This reminds me of "I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member".
She already chose me, proof enough she is unreliable. :smile:
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She already chose me, proof enough she is unreliable. :smile:
Please fire77..call me daddy. Lol j/k just wanted to say the wife was the one who picked the guy. The guy came over with a past friend and I looked at her and knew she wanted to try so I agreed. After all it was her fantasy that I could fulfill. It just happened to be the right circumstance at the right time. She completely regrets doing it because the guy turned out to be a loser that couldn't follow rules and be respectful. Plus we later found out he was married. So again, whoever else reads this..MAKE SURE U KNOW THE PERSON VERY WELL and that they will respect all guidlines at all times.
We never go with someone we know, ie. a friend or a friend of friend or someone introduced to us by someone we know. We find our guys on the internet, we make sure he provide us with STD test report, we also talk to him in great details before we even think about having him with us. Like I said this kind of lifestyle is not for the faint hearted and can turn bad a lot of the times.
I am surprised "daddy" that your wife's instinct was wrong. You need to keep searching online till you find the right person.
I am surprised "daddy" that your wife's instinct was wrong. You need to keep searching online till you find the right person.
So you are telling your wife made a mistake by choosing you.? well I guess we make some mistakes sometimes but I am sure she is a lot more reliable than you. :biggrin1:
Your so right fire! And full of wisdom. You would be a great person to get to know.Beautiful pictures by the way!
Thanks Daddy for the compliment and its my pleasure to pass on my experience to those who wish to try it.
Yes I guess it is harder for a man. Normally couples who initiate such thing and if you are lucky they'll find you. Of course finding a woman to agree is almost impossible. My hubby tried to talk me into it for almost 7 years till I finally agreed.
Just advertise yourself on the right sites and you will get picked up by either a couple or a woman who can arrange a 3some.
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What an interesting conversation! I've always been intrigued by the idea of MMF 3somes. However, I've never had a partner who would even consider it. Fortunately, several years ago, I was able to try it.
I met a couple of guys through a friend of a friend, at a party. We started talking, and all ended up at their shared condo. The first friend just sat on the couch with his drink - the rest of us started playing around, first jokingly and then more seriously, until we three moved to the bedroom to have sex.
As it turned out, they were best friends, and totally comfortable in each others' (naked) presence. We had several more experiences together. However, no DP - taking turns.
I think it would be fantastic to have a relationship with a man who's secure enough in our partnership to bring in another man to share me with. Congratulations to those of you who have enjoyed this already
I met a couple of guys through a friend of a friend, at a party. We started talking, and all ended up at their shared condo. The first friend just sat on the couch with his drink - the rest of us started playing around, first jokingly and then more seriously, until we three moved to the bedroom to have sex.
As it turned out, they were best friends, and totally comfortable in each others' (naked) presence. We had several more experiences together. However, no DP - taking turns.
I think it would be fantastic to have a relationship with a man who's secure enough in our partnership to bring in another man to share me with. Congratulations to those of you who have enjoyed this already
I consider myself lucky having such a wonderful husband, I never thought of doing such thing in a million years but thanks to hubby I had the chance to experience this amazing lifestyle, and yes it is fantastic to have a relationship with such man and I love it.
I can't say enough about how it feels been squeezed between two good looking hunks with big hardons sliding in and out of every hole in my body.
I can't say enough about how it feels been squeezed between two good looking hunks with big hardons sliding in and out of every hole in my body.
What do you guys and gals think?
Should alarm bells ring if your long term girlfriend keeps suggesting a threesome that involves her best-hung ex (allegedly around 8 1/2 to 9 inches)? Bear in mind they're still good mates and since day one she candidly told me he's the one who gave her the most intense orgasm ever...
Should alarm bells ring if your long term girlfriend keeps suggesting a threesome that involves her best-hung ex (allegedly around 8 1/2 to 9 inches)? Bear in mind they're still good mates and since day one she candidly told me he's the one who gave her the most intense orgasm ever...
