BBC Obsession?

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I find the idea of the black man on white woman to be almost taboo, but that is probably due to my upbringing.

A certain % of people are intrigued by the forbidden.

Strange how we can have different childhoods and norms. I was brought up in a society where colour wasn't a taboo - on the contrary, being non-white was sometimes an added bonus - not a taboo but a novelty.

There is a part of pornography that is all about demeaning women.

I actually dislike most american black on white movies due to the racist language and attitude and the view on (white) women. Strangely, there's apparently not a market for white men on black women in the US.

Some american ebony movies are the same, but some are actually just show normal sex without all the disgusting demeanour against women.

But alas the US market for porn seems to be mainstreaming only stereotypes and demeaning views on sex, love, men and women
 

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I'm not trying to argue that this is about race and I'm certainly not racist but one thing I've never understood is the obsession with 'BBC'. The idea that they're somehow better, bigger, more exciting etc. It's all rather objectifying as well with all the "my wife wants a bbc" posts out there.

To me, it's not the color of the cock that matters. All big cocks are exciting and great as are lot of the men attached to them. I've seen plenty of other big cocks of different races and I don't think it's a valid thing to say black men are the only ones with big cocks. Or that black men on average have bigger cocks. It's a porn myth. And I just feel like this whole BBC thing is a sick fetish I don't understand based on false information and objectifying ideation. A sort of 'stunt' cock if you will.

Why do black men even participate in this? They're being used as a piece of meat in this sort of fantasy and it's certainly degrading to them.

So, why the obsession with BBC?

I don't get it! Anyone else that doesn't?
The thing is, and I'm sure I'm not alone on this, most black males will see that and think "Oh here we go, one of these again" And will probably look for some racist undertone. It's sad but true, the moment I read that I thought it but carried on, it's just personal experience that leads me to think "Oh it's that line, what is it this time?". Just thought I'd throw that in, in regards to the first bolded part.
The second part, you're not really helping anything by calling it a sick fetish, obviously it'll offend someone and not just people who have the fetish but I'm sure some black males too. I wouldn't say it's a sick fetish, it's just a fetish that you don't understand and everyone has fetishes they don't understand so it's ok.
Thirdly and oddly enough, the guys I know who participate in this feel it's more of an exchange of power thing. You know, black guy can have anything he wants and the white man can't stop him kind of thing. If you read the Size Academy story currently going in the Fictitious Stories section then think of that but change the name to something like "Black Cock Academy" And you'll probably see the point a little clearer if you don't already.
So basically it just boils down to wording, I get your intentions and whatnot but it was slightly off putting reading that OP.

As for me personally, I've never really understood the fascination but I just rolled with it. If everyone assumes you're packing and you are indeed packing, are you going to stop them? It's like a business, you've got a product that someone wants, you're obviously going to give it to them. Plus most of the guys I know love the power they get from knowing that a woman wants/craves you and your type. I don't think I can explain it better than that really at this point in time so sorry about that. At the end of the day it's just a simple preference, effectively primitive, mixed with a long standing taboo that gives off an air of mysticism and mythology.
 

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I honestly watch quite a bit of mandingo, just to bring up the idea of the BBC and giving a face to the terminology, and honestly I find the idea of the black man on white woman to be almost taboo, but that is probably due to my upbringing. The astonishment of the caucasian girl when she sees what the BBC any of the mainstream african-american pornstars are packing is usually the biggest part of the BBC obsession. While I couldn't care less about the color of the skin of the cock, big cocks are hot no matter the skin color, look at Julian's for example, super awesome. Mandingos is amazing in its own right, same with like Lex, etc. I really think that the BBC stereotype only exists due to the "tabooness" that is of the idea of white girls craving black guys.

I was in a previous relationship and my ex asked me if I would date a girl who had a child with a black man, I said I didn't care, race is race its nothing more than pigments. While her sister's husband stated that he would never be able to, racism etc, different upbringings, these are all things that can be taken into account.

TLDR: To me any color cock is hot, I am a straight man but I need to see big cocks pounding tight pussies in my pornography and even in my fantasies I would love to see my girlfriend take a big cock. Hell I would even play with a black cock, white cock, yellow cock, orange cock, etc as long as the guy was nice and well maybe if it was hefty in size :).

BBC is nothing but fantasy.
you mentioned Mandingo as an example of this BBC myth.
Well some white guys as Matt Hughes have a cock as big as Mandingo.

http://img177.imagevenue.com/img.php?image=542781106_imgbb44_123_34lo.jpg
 

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BBC is nothing but fantasy.
you mentioned Mandingo as an example of this BBC myth.
Well some white guys as Matt Hughes have a cock as big as Mandingo.

True, but have you ever heard of BWC...?

No sale without the myth or (American) guilt...
 

