I hate to say this but inability to have sex is the first formeost sign of health issue. If you can have sex than most likely you are good to go. Sudden weight gain or loss is another facter of health.
however if inability to have sex with partner only can be leading to what going on in your head. I had problem and I went to a urologist, and he was very helpful. I would say in the end it was the pressure I put on myself in my head. The brain is a powerful sexual organ. So now I tell the women to be patience, and just relax. I think putting brakes on makes her even more anticipated. It's okay to just let it ride in its own pace.
The older I got and the experience behind it made the problem go away. It's thing like this that makes the movie "40 year old virgin" so funny, because much of it is so universially true!
however if inability to have sex with partner only can be leading to what going on in your head. I had problem and I went to a urologist, and he was very helpful. I would say in the end it was the pressure I put on myself in my head. The brain is a powerful sexual organ. So now I tell the women to be patience, and just relax. I think putting brakes on makes her even more anticipated. It's okay to just let it ride in its own pace.
The older I got and the experience behind it made the problem go away. It's thing like this that makes the movie "40 year old virgin" so funny, because much of it is so universially true!