Bugging Me For 4 Years

"Kinda small"? Where is she getting her standards from -- "Mr. Big Dick," BangBros, West Coast Productions, etc.? To me, average-sized dicks look small, and that does not look small to me.

 

Well in all honesty it's no small, just on the low end of average. LOL you owe the wife dinner.

 

Who's dick was she looking at? Your dick does not look small at all! Great looking dick you have!

 

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Were you arguing when she said this? Otherwise it makes no sense as you are clearly neither big nor small but somewhere in the middle.

Welcome to LPSG, BTW.

 

well you are statistically bigger than about 60 % of men, but you pretty much have exactly the average size. But you are clearly above average when it comes to girth.

 

It just seems like a very insensitive thing to say, especially without provocation.

 

Clearly she's had experience with a large penis sometime (in her youth?) but it seems strange to bring it up out of the blue after years of being with you. I think I'd ask her what she's basing her opinion on, and why she said what she did - what was the point? What did she hope to accomplish by saying that?

If it's still bothering you and you've been thinking about it for 4 years, you need to ask questions and get it cleared up. Your penis is not small; small is below 5" in length and 4 1/2" in girth. Have confidence that she's misguided, influenced by some experience or conception formed years ago, and stick to the statistics. You still need to clear the air - she may not know how deeply this hurt you.

 

not huge cock but a good above average cock. Maybe you need to learn some new technique to tickle her fancy.lol Strut it,nice sizes.

 

Well, bid...first of all she was being a very insensitive woman and what she said
was not called for at all......and iny case, it makes absolutely no sense at all. :frown1:

You are certainly not huge, but you are also DEFINITELY NOT small. You have a
good length...average if not on the high end of average. You have a great girth
which should make her very happy!

Let's us just hope she was having a pms moment and didn't mean what she said.
I know plenty of women that would be happy and would enjoy what you have.

On the other had, it has been 4 years...and if she has not said it again, maybe you
are the one that has the problem. Forget it....move forward...and enjoy...

 

Women know their man's Achilles heel. In fact, this is almost any man's soft spot. She used no imagination in coming up with that. It was a very easy cheap shot. (Pardon, she went for the "Low hanging fruit".) Nothing at all could be gained from it.

Is there any reason she'd want to hurt you?

 

Perhaps it wasn't malicious, but it was certainly unacceptably insensitive.

It is not right to point out that a person is deficient in ways that cannot readily be changed. If she didn't like the way she was treated in bed, that would be one thing; it can be changed. But penis size cannot readily be changed so even if you were deficient, which you are not, it is not the sort of thing which should be mentioned. Even if it were deficient, any "problems" that it created could readily be overcome.

So far as brutal honesty is concerned, there may be a place for it, but only in circumstances when more diplomatic honesty has been repeatedly proven to be ineffective.

If that was a one time only sort of thing, probably it should be overlooked. But anyone who repeatedly demonstrates such insensitivity needs counseling in how to relate better to other people.

 

average and nice, definitely not small