BBC Obsession?

[Fleur]

I think we are attracted to who we are attracted to. some it is blondeds other's it is big breasts me I am attracted to black men.

No one is saying its weird or wrong to be attracted to black men. That's not what this thread is about. It's about this weird fetish or fantasy here and elsewhere with BBC, the objectification of black men and this idea that their big dicks are better than others based seemingly on race alone and other weird myths and stigmas. Not by them but for people who have this fantasy. To me it's objectifying and degrading but others might feel differently.

PS I get that the tv jokes are funny. But let's try to stay OT.

 

[someperson]

BBC, fine with me, take it or leave it, depends on who its attached to. As a side note, 1 out of 3 qualified for the Big in BBC

I thought you meant big black cock.

 

[joaocam]

I'm not sure what the attraction is with me. I get excited with the handsomeness of dark skinned men. I just want to rub myself all over them. I love the lips and dark eyes, and heavy brows. I want to lick their entire face and smother myself in it all. Yes, I am obsessed!

 

[averagejohnson]

I honestly watch quite a bit of mandingo, just to bring up the idea of the BBC and giving a face to the terminology, and honestly I find the idea of the black man on white woman to be almost taboo, but that is probably due to my upbringing. The astonishment of the caucasian girl when she sees what the BBC any of the mainstream african-american pornstars are packing is usually the biggest part of the BBC obsession. While I couldn't care less about the color of the skin of the cock, big cocks are hot no matter the skin color, look at Julian's for example, super awesome. Mandingos is amazing in its own right, same with like Lex, etc. I really think that the BBC stereotype only exists due to the "tabooness" that is of the idea of white girls craving black guys.

I was in a previous relationship and my ex asked me if I would date a girl who had a child with a black man, I said I didn't care, race is race its nothing more than pigments. While her sister's husband stated that he would never be able to, racism etc, different upbringings, these are all things that can be taken into account.

TLDR: To me any color cock is hot, I am a straight man but I need to see big cocks pounding tight pussies in my pornography and even in my fantasies I would love to see my girlfriend take a big cock. Hell I would even play with a black cock, white cock, yellow cock, orange cock, etc as long as the guy was nice and well maybe if it was hefty in size .

 

[D_Sal_Manilla]

i too have a fetish for the British Broadcasting Channel.

 

[wallyj84]

There is a part of pornography that is all about demeaning women. That's why on some porn videos if you look at the comments section, it's filled with derogatory words like "bitch" and "whore." Those guys get off on seeing a woman debased on camera. The BBC plays into that, because in the minds of those kinds of men, a white woman is lowering herself when she has sex with a black man.

Now, the above isn't meant for the people who have an interest in black men or BBC, it's just something that I've noticed in white girl/black man pornography.

 

[Hand_Solo]

Try shortwave if your BBC is dead.

 

[hairyversmuscle]

I'm not trying to argue that this is about race and I'm certainly not racist but...

I pretty much stopped reading this after this sentence. 99% of the time when people start something off with a sentence, it is usually followed by saying something racist or incredibly idiotic.

For future reference, a sentence like that will instantly cause people (like me) too look for racial undertones in your posting and will likely offend people and start an issue. You could have written the entire thing without that start off and actually seemed like you had a point instead the only thing I think now, is that you seem indeed what you claim to not be!

 

[Fleur]

I pretty much stopped reading this after this sentence. 99% of the time when people start something off with a sentence, it is usually followed by saying something racist or incredibly idiotic.

For future reference, a sentence like that will instantly cause people (like me) too look for racial undertones in your posting and will likely offend people and start an issue. You could have written the entire thing without that start off and actually seemed like you had a point instead the only thing I think now, is that you seem indeed what you claim to not be!

Thanks for judging without all of the information and reading the post. Makes you seem idiotic and what you claim not to be.

For future reference, read things in their entirety and figure out what the the post is about before you judge people and attach a fake statistic. There are no racist undertones to my OP. I don't see color in people, I see people in people. And my personal beliefs aren't what the post is about. I made that sentence for people who were overly sensitive, like you and weren't going to get the point of the post which is about objectifying people for their race for the sake of their preconceived taboos.

