will any of you str8 guys

[diego]

I enjoyed a thresome with a friend and his girlfriend few years ago, dicks touched each other back then, but no penetrations or bj. Sex with another guy ??? NO WAY!

 

[faceking]

be willing to have an experimental fuck with gay guys?

not in the foreseeable future

i love legs, ass, tits... hair... all of it... i always figure i'm too in love with the female species to switch hit... if/when I'd ever get bored, then maybe...

 

[BarebackJack]

Yah, if a guy is willing to have sex with a man... I think we stopped being straight when he lowers his pants and penetrates the bottom.

Sorry to burst your bubble. I can't see ANY straight guys who are THAT comfortable with their sexuality. They would be Bi, I would think?

Sorry to disagree with you, Jeff old boy. I think that's way too simplistic an outlook. Here's my take on it. It all boils down to one thing: motivation.

If a str8 guy has sex with another guy once, he's being naturally curious. Especially now that there's pro-gay imagery in the media and ease of access to gay and bi porn at arcades and on the internet, etc., it wouldn't surprise me that some str8 guys might wonder what the attraction is and be adventurous enough to try it. That doesn't make the str8 guy gay (or any less hetero), any more that trying sushi one time makes one Japanese ~ especially if he returns without hesitation to his old way of doing things. In this case his motivation was curiosity.

If a str8 guy has sex with men on an occasional basis because he finds he likes it, but still prefers women, then I'd say he's not so much str8 as he is somewhat bi. However motivation still has to be taken into consideration. If he only goes after sex with a guy when his girlfriend is unavailable, then it could be that he is of the opinion that a mouth is a mouth and any mouth (or hole) will do when there is a lack of pussy in his life. That isn't what I would call "bisexual" behavior. It's what I would call succumbing to his male needs.

On the othe hand, if his motivation to go after sex with men on occasion is because he genuinely likes it, then I'd call him bisexual. But as long as he enjoys sex with women, even if disproportionately (like 80/20 or 30/70), he isn't really gay (although the sex itself might be).

And of course, being gay means really only liking sex with members of the same gender. Some gay men will have str8 sex to fulfill any number of society's expectations. But if a man prefers having sex with another man and would, given the chance, stick exclusively to that way of life, then you can bet he's gay ~ even if he is in the closet.

So in regards to the question at hand, I think ultravires is looking to find out how many str8 guys on here would be naturally curious to know what it feels like to fuck a guy one time. Despite the bravado, I think the number would be higher than one might assume... especially if the stigma of it being a "gay thing" gave way to it being an "ëxperimental thing."

That's my 2 cents. And to be honest, if I were a bottom I might find it just as intriguing to invite a curious str8 man into my bed. But as it is, I would never expect a str8 guy to bend over for me for an experimental fuck... not if he wanted to walk the next day.

PS: I do confess I have sucked a few tasty str8 cocks in my day <wink> and I'd do it again! So does sucking a str8 guy's dick make me str8 too? <evil grin>

 

[CuriousGuy]

It all depends on your paradigm.

Lex, I love your paradigm.

 

[pexman]

Been there, done that, too. Found it emotionally and mentally unfulfilling compared to sex with women. Tried being a top once, a bottom once, HATED both, so stuck to frot mostly w/o the kissing part (a big "no thanks"). It was cool to be able to get rough and stuff sometimes and not worry about hurting someone, but that can get old too. Also, seemed like there was always a cock competition going on, as this forum is ample proof of.

It's real nice now to have sex with someone where I'm the only one with a masterpiece of creation standin' up between my legs; where I'm the only one with big hard muscles, all tensed up and helpin' me do my business. Best thing is my wife loves my pecs as much as any guy ever did -- gettin' them squeezed while I'm pumping away or getting head is the best. Guess you could call it pec worship? Anyway, it's a fantastic rush, especially since I've got some beefy ones.

 

[nystrongstroke2]

nope one of my gay friends offered to suck me off and it made it grow inward.my dick shrank on me like i stepped into a cold shower and witness to horses fucking and shittin on eachother.

 

[B_horribleperson]

that would NOT make the straight

stright guys DONT:
have sex with other guys
jerk off with his buddies
watch gay porn
get suck off by other guys

if they do any of those then they are gay

 

[B_dxjnorto]

that would NOT make the straight

stright guys DONT:
have sex with other guys
jerk off with his buddies
watch gay porn
get suck off by other guys

if they do any of those then they are gay

They do if they want to. They're still straight. Jerking off with a buddy is definitely not going to make two straight guys gay.

