I honestly believe that LPSG has improved our sex life immensely, and it continues to improve it all the time. I didn't even realize that there was much room for improvement. I'm not just talking about the practical advice on deepthroating and having sex with a large penis, although some of that advice has been invaluable!
I've learned from the forums that I've discussed sex with my lovers more than most people do. It depended on the lover and how comfortable he was with it, but for the most part I think I had better communication with my lovers than most. It could have been a lot better.
Before I joined LPSG, TheBoyfriend and I were more open about discussing sex with one another than anyone else I've ever dated, just because no subject ever makes him uncomfortable so everything is fair game, but our discussions about sex have just continued to improve since the day I joined. We've discussed topics that would have never occurred to me to bring up with TheBoyfriend, and so many of those topics I was glad that we talked about afterward. The reason why we've talked more about the important aspects of sex and relationships is not so immediately obvious.
I know that TheBoyfriend doesn't log on or comment very often on LPSG, but a lot of the time that I'm logged in here, we're sitting together just hanging out or he's working nearby, and every once in a while I'm telling him about the threads and the posts here and we laugh and talk about them. I love reading some of they things the guys post and hearing his commentary on what other men have to say about things. He's so funny! I usually bring up the most entertaining threads or if someone has posted something funny. So many times after we've finished laughing and joking, we have a real conversation over some of the things people bring up, even over some of the really stupid threads. There are so many aspects about sex and relationships that we would have never talked about if they hadn't come up on the LPSG forum. It's turned out to be a lot more important than just a fun past-time. It's become the way that we've discovered so many new things about each other and that's really wonderful.
I've learned from the forums that I've discussed sex with my lovers more than most people do. It depended on the lover and how comfortable he was with it, but for the most part I think I had better communication with my lovers than most. It could have been a lot better.
Before I joined LPSG, TheBoyfriend and I were more open about discussing sex with one another than anyone else I've ever dated, just because no subject ever makes him uncomfortable so everything is fair game, but our discussions about sex have just continued to improve since the day I joined. We've discussed topics that would have never occurred to me to bring up with TheBoyfriend, and so many of those topics I was glad that we talked about afterward. The reason why we've talked more about the important aspects of sex and relationships is not so immediately obvious.
I know that TheBoyfriend doesn't log on or comment very often on LPSG, but a lot of the time that I'm logged in here, we're sitting together just hanging out or he's working nearby, and every once in a while I'm telling him about the threads and the posts here and we laugh and talk about them. I love reading some of they things the guys post and hearing his commentary on what other men have to say about things. He's so funny! I usually bring up the most entertaining threads or if someone has posted something funny. So many times after we've finished laughing and joking, we have a real conversation over some of the things people bring up, even over some of the really stupid threads. There are so many aspects about sex and relationships that we would have never talked about if they hadn't come up on the LPSG forum. It's turned out to be a lot more important than just a fun past-time. It's become the way that we've discovered so many new things about each other and that's really wonderful.