Being grinded on

[B_ScaredLittleBoy]

I have grinded girls. Two in one night in fact. It was at this pyjama party thing. I had on my favourite loose, jogging-material type shorts. This really hot tiny, chesty girl started rubbing up against me. I got a semi which was like a rainbow in my shorts (in terms of shape, not colour :tongue. Then her bf or just some guy came over and got upset.

Then I found my friends again and this girl kept backing up into me hehe that was fun. Every time I moved away, she would move further back so she could feel my cock against her ass. Funny and kind of sexy.

I don't grind often though...but its kinda cool.

 

[roamingapril]

If you'd had someone grinding up against you in a crowded tube I can assure you it's assault.

Just because you disliked something, doesn't make it an assault, SpoiledPrincess.

 

[vibratingfinger]

Is it assault if a woman grinds her own ass into my crotch uninvited? It's happened to me a bunch of time. Can I sue? Can I hit her?

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

I had an ex do it to me at a concert. I was on the front barrier and he was behind me keeping people back. Anyway we were surging back and forth with the crowd and developed a nice 'rhythm' and before long he wasnt surging back anymore and i had a hard cock wedged in my ass and we were both quite eager for the show to finish and get home

 

[LeeEJ]

LeeEJ...dry humping is grinding, right? the boys back in grade school thought it was cute to sneak up behind a girl and rub their crotch against the girls bottoms. No, they didn't have erections. I guess they got the idea from their parents or older siblings. Sexual thoughts and desires start earlier than puberty.

I don't recall that kind of thing ever happening in my grade school -- heck, in any school I ever attended, at least not outside of a dance or something.

Maybe urban centers in Nebraska twenty years ago were more reserved than I would've expected. :wink:

 

[galaxus]

I've been grinded in public by strange women too. sort of like a bulge-size up

Mike 0950 your avatar is hilarious LMAO!!

 

[Quite Irate]

I've only had to take out (crotch punches are a wonderful thing) one guy in a club for excessive unwanted grinding.

Needless to say, he was Italian.

 

[Pimpolho2002]

If you'd had someone grinding up against you in a crowded tube I can assure you it's assault.

Well, nowadays dancing in clubs is all grinding, hehehe. So if a guy approaches you to dance, he is gonna grind on you.

 

[SpoiledPrincess]

You expect to get it in a club, on the tube you don't and yes it is a sexual assault, it's an act for which, if you had witnesses and wished to, you could press charges against him.

 

[whatireallywant]

Well, nowadays dancing in clubs is all grinding, hehehe. So if a guy approaches you to dance, he is gonna grind on you.

I somehow find it different on a dance floor than other places. Other places I would consider it assault. On a dance floor it can be a turn-on, but if the guy gets too obnoxious (one did), then even there it is a kind of assault. But each person is different. This is one of those gray areas.

 

[burns1de]

Last year, a woman grinded on me big time on the subway. It was pretty crowded and most people were really close to one another, but she came to stand right in front of me. She kept rubbing her ass against my crotch and I was breathing really heavily into her hair and right ear. At one point, she even squeezed my cock with her buttocks. I was pretty shocked, too, as she was in her mid-twenties and very good-looking - not the kind of woman I expected would do that. Oh well, no complaints.

 

[vibratingfinger]

Last year, a woman grinded on me big time on the subway. It was pretty crowded and most people were really close to one another, but she came to stand right in front of me. She kept rubbing her ass against my crotch and I was breathing really heavily into her hair and right ear. At one point, she even squeezed my cock with her buttocks. I was pretty shocked, too, as she was in her mid-twenties and very good-looking - not the kind of woman I expected would do that. Oh well, no complaints.

Should have slapped the bitch. She assaulted you. Kidding aside, I've had this happen to me on so many occasions now that I think of it. Any type of group activity involving both genders, sports, crowded places, group pictures, in lines, heck even in school. In many instances the grinding on the part of the female was definitely intentional and pre-planned. It never occured to me I was being violated until I saw this thread.

 

[Dayna]

Interesting topic, hehe.

I'm from an area where dancehall etc are very popular so grinding really nasty in clubs is very common.

Here's a well, slightly conservative (except for the part at the end) example of how we dance here.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?search=&mode=related&v=iYsWnFbt7n8



As for me, I love to grind on a nice hard cock. The bigger the better. It feels amazing grinding on nice thick hard cock, especially when i lean foward a bit so that his dick is pressing against my pussy.....ahhh, hehe

 

[dolfette]

It makes me feel sick when I see women lashing out at men this way. To call grinding "assault" trivializes the experience of actual rape.

experiencing actual rape didn't make men trying to grind & grope on me any less offensive. in fact, it made it all the more upsetting. in fact, it's that attitude that women should put up with being touched by any man who wants to that adds to the problem.

 

[Blocko]

From wikipedia; "Sexual assault is any physical contact of a sexual nature without voluntary consent".

Just because you disliked something, doesn't make it an assault, SpoiledPrincess.

 

[dolfette]

From wikipedia; "Sexual assault is any physical contact of a sexual nature without voluntary consent".

tsk, are you being rational & logical? god forbid that people expect and give respect for each other's bodies

 

[dolfette]

what seems reasonable to me...eye contact, a smile, an obvious sign of interest before you touch her. that silent flirting turns it from cheap & seedy to charged & sexy.

 

[Blocko]

Now who's being rational?

what seems reasonable to me...eye contact, a smile, an obvious sign of interest before you touch her. that silent flirting turns it from cheap & seedy to charged & sexy.

 

[dolfette]

Now who's being rational?

i like to do that once or twice a year, just to unnerve people.

 

[hawkgirl]

yeah, ive been grinded on. usually on the dance floor. Never felt anything impressive though. You would impress me.

It is a very regular occurance to get grinded on a dance floor. I get themember rubbed against my baxkside as a guy may pass you in a crowded area aswell. I do not like the uninvited grind. For me it is the same as an uninvited grope. If I happen to be dancing with you and I took it there, I invited you and that is fine with me.