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There is a universal caste system, brought on by religion, where white is considered good and pure, and anything non-white is considered tainted. The European standard of beauty is the standard by which we judge each other and ourselves. The further from that standard we are, the more we’re considered to be evil, ugly, or savage. When it comes to interracial relationships, whether it’s a white man and a black woman, a black man and a white woman, or an interracial homosexual relationship, it is always assumed that the darker partner is the more savage of the two. Due to this caste system, white women are considered to be the ultimate beauties, while black men are considered to be the ultimate beasts. Thus the demand for straight porn where white women are pseudo-raped by big-dicked black men.

The Thug standard is the standard by which modern-day black men are judged, and by which we judge ourselves. Both black and white societies expect black men to be thuggish. The darker a black man’s skin is, the more he’s perceived as being the ultimate savage. And of course, because his super dark skin marks him as the ultimate man-beast, he must also have a massive black penis and he’s expected to use his massive black penis as a weapon.

Some black men embrace the thug culture, some don’t. It’s kind of like that Bonnie Raitt song, “Let’s give them something to talk about”. Because they’ve already paid for a crime they haven’t committed, many black men become what society wants them to be, thugs.

Thug culture has taken over black culture. It’s taken over sports and the entertainment industry. If Michael Jackson or Lionel Richie were trying to break into show business now, they’d never make it because they’re not raw enough. Today’s society expects black men to be two-dimensional thugs, not three-dimensional human beings.

There is some hope for black men. President Barack Obama is a masculine in-charge black (bi-racial) man who respects his black wife and provides for his children. Dave Chappelle cancelled his t.v. show because he didn’t like the images of black men he was displaying to the mass media. Most recently, Jay Z., husband of Beyonce and father to Blue Ivy, has decided to never again use the word bitch in any of his new music.

Ultimately it’s up to black men to take control of the images they put out in the world, in the porn industry, in the mass media, and ultimately in their everyday lives.
 
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There is a universal caste system, brought on by religion, where white is considered good and pure, and anything non-white is considered tainted.

Spoken like a man never been in the real world. Have you ever been in e.g. Japan? If so, you would know better...
 

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Spoken like a man never been in the real world. Have you ever been in e.g. Japan? If so, you would know better...

Wow. Out of that entire posting, the only thing that caught your eye was the word universal. I've seen stories of Asians having their eyes altered to look more western, i.e., more European, less Asian.

You may want to rethink your sarcasm. Bless your heart.
 

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There is a universal caste system, brought on by religion, where white is considered good and pure, and anything non-white is considered tainted. The European standard of beauty is the standard by which we judge each other and ourselves. The further from that standard we are, the more we’re considered to be evil, ugly, or savage. When it comes to interracial relationships, whether it’s a white man and a black woman, a black man and a white woman, or an interracial homosexual relationship, it is always assumed that the darker partner is the more savage of the two. Due to this caste system, white women are considered to be the ultimate beauties, while black men are considered to be the ultimate beasts. Thus the demand for straight porn where white women are pseudo-raped by big-dicked black men.

The Thug standard is the standard by which modern-day black men are judged, and by which we judge ourselves. Both black and white societies expect black men to be thuggish. The darker a black man’s skin is, the more he’s perceived as being the ultimate savage. And of course, because his super dark skin marks him as the ultimate man-beast, he must also have a massive black penis and he’s expected to use his massive black penis as a weapon.

Some black men embrace the thug culture, some don’t. It’s kind of like that Bonnie Raitt song, “Let’s give them something to talk about”. Because they’ve already paid for a crime they haven’t committed, many black men become what society wants them to be, thugs.

Thug culture has taken over black culture. It’s taken over sports and the entertainment industry. If Michael Jackson or Lionel Richie were trying to break into show business now, they’d never make it because they’re not raw enough. Today’s society expects black men to be two-dimensional thugs, not three-dimensional human beings.

There is some hope for black men. President Barack Obama is a masculine in-charge black (bi-racial) man who respects his black wife and provides for his children. Dave Chappelle cancelled his t.v. show because he didn’t like the images of black men he was displaying to the mass media. Most recently, Jay Z., husband of Beyonce and father to Blue Ivy, has decided to never again use the word bitch in any of his new music.

Ultimately it’s up to black men to take control of the images they put out in the world, in the porn industry, in the mass media, and ultimately in their everyday lives.

Wow, this is probaly the best post I've read this year if not ever when it coems to black guys.

This is exactly how I feel. That's why you don't see tons of black male models, and if they are they have to fit the 'white standard for blackness' (aka African models).

As a young black male, I feel this everyday. My own face is not in positive light. I don't play sports, so that puts me at a disadvantage. I'm the antithesis of so called 'blackness'.

The equation of being black with savageness is right on the head.
 

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The Thug standard is the standard by which modern-day black men are judged, and by which we judge ourselves. Both black and white societies expect black men to be thuggish.




