All kidding aside for a moment...there truly is a LOT going on psychologically for us men as we consider this topic.
I've spent the last several years reading really good material, much of it Christian-authored based. And amazingly, those authors get down to the nitty gritty.
Surprisingly, many of today's Christian authors have gotten bold and talked specifically about how natural it is for guys to worry over penis size, comparing themselves to other men, and NEEDING a sexual experience to help in "completing their manhood". It's deep-level stuff.
Today, we either scan over saying something like this, accept it or laugh it off, and then let it go. But it's profound when one attempts to understand all the depth this subject holds for us men.
Men yearn to be affirmed...that they're good enough and as good as other men. Perhaps indeed, men are predisposed to such inward desire (?). Men also need to be validated, too....be made to feel purposeful in life and capable of meeting another's need physically, emotionally, AND sexually. Men need to feel whole and completed. And sexual expression unarguably contributes to achieving this feeling of satisfaction in our earthly lives. *Notice however sex doesn't necessarily mean overall completion and fulfillment in life, it's just a part of it! Yes. --an important part.
For those who can tolerate it, there is one scripture (if I may) from Ephesians 5:33
"...and let the wife see that she respects and reverences her husband (that she notices him, regards him, honors him, prefers him, venerates, and esteems him and that she defers to him, praises him and loves and admires him exceeding. (the same meaning of scripture is found in 1 Peter 3:2 by the way.) AMPLIFIED VERSION OF BIBLE
One of the Christian authors answered this question for men (and women)
"WHY is oral sex so important to a man?" The reply? "Because it feels so good!" And--"...because men like to feel their penis is admired, appreciated, and highly valued".
Guys, we shouldn't feel too guilty then, to want our penises admired, should we? :smile: 'Seems we're made to be just that way.