Good luck with your ignorance! Have a nice day.

 

[LGX]

Yet this and sports is the only place it's acceptable to be a black man. I really hate this. And if you don't have the 'bbc' then it just sucks. Black Guys = Big Dicks and nothing more. Other Guys/White Guys= Total Package.

 

[Fleur]

Yet this and sports is the only place it's acceptable to be a black man. I really hate this. And if you don't have the 'bbc' then it just sucks. Black Guys = Big Dicks and nothing more. Other Guys/White Guys= Total Package.

Exactly why I posted this. It is an absurd concept. I never thought about it in that way but it makes sense. It really is the way these people who have this fetish/fantasy probably think or at least potentially something along those lines.

 

[Fsjal]

I pretty much stopped reading this after this sentence. 99% of the time when people start something off with a sentence, it is usually followed by saying something racist or incredibly idiotic.

For future reference, a sentence like that will instantly cause people (like me) too look for racial undertones in your posting and will likely offend people and start an issue. You could have written the entire thing without that start off and actually seemed like you had a point instead the only thing I think now, is that you seem indeed what you claim to not be!

A can of worms? Yes. However, it is indeed an honest inquiry motivated by honest curiosity.

 

[mmjr]

A certain % of people are intrigued by the forbidden. This is not new to today, it goes back to the beginning of time if you believe the Bible (i.e. the forbidden fruit). Is it a myth? My ex is an obstetrician and swore that black male babies penises were larger even at birth. Were I black and male I certainly wouldnt discourage such thinking...lol.

 

[1Cody]

I like Latinos probably for the same reason that others like the black men. It is a preference. Each race has their range of size when it comes to cock. Does it make it any less fun or hot? No it don't. Btw, I have been with a couple of average black guys. It was so funny one time when we were all partying together and my average black friend was in a challenging way insinuating that my Mexican friend of short stature 5'3 somehow had a little dick. I told my black friend, "don't say that to him, that ain't him." My Mexican friend didn't know what I was saying. I said, "he is joking that you got a little dick, show him." He undoes his zipper without missing a beat and pulls it out. As soon as my black friend sees it, he instantly becomes an admirer. My Mexican friend never did get fully hard. But he was thick and just a bit longer than my black friend and I. So now my black friend decides he likes Latinos!! Talk about dynamite coming in small packages!

 

[D_Timmy_Toejam]

I don't say a whole lot here but I will give my 2 cents...I am a professional, gentlement, who also happens to be well endowed and loves to please and be pleased...As an owner of a BBC, I put myself in position to be with women who want to be with me more for me as a person and then she gets the "bonus". If I meet a woman at a club and she grinds on me or something then of course she may be looking for just what I have to offer down there...not that every now and then that is fine but it does get old.

 

[TheRob]

I'm not trying to argue that this is about race and I'm certainly not racist but one thing I've never understood is the obsession with 'BBC'. The idea that they're somehow better, bigger, more exciting etc. It's all rather objectifying as well with all the "my wife wants a bbc" posts out there.

To me, it's not the color of the cock that matters. All big cocks are exciting and great as are lot of the men attached to them. I've seen plenty of other big cocks of different races and I don't think it's a valid thing to say black men are the only ones with big cocks. Or that black men on average have bigger cocks. It's a porn myth. And I just feel like this whole BBC thing is a sick fetish I don't understand based on false information and objectifying ideation. A sort of 'stunt' cock if you will.

Why do black men even participate in this? They're being used as a piece of meat in this sort of fantasy and it's certainly degrading to them.

So, why the obsession with BBC?

I don't get it! Anyone else that doesn't?

most people don't care about why they are being offered pussy babe
not to be rude or lude which I know I'm being both but that's just the truth most people who like pussy don't care the reason they are getting a chance at it...

as to the rest of it I guess I'd have to be into it to figure out why people are into it but at a guess I'd say it's got to do with it being taboo

 

[lynxz23]

I think it has to do with a taboo from a time of segregation etc which has continued to be perpetuated still

 

[Drifterwood]

I agree, Fleaur, i am struggling to find a positive in the stereotype and as for some people's obsession, I really have to wonder.

