.

I mean go to an orgy and there will be guys stroking themselves in each other's company, only difference is women are there.

Trying to put myself in a mental situation where I was with other guys jerking off, I know it wouldn't do anything for mee seeing them jerk, but maybe it would be exciting in some way knowing they I was getting them excited knowing I was a straight male with my dick in my hand I guess.

Seriously doubt I'll ever find out tho.

 

[AndyJack]

It’s about power. I just posted about having a few older guys suck me off in college. I got off, it felt good, I couldn’t believe my college body drove these seemingly normal men to act like a whimpering puppy for my dick. That does a little something in your headspace. Did I want guy bf? No. Did I want anal-to give or get? No. Something about the risk, the danger, the power dynamic got me hard as a brick.

Well-said. This is an unspoken aspect of a straight guy getting oral from another guy. Power. And validation. Many straight guys (people in general) do not see themselves as desirable. And, quite often, these guys don't realize how desirable, attractive, or sexy they are until they hear it from another guy.