What an interesting conversation! I've always been intrigued by the idea of MMF 3somes. However, I've never had a partner who would even consider it. Fortunately, several years ago, I was able to try it.
I met a couple of guys through a friend of a friend, at a party. We started talking, and all ended up at their shared condo. The first friend just sat on the couch with his drink - the rest of us started playing around, first jokingly and then more seriously, until we three moved to the bedroom to have sex.
As it turned out, they were best friends, and totally comfortable in each others' (naked) presence. We had several more experiences together. However, no DP - taking turns.
I think it would be fantastic to have a relationship with a man who's secure enough in our partnership to bring in another man to share me with. Congratulations to those of you who have enjoyed this already
that's really hot...
would you ever consider having a relationship with two guys ?
so kinda polyamory
personally, i'd be more comfortable if I knew the couple... the female AND the male
would be nice to know their personalities, their likes and dislikes
my definition of a threesome is we're all participating in pleasing the female
and as I'm not homophobic, contact is definitely expected
what I find even more erotic, is when the couple ask me to spend the night with them in bed after the fact
would be nice to know their personalities, their likes and dislikes
my definition of a threesome is we're all participating in pleasing the female
and as I'm not homophobic, contact is definitely expected
what I find even more erotic, is when the couple ask me to spend the night with them in bed after the fact
My current gf had an endowed ex (something around 8x6), which she admitted gave her the best sex she ever had, at least prior to me. We actually considered a MFM with him, and I was eager for it. But, while I'd still like it, she lost interest. Moreover she always made sure to let me know (and believe) sex with me is better, and there's no hint of nostalgia.
So my suggestion is: talk openly, and before considering a 3some be ABSOLUTELY sure that there are no second intentions behind it.
If there are, probably you'll have far bigger problems than thinking of a 3some.
As I said, I'm still prone to it, and I often fantasize. On the other end I try to avoid proposing it to her, because I know that for different reasons in this period she's not that much interested in it anymore.
That's tough: while I'd like to bring her back to this fantasy, I don't want to even come close forcing her into it.
All to say that your husband may have had an important role, but for sure you deserve the biggest credit for it.
that's the correct method
if you're ready to see her with another man, then you should definitely not force it onto her... when she's ready, she will approach you with it.. you can drop hints here and there, just always make sure you never force it... she has to be totally ready for him
I agree. When I met my wife, it wasn't long before I told her of the experience I'd had before with three/foursomes in and after a previous marriage. Although eager to enjoy this with her, there was no way it seemed a good idea to push it on her. This wasn't like trying a new flavor of ice cream, after all. We talked about it off and on, but it was more answering questions for her and asking what she thought of different aspects of it.
When the first time came it was very organic - with a good male friend and all her idea at that moment. Our relationship was based on way more than good sex; I wasn't worried she would leave if my friend was "better" in some way. Turned out well and all had a great time.
When the first time came it was very organic - with a good male friend and all her idea at that moment. Our relationship was based on way more than good sex; I wasn't worried she would leave if my friend was "better" in some way. Turned out well and all had a great time.
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I`ve asked this question before and probably will inevitably ask it again, but to the men here who have participated in a MFM scenario with your partner, have you ever asked your mate to reciprocate and do a FMF threeway in return? If you did, was it granted or was it denied, and if so, for what reason?
We've been swinging for many years and while our usual combination is the 4some, we've also had many 3somes, and of both sorts. The only ones we do regularly are FFMs with the wife's two long-term girlfriends (one at a time with her, not both together), and the usual scenario is for them to play together alone then for me to join them. She enjoys FFM and MFMs equally but I prefer FMF.
I've had a few MMF threesomes of late, and I enjoy the dynamic of a woman being totally ravished by two men at the same time. Women can take all that we can both give, and still be capable of much, much more! What has surprised me is that every time but one, it's been the husband who's approached me, not the wife, and usually the first time I meet the wife is immediately prior. I do recognise that the men have to get on to make it successful, but there's no doubt in my mind that the two male combination is something that turns some men on in a big way. Possibly for the same reason as me: they get a lot of pleasure from being part of their wives being ravished in a big way.