 

[NYyankeeboi]

Yea, why not. I am 10% gay, so I had better live up to it...lol

 

[lbkontop]

I actually had sex with another man for the first time yesterday. I not only pendtrated, but was a bottom as well!

 

[NYyankeeboi]

Does that hurt to be on the bottom?

 

[lbkontop]

yeah because it was my first time. But not to much, he wasnt as big as he said. he was only 4 in.

 

[D_Sheffield Thongbynder]

I'm saving myself for back.slidin.

 

[lbkontop]

I posted the experince, go check it out.

 

[vanden_thomas]

I think your question doesn't really make sense.

A truly straight guy would not be interested...period. I know this because I am one (not just some sheltered, conservative, religious, right-wing zealot who just likes to talk about how un-gay he is).

The straight/gay percentages on this site are a pretty enlightened way of looking at things. Gay/straight is not a discreet variable. It's a spectrum. Maybe a 99/1 straight/gay guy would only have gay sex with one particular guy who he finds strangely attractive. Maybe a 90/10 guy would only have sex with guys in prison. I don't know. The point is that there's 100% and there's everything else. The question is: who are you really asking?

Whatever your intentions, do not delude yourself into thinking that any straight man could be "converted" under the right circumstances. It is that kind of mindset that will make all but the most enlightened of straight people at least a little weary of gay people. I have an absolute aversion to gay sex. The thought of letting a dude touch me intimately makes me want to vomit. I believe, however, that I am one of a minority of enlightened heterosexuals for whom this aversion does not, in any way, affect my non-sexual relationships with gay people. I see gay people as my absolute equals.

Uh...summary: Some of you gay guys should remember that if a guy seems to lose respect for you when you continue to hit on him after finding out he's straight, it's probably not because you are gay, but rather because he thinks you're a retard.

 

[Wilde316]

I wouldn't go gay, but my 1% gayness is based on the wierd concept that I like porn that has a woman having sex with well endowed guys, not freak endowed, just not average.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

The thought of letting a dude touch me intimately makes me want to vomit.

Thanks for your frank discussion of your personal preferences. It shows how different we all are. I love having a best friend grab me around the shoulders and give me a hug. While this doesn't fall under the heading of sex, it is intimate. It's the sort of feeling that is appropriate from the men in our lives--father, uncles, sons, nephews, that I didn't get growing up, maybe that's why I almost crave it.

That's my 70% of gayness. Although I'm sure we have a lot more in common than we have differences, your experience of physical sickness of intimacy between men is almost incomprehensible to me.

 

[henryroyce]

No I would not be prepared to have an experimental fuck with a gay guy.... although I might occasionally think about blowing or being blown by a guy, but that is just my facination for cocks showing through - I would never actually do it!:biggrin1:

 

[BarebackJack]

I consider myself str8 even though I'll give a bj every once in a while. Guess I'm "Metrosexual"?

I hope Metrosexual means you also accept blow jobs from guys, because that is one impressive and tasty lookin' slab of meat you got there.

 

[vanden_thomas]

dxjnorto,

Perhaps I should clarify: I don't think I would actually vomit. In fact, it's not exactly the same feeling but it's similar in that it is strong, unpleasant, and involuntary.

Actually, I'd like to expound on my preferences because I think it is probably difficult for gay guys to get a real understanding of truly straight guys since much of what people say about their sexuality is likely clouded by homophobic societal pressures.

One thing I should add to my original post is that my aversion is not just about someone else touching me. It's the the whole interaction. I love intimate interaction with a woman. Invoking feelings of arousal and pleasure in a woman is the biggest turn-on for me. The idea of arousing a guy, however, is the polar opposite for me...ick.

Also, as a totally comfortable heterosexual male, I can unabashedly admire a male body or face (the musculature, the proportion, the features, the athleticism) but only as something that is beautiful to look at. It's the same way I look at animals, cars, buildings, etc. They might be beautiful but I don't want to fuck them. It's the sexual interaction with the male person that I'm totally not interested in.

Anyway, given the absolute nature of my own preferences, I am a little annoyed when people think that they can change a person's sexual preference, as if my feelings and preferences aren't true and valid. This means that I also laugh at the right-wing radicals who insist that homosexuality is a preference and try to convert gays, the irony being that they, themselves, must be at least partly gay (the thing they hate) to believe that one has a choice.