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throb919: [quote author=Javierdude23 link=board=meetgreet;num=1056566246;start=0#19 date=07/01/03 at 01:21:45]
...The dickpart is leaning more towards guys, sad enough. My brain part is oriented 100% towards girls, WEIRD enough...they don't mix see.
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I do see, Javier. But at the risk of a pat and simplistic answer, isn't that (just) internalized homophobia? The "just" doesn't intend to minimize: society, real-life, tradition, religion reinforce it everyday. Would it be easier to be straight? Probably. Does it make things easier to "pass" sometimes? Yeah. (Said as a gay guy.) Is easier better? Not if it's not really you. Blo's shrink could do better with this than I, but as long as your own feelings about your bi side are "sad enough," you'll probably be sad, y'know...?
...The dickpart is leaning more towards guys, sad enough. My brain part is oriented 100% towards girls, WEIRD enough...they don't mix see.
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I do see, Javier. But at the risk of a pat and simplistic answer, isn't that (just) internalized homophobia? The "just" doesn't intend to minimize: society, real-life, tradition, religion reinforce it everyday. Would it be easier to be straight? Probably. Does it make things easier to "pass" sometimes? Yeah. (Said as a gay guy.) Is easier better? Not if it's not really you. Blo's shrink could do better with this than I, but as long as your own feelings about your bi side are "sad enough," you'll probably be sad, y'know...?