Why do women give their numbers to random guys ?

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  1. B_1youngboy

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    I find alot of women I talk with say they don't usually give out their numbers but they can never explain to me why I was "chosen".

    This is puzzling expecially with women who you suspect gets contact information exchange proposals alot. If I found out a female was going around talking to everyman she is physically attracted to I would be turned off, thats the reason why this question is important. Well I really can't remember the last time I asked a female for her number and she didn't give it to me - even lesbian leaning women (as I later discovered). So naturally one would ask whats so special about one if a female/male who usually doesn't give out his/her number decides to share such information him/her. I don't think I do say or do anything unique upon the initial meeting of a random female.

    Well ive asked three females within the last 3 weeks, one said it's because I was nice for informing her about something thats wrong with her clothing, I don't believe her.

    One female said upon meeting me in the company of her female friend and taking my number her friend she wouldn't have called me. She said she told her friend that she would, and she did. She doesn't know why tho (roll eyes)

    A next female said she usually never ever gives out her number, she gave me her number at 2am in less than 3 minutes. Well she did give me three glances while walking towards, and one as she was about to go pass me so I called her over and she came. Obviously I can't take her seriously when I got her number so easy. While pressing I was reminded to "just be happy" that I got it and how lucky I was too. I think I got lucky there to be honest. But I think there is a cause for everything.

    I think most single women will give out their numbers to any decent looking guy who doesn't come off an asshole. :biggrin1:

    So to me if you are a guy who is unable to get onto the Island (her number) thats saying alot about you - not much good btw.
     
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    ....and guys don't?:rolleyes:
     
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    I would only give my number to someone I'm interested in. Maybe they gave you fake numbers?
     
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    Would you give your number to a guy you've only known for 5 mins ? how much interest can you develop in such a short time.
     
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    no double standard here, no not at all

    then again, have you considered that may be the reason they gave you their number?
     
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    Yes thats why I ask them why.
     
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    Ok, we get it - chicks dig you more than other guys

    All hail the ladies man:bowdown::bowdown:
     
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    NO, which is why I said maybe they gave you fake numbers, did you call any of them to see?
     
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    He's a paranoid chick magnet, poor youngboy. All the ladies just roll over with their cute little paws waving in the air when he approaches, card with phone number clutched in their manicured fingers, and it's beginning to unnerve him.
     
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    So you are basically saying you think women are liars. Good job.
     
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    Holy moly I'm glad the internet intercepts his magnetism then:rolleyes::wink:
     
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    I would, and have. If a guy was really hot, and didn't manage to irritate me in that brief period, and if we shared a laugh, or a weird experience together, I'd give him my number, or ask for his so I could find out more about him later.

    If you don;t exchange contact information with random people, how do you make new friends of your own? Why would I limit myself to the friends and acquaintances of my friends and acquaintances if I were single?

    As an aside, this does come across as another self-aggrandizing, ego-stroke thread for you.
     
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    Well you could only exchange numbers with people in your social/working settings. Maybe a gentlemen who works in your buillding in another sector but you happen to see him in the lunch/lobby at your work place etc ..Church lol ..I don't know but there are many ways to meet people.

    Honestly, everytime I make a step the ego you speak of (which is something I don't have) gets stroked. Gosh I spoke about three different females, one I met awhile ago and two I met recently. Geez one would think i'm posting like a celeb who has 20 women every night.
     
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    ^That's the line (the very first thing you say) that makes this entire thread scream "stroke my ego!"
     
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    Saying you don't have an ego, is very egotistical. You may have only asked 3 women, but you said that if you are a guy and can't get a girls number, something is wrong with you. How is that not at least a little bit egotistical? Not to mention in another thread you've said you've never been rejected.
     
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    I'm self-employed. My vendors deliver to me by UPS, and everything else I get in a supermarket, or office supply. WHen I was single, I worked for a company with roughly 200 employees. Six or so were men. The two attractive ones were unavailable. Even if during my night job I happened to meet someone from another company on another floor, and we clicked:
    A- They would still be random.
    B- When things ultimately peter out or fail, I still have to see them in my place of business.

    I'm agnostic. I do not go to church anymore. I know everyone is unique, but I don't consider myself to be unusual. If my limits had been as you suggest, I'd not be happily maried right now. I don't think that in a world of six billion people anyone need restrict themselves to getting to know new ones only from a selection of a few thousand. That's ridiculous to me.


    As for your ego, please don't make me have to compile a list of all your back-patting posts. It would be tedious for me, and possibly embarrassing for you. :wink: But as an example, in this thread, you get numbers in five minutes, random girls are always giving you their numbers much to your dismay, and in another thread, you have never ever been rejected even once. The way it comes out, it just looks like you can't stop congratulating yourself.
     
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    oh look! 1lookatmeee made another thread about how studly he is and how lame women are! how very original :rolleyes:
     
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    Stroke his ego, you assholes.

    However, I'd like to point out to everybody that his paranoia is real. If a girl is giving her # out, who else is she giving it out to? Is she lying when she say's she doesn't do it often? More than likely, yes. Its not like anybody is that fucking special. Point is dude, shrug it off and stop posting this shit. Have fun. And report back about fucking them. Otherwise, we don't want to hear it.

    P.S: Post some videos of fucking them too, for extra measure.
     
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    Congrats on being happily married not many people can say that honestly. :smile:


    It doesn't matter really because you will never have access to the billions on men around. I just like the idea of having a few small chats before getting really close. I don't know if it's because in those situations women usually make the first move because they just love talking to me or might find me interesting. Recently ive been real neglectful to women in my social setting tho.

    The reason why ive never been rejected before is for exactly that reason above - I make women make the first move usually. I love seeing people jump to conclusions without asking questions, but hey - trust me, everything is possible you just need to figure out how.

    Anything to do with a woman can never make me pat myself on my back - females aren't that special to me.
     
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