I have also done threesomes with two women, and they were lovely but quite, quite different. It's lovely to hug and kiss and hold and be held and just have a surfeit of love, but at the same time it's tamer than two men and it's harder on one man for two women relative to one woman for two men.
Mikeshort: if you advertise on swingers sites and if your profile is well written, and especially if you have a big cock, then it will happen.
I have also done threesomes with two women, and they were lovely but quite, quite different. It's lovely to hug and kiss and hold and be held and just have a surfeit of love, but at the same time it's tamer than two men and it's harder on one man for two women relative to one woman for two men.
Mikeshort: if you advertise on swingers sites and if your profile is well written, and especially if you have a big cock, then it will happen.
This is my first actual post and as it happens I was just talking about this in the hot tub with my friend (sounds sexier than it was!)...
I have had several threesomes in the past, but one in particular really stands out. I was dancing at a bar with my roommate in the college town where I used to live and we met two surfers who were hot and into us. On our way back to their place, my roommate backed out and I stayed in the car by myself. Once we got to the house, my guy started kissing me and slowly moved behind me while the other one came close and leaned in to kiss me on the lips. As soon as I realized what was happening, I leaned in towards him. I remember hearing both of them whispering, "she's into it!" before pulling my clothes off and leading me to the bedroom.
What followed was definitely the most intense sex I have ever had - oral, anal and everything in between and it lasted for hours. I discovered a stamina I didn't realize I had and came over and over! Both boys were incredibly well hung and had been best friends since they were little. While there was no 'sword crossing' or anything like that, they were both totally comfortable around each other, cracking jokes and everything. We slept a little bit, with me in between the two of them, before I woke up to the feeling of a hard cock against my ass. We started up again in the morning before I had to leave for work and I remember seeing the floor in the light of day, littered with magnum wrappers and feeling immensely satisfied.
We got together a few times after that, and each time just as intense as the first. My one wish is that I could have tried DP, but I think I was too shy to ask I feel lucky to have had such an awesome experience, totally out of the blue and wonder how different it would have been if I were emotionally attached to one of them. As a cock-loving woman, I could imagine going for a threesome with a well-endowed guy and my boyfriend, but as others have mentioned, it would really depend on the comfort level of everybody involved.
Woo, posting cherry popped!
I have had several threesomes in the past, but one in particular really stands out. I was dancing at a bar with my roommate in the college town where I used to live and we met two surfers who were hot and into us. On our way back to their place, my roommate backed out and I stayed in the car by myself. Once we got to the house, my guy started kissing me and slowly moved behind me while the other one came close and leaned in to kiss me on the lips. As soon as I realized what was happening, I leaned in towards him. I remember hearing both of them whispering, "she's into it!" before pulling my clothes off and leading me to the bedroom.
What followed was definitely the most intense sex I have ever had - oral, anal and everything in between and it lasted for hours. I discovered a stamina I didn't realize I had and came over and over! Both boys were incredibly well hung and had been best friends since they were little. While there was no 'sword crossing' or anything like that, they were both totally comfortable around each other, cracking jokes and everything. We slept a little bit, with me in between the two of them, before I woke up to the feeling of a hard cock against my ass. We started up again in the morning before I had to leave for work and I remember seeing the floor in the light of day, littered with magnum wrappers and feeling immensely satisfied.
We got together a few times after that, and each time just as intense as the first. My one wish is that I could have tried DP, but I think I was too shy to ask
I feel lucky to have had such an awesome experience, totally out of the blue and wonder how different it would have been if I were emotionally attached to one of them. As a cock-loving woman, I could imagine going for a threesome with a well-endowed guy and my boyfriend, but as others have mentioned, it would really depend on the comfort level of everybody involved.Woo, posting cherry popped!
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