WHY?
admittedly have only seen this terminology used often in Porn, but if thats a general thing, sort of calling Blacks thuggish, that pisses me off
how did it come about?
Whats the equivalent in a derogatory term for Whites?
because i see it as derogatory typecasting
not cool modern hip talk
(no doubt the would be many, who do think its cool, young blacks perhaps??
 

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Thug = hoodrat/gangbanger type ...it's racially charged, but not necissarily racist. I really think that cartoon "the Boondocks" has some good points and messages about how a lot of young black people perpetuate the problem here, in racist U.S.A.

Recently, I was only attacted to black women. There was this girl in high school who got me going on it, she was a g-o-d-d-e-s-s, omg. But, lately, some of my hot black friends on here have really helped me come around. :) Can't help it now, a chiseled, black man with a huge cock is just amazing.

Admittedly, I can't hardly stand their urban culture or music anymore. I grew up in it, with it, and around it, and...lol, I'm sorry. It's just usually not very cool. ...or nice.

Big black cock is really hot though. :) WHAT UP, KAYMAN AND JER8X6!?!?! Rofl, I'm sorry.
 
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Sorry luv! (still find it funny tho :biggrin1: )
As for the main topic - I dunno. It does seem to have become a bit of a meme - and I'm not sure why. BBC, and sporty (or thuggy - as someone mentioned) black guy stereotypes. I think this is changing somewhat in the UK, with many, positive black role models (whether intellectual, sport, music or whatever). But the porn industry does seem to have a fascination with it.

Mebbe it's because whites were in the majority in the early days of western porn (or not) - and also made up the majority of the audience, especially in the UK until the immigration of the 1950s - and for a while after, blacks may have been seen as exotic or forbidden or something?

I still think that's the case in places such as South Africa where interracial relationships are still frowned upon to an extent which mystifies most of the Western world - possibly because racial segregation was almost religion there.

Also - there is the arguable point that blacks have bigger dicks (whether true or not, I dont know) - which does add a certain fascination for whites i think?

Personally it's not an object of fascination to me - I'm more bothered about whether I think the person attached is hot, and whether the dick is sexy, than what size or colour it is. Personal preference tho, I guess?

yep thats what i thought :smile:
Cute lynx! ;)

There is a universal caste system, brought on by religion, where white is considered good and pure, and anything non-white is considered tainted. The European standard of beauty is the standard by which we judge each other and ourselves. The further from that standard we are, the more we’re considered to be evil, ugly, or savage. When it comes to interracial relationships, whether it’s a white man and a black woman, a black man and a white woman, or an interracial homosexual relationship, it is always assumed that the darker partner is the more savage of the two. Due to this caste system, white women are considered to be the ultimate beauties, while black men are considered to be the ultimate beasts. Thus the demand for straight porn where white women are pseudo-raped by big-dicked black men.

The Thug standard is the standard by which modern-day black men are judged, and by which we judge ourselves. Both black and white societies expect black men to be thuggish. The darker a black man’s skin is, the more he’s perceived as being the ultimate savage. And of course, because his super dark skin marks him as the ultimate man-beast, he must also have a massive black penis and he’s expected to use his massive black penis as a weapon.

Some black men embrace the thug culture, some don’t. It’s kind of like that Bonnie Raitt song, “Let’s give them something to talk about”. Because they’ve already paid for a crime they haven’t committed, many black men become what society wants them to be, thugs.

Thug culture has taken over black culture. It’s taken over sports and the entertainment industry. If Michael Jackson or Lionel Richie were trying to break into show business now, they’d never make it because they’re not raw enough. Today’s society expects black men to be two-dimensional thugs, not three-dimensional human beings.

There is some hope for black men. President Barack Obama is a masculine in-charge black (bi-racial) man who respects his black wife and provides for his children. Dave Chappelle cancelled his t.v. show because he didn’t like the images of black men he was displaying to the mass media. Most recently, Jay Z., husband of Beyonce and father to Blue Ivy, has decided to never again use the word bitch in any of his new music.

Ultimately it’s up to black men to take control of the images they put out in the world, in the porn industry, in the mass media, and ultimately in their everyday lives.
Really interesting post man. :)
 
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if you know anything about the state of the black community and/or recent african diaspora (or african) history sexual objectification is the least of the troubles.
 

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most people don't care about why they are being offered pussy babe
not to be rude or lude which I know I'm being both but that's just the truth most people who like pussy don't care the reason they are getting a chance at it...

as to the rest of it I guess I'd have to be into it to figure out why people are into it but at a guess I'd say it's got to do with it being taboo

Wow, I totally disagree. I know plenty of men who won't indiscriminately fuck anyone with a pussy. They have morals and if they don't have morals they have preferences for who they fuck.
 

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and if they don't have morals they have preferences for who they fuck.



uuuhhm
have to agree with the preferences there Fleur ha, perhaps can readily leave out he Morals
mind you, in younger days was a little different, you know the scenario...any hole will do..?