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Preference for other bi-guys or gays?
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I like a man who knows what he wants and uses me in anyway he wants to satisfy himself. I guess that is part of my personality because I seek to please other people and that includes men. On other occasions it's like I'm almost hungry for another man's cock.
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Personally I am not bothered, bi guys I tend to find are more likely to be no strings which is what I want, don't mind regular meets for mutual fun, often gay guys are looking for a partner although there are plenty out there that just want a one night stand 
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I'm attracted to the person, not to the label they paste upon themselves.
That said, if they're not interested in other guys, I don't pursue it, and it doesn't really matter that I find them attractive. I can have (and have had) male friends who are smokin' hot, and not go around trying to get into their pants. Because they're simply not interested in guys and I respect that. The same way I've had female friends who were smokin' hot, and didn't try to get into their pants because they weren't interested (either they were in relationships, I wasn't their type, or they were into women.)
Personally, I tend to prefer masculine men, but that's likely because I'm primarily oriented toward women. That said, there are limits. I don't really go in for the macho-shithead type, who constantly feels he has to prove his masculinity. But I don't confuse masculine with straight, as many guys apparently do. Some of the straightest guys I've ever met set off every 'gaydar' in the room, and some of the butchest men I've ever met were bottoms. Porn marketing strategies aside, one never can tell.
That said? I tend to get less shit about being bisexual from other bisexuals. There are a lot of monosexuals of either stripe who have a really massive investment in insisting that everyone who's ever even looked at another dick in a public bathroom is secretly gay and in denial. That shit gets really. really old, after a while.
That said, if they're not interested in other guys, I don't pursue it, and it doesn't really matter that I find them attractive. I can have (and have had) male friends who are smokin' hot, and not go around trying to get into their pants. Because they're simply not interested in guys and I respect that. The same way I've had female friends who were smokin' hot, and didn't try to get into their pants because they weren't interested (either they were in relationships, I wasn't their type, or they were into women.)
Personally, I tend to prefer masculine men, but that's likely because I'm primarily oriented toward women. That said, there are limits. I don't really go in for the macho-shithead type, who constantly feels he has to prove his masculinity. But I don't confuse masculine with straight, as many guys apparently do. Some of the straightest guys I've ever met set off every 'gaydar' in the room, and some of the butchest men I've ever met were bottoms. Porn marketing strategies aside, one never can tell.
That said? I tend to get less shit about being bisexual from other bisexuals. There are a lot of monosexuals of either stripe who have a really massive investment in insisting that everyone who's ever even looked at another dick in a public bathroom is secretly gay and in denial. That shit gets really. really old, after a while.
I prefer bi married guys. Just there to have fun and go. I do prefer having a buddy, but only for sex
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It completely depends on who the guy is and if we have a good emotional/sexual connection with each other. I don't think it has anything to do with how a person defines himself (or herself).
Bi. Gay guys want to kiss and cuddle and I'm not super into that. I don't mind, but I'd rather just suck.
I have a passion for married men, but I've also had great experience with gays. I think one difference is that for gays, cocksucking is a primary form of sex, but with str8 guys it occupies a different place--and gays have had more sex with men, usually, than str8 guys....
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For me it depends on the person... However in general the straighter or more masculine the guy the better. For me, it's all about getting off and helping a buddy do the same. Many gay folks (at least in my part of the country) are super-feminine to the point they almost act like drag queens... (no offense intended but they're over-the-top).
Hardest part is finding someone sane and into it for the same reasons as I am.
Hardest part is finding someone sane and into it for the same reasons as I am.
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I am sorry that you buy into the "stigma and negative hype" of Bisexuality. Bi People are attracted to both genders and are "capable of making a commitment to either...that the perk of being Bisexual.
That noted...most of the Bi-Men I have know have been burned the other way around...by the rampant "glorified" promiscuity of Gay Men. Because of this most Bi Men (and I suspect Women) marry opposite sex partners for our serious grounded family life and keep our "safe" recreational sex based on our same sex attraction.
I also only prefer masculine men and to further that...prefer another married bi man (if given the choice) because I know that he too has a family life that we would protect and defend till his death! Because if that family responsibility, sexual safety and mature discretion are paramount!
If you are dating a Bi Man and You are Gay... be honest and discuss this issue in detail! You could find a great life mate!!
Said the bi guy to the other bi guy. o_o
...and there you go being the Bi guy who can't offer anything serious and you're upset at the gay man who wants a secure relationship. Which was my whole point, though stated a bit crass. You are promiscuous and telling me that it's a stigma and negative hype. Nothing wrong with it. I am too, when I'm not in a relationship.
So...safe promiscuity.
It's nothing wrong with it as long as your wife knows and you keep it all above the table. *shrug*
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I am sorry that you don't share my point of view!
My sexuality is very fluid, I don't know what your issues are? I am guessing from your "harsh judgmental tone" (snarky)... that you are still young.
I "came out" at age 19!!! and bonded into a committed Gay relationship for 10 years (we had a commitment celebration 20 plus years ago, way before it was cool & trendy - still have the ring) my partner (a Gay Man - Not Bi at all) was caught many times stepping out of our committed relationship because it was too easy for gay men!! BTW after many curable STDs (given to me) he finally came home with HIV (NOT given to me). I came from the generation of men who dropped dead like fly's due to AIDS. We saw a lot of death. I tried it again with another Gay Man for 1 year and he could not maturely control his urges either (more stds at age 31). Additionally the angry troubled man liked to beat others (I ended up in the hospital once). I knew I was happy to have "choices" and made my choice!
My wife of now 15 years is also Bisexual and we are OK with that fact! We have a happy marriage & family (because we were both capable of commitment) we are not promiscuous, but honest with each other about our sexual duplicity! And given the right opportunity trust the other to explore safely!
I hope you have as dynamic and tumultuous love life as I have had....and earn your well deserved happy ending!
Stop judging others and just accept...Accept Yourself!! You will without question be a happier person!
My sexuality is very fluid, I don't know what your issues are? I am guessing from your "harsh judgmental tone" (snarky)... that you are still young.
I "came out" at age 19!!! and bonded into a committed Gay relationship for 10 years (we had a commitment celebration 20 plus years ago, way before it was cool & trendy - still have the ring) my partner (a Gay Man - Not Bi at all) was caught many times stepping out of our committed relationship because it was too easy for gay men!! BTW after many curable STDs (given to me) he finally came home with HIV (NOT given to me). I came from the generation of men who dropped dead like fly's due to AIDS. We saw a lot of death. I tried it again with another Gay Man for 1 year and he could not maturely control his urges either (more stds at age 31). Additionally the angry troubled man liked to beat others (I ended up in the hospital once). I knew I was happy to have "choices" and made my choice!
My wife of now 15 years is also Bisexual and we are OK with that fact! We have a happy marriage & family (because we were both capable of commitment) we are not promiscuous, but honest with each other about our sexual duplicity! And given the right opportunity trust the other to explore safely!
I hope you have as dynamic and tumultuous love life as I have had....and earn your well deserved happy ending!
Stop judging others and just accept...Accept Yourself!! You will without question be a happier person!
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