It is a pornographers dream. You can offer so many porn genres with one big cock. The racial, the racial taboo, big cocks, SPH, cuckolding, female humiliation, degradation etc etc, I am sure others can add to that list.

 

[Richard Lottery]

This place bums me out...but to touch on this a little since im foolish enough to post in these threads, i feel race is a big deal even to those who say it doesnt matter to me or those with preferences (referring to that topic where there were people said they prefer one race yet couldnt fathom even finding one attractive person in any other race, its a big world) ..anyway this concept of "bbc"/interacial sex wouldnt be so popular if people truely didnt care about skin color..to respond to fluer's thing about why black men participate in it i cant answer for anyone but like with any other kink there will always be those who dont mind being another's fantasy...furthermore i don't use that term but i wont knock those who do, but i draw the line at the term "black bull" that irritates me. It comes from a disgusting place and its usually not a black person who uses it..i honestly can't blame black men for staying quiet on this and many of these topics similar to this it gets ugly fast...plus by the looks of it people usually prefer (hey theres that word again) men of other races here on average so its pretty awkward when these come up..

 

[Richard Lottery]

i appreciate you being upfront and honest as well being genuine from what i can tell in trying not to offend these topics always kinda leave me with a bad taste in my mouth (i think it does for other black men hence the lack of responses from them when it comes to these topics, especially with how often they come here) so i think ill give this a once over..an try and break this down

I'm not trying to argue that this is about race and I'm certainly not racist but one thing I've never understood is the obsession with 'BBC'. The idea that they're somehow better, bigger, more exciting etc. It's all rather objectifying as well with all the "my wife wants a bbc" posts out there.

I got that your not a racist lol thanks for making that clear, i think porn adds to that stereotype more then anything and everyone watches porn...to add to that its really a numbers game if you break it down the U.S. population is 12.6% black thats really not alot of black men if you think about it so plenty of people grow up not really being around black people im sure that adds to this...with anything you don't really know/understand/relate to your either gonna fear/hate it (racism) or be fascinated by it (the bbc fetish) and of course those who dont feel either way, thats pretty much what i get from it....

To me, it's not the color of the cock that matters. All big cocks are exciting and great as are lot of the men attached to them. I've seen plenty of other big cocks of different races and I don't think it's a valid thing to say black men are the only ones with big cocks. Or that black men on average have bigger cocks. It's a porn myth. And I just feel like this whole BBC thing is a sick fetish I don't understand based on false information and objectifying ideation. A sort of 'stunt' cock if you will.

I think my number thing touches on that a little...who really knows who's the biggest on average, and it's apparent people care...cause people post their personal statistics on which race is hung/not hung on average here all the time (based on sex parties they attend/work in the medical field/gym experiences only comparable to that of a bigfoot sighting that always go "i swear he was atleast 9 inches limp" lol)...i will agree this fetish has its extremes ive been called a nigga in pm or had "nigga fuck me" messages from non black people on other sites before ive even said anything more times then i can count, its weird cause i cant ever tell if its from a place of hate or extreme eroticism (on their part) its usually best not to respond to the message and think nothing of it or at most assume its not from a bad place...im lost on your stunt cock comment...

Why do black men even participate in this? They're being used as a piece of meat in this sort of fantasy and it's certainly degrading to them.

I think i mentioned it before but some are willing to be anothers fantasy, some arent...im sure it works the same way for white women and men of other races in some cases..or to go even farther women who participate in sex with others who have a fetish with age, breast size, ass, hair, feet etc...really no different, it just the opposite gender in this case and i guess and really specific

So, why the obsession with BBC?


I don't get it! Anyone else that doesn't?

I dont either but my first response is my theory...not to sound like one of those guys, but i usually notice its women that dont really date/socialize with a black man/men who usually ask this question ( i see this one alot on the internet too) and it would be refreshing to hear this question from a woman who actually does to be perfectly honest