Cheated On My Bf With A Black Guy

[Rodeo21]

So been with my boyfriend for 4 years but last night I cheated. I love big black dick and it was hard to say no. Just had to vent. Yeah I know, messed up. And the black guy is "straight"

 

[cdunstan1]

Dude what's the diff between cheating with a black dude vs. a white (or Asian, Hisp, mixed) dude? Im assuming you're Caucasian....

 

[prepstudinsc]

You’ve got bigger problems than just the cheating. If you’re not going to tell your BF, your relationship is going to be based on lies. If you prefer a big dick, then you need to find someone else who can fulfill your physical needs. There are so many things wrong with your post. Good luck.

 

[longstroke7]

I hope this is a troll post because this is awful behavior.

 

[lksbigone]

Black guy-absolved! Big cock-absolved. Straight guy-absolved. Cheated-absolved! Kept-secret! White-absolved!
THERE, it's all better.....you're entitled.

 

[hzs3fg]

... And the black guy is "straight"

Yeah, of course he is.

 

[durhamblkstar]

As a Black person, I thank you for saying this.

Agreed. I am a black male and if the first thing that comes to mind is that we all got BBC then that is not good. We are more than a phallus. We have other things that make and shape us. Dicks comes in different shapes and sizes and black men do not hold the empire to the biggest ones.

Black and white men are the same.

 

[Call_Me_Dave]

This whole story reeks of bullshit the longer it goes on.

 

[MisterB]

The thread title begins with "Cheated on my Bf..." And then it continues with the qualifier "With a Black Guy".

So many questions:

Does the color or how big the penis was somehow mitigate the cheating?

Or it's not really cheating cuz my BF is a white guy and I cheated with a [non-white] guy?

Or it's not really cheating cuz my BF is a guy with a regular size penis and this one was huge?

What does he tell his BF if BF catches a STD and has been faithful to the cheating BF?

What does he tell his BF if he gives BF Covid19?

I see no reference to an open relationship. He states when specifically asked that he has no plans of telling his boyfriend he cheated on him while BF was at his parents.

So this begs the next question: Why is this thread even a thing?

Cuz cheating sure seems to be a shit-thing to do. At any time, but especially right now with Covid-19. That's what I'll especially not understand. Cheating is one issue. But potentially passing on Covid to the BF? Yikes!

Not that I condone cheating at all. I don't. I think cheaters are scum. But hey, if this guy got his nut and is happy and can live with himself...

But this thread tells me Dude's having second thoughts about having cheated on his unknowing BF and came here for validation of cheating on unsuspecting BF.

I for one will not be one to validate that despicable behavior. Cheating is cheating. Whether it's with the same or opposite sex. Or a person of a different ethnicity. Or a person with a big dick.

I think I've figured out who the big dick here really is...

 

[Abraracourcix]

Your right. But I have been with him a while and it's great. Its just I always prefer a bbc every now and then

Sweetie, that’s not just it. You do realize that you’re explicitly sexualizing or objectifying black men, right? I mean, I loooove big cocks too but the color? You shouldn’t care. That’s not something you should be mentioning like it’s normal.

 

[cherryboom66]

I mean how? Im a white gay guy and I like big black dick? Whats wrong about that?

Perhaps the degrading sexualisation. Referencing an entire race as... what was it. Big black dick.

 

[longstroke7]

Can we not start 2021 without causal racism? What a sad, pathetic existence.

As a Black person, I thank you for saying this.

 

[SamMann75]

Don't you know the white couple code?

If either guy in a gay relationship or either girl in lesbian relationship or the woman in a straight relationship, so long as both members of the relationship are white, then fucking a black man's enormous black cock no more then once every 3 months is not even cheating. Hell, you can fuck that BBC in front of your partner for a weekend as long as neither of you leave the bedroom and your partner can't even be mad.... white couple code, deal with it honey

 

[AVx22]

Gosh.... I love all the white people coming to our rescue. We do not need you all to feel offended on our behalf. When you’re hooking up with someone, you are essentially exploiting them for sex anyway. So sexualizing and fetishizing someone while hooking up is no different.

The OP likes Black dick, so the fuck what!?

How are people policing what people like on a website that’s all about dick!?

I’m Black, I also like BBC! Am I fetishizing my own people!? No, I’m just appreciating and attracted the features of Black men.

We don’t need the BBC myth police either. The origins of BBC has nothing to so with today. How about we move passes the bullshit in 2021 and let people like what they like. We’re ALL reducing men to their genitals by being on this website.

 

[ronin001]

But he's got a 10 inch dick. I would never probably date him but that dick felt amazing

Pardon my logic; but how did you know he had a 10 inch penis, before you had sex with him ? What if he dropped his pants and was an average 5.75 inches Would you have decided not to press your advantage on a person, you classify as drunk ?

 

[cherryboom66]

Can we not start 2021 without causal racism? What a sad, pathetic existence.

 

[51arledge]

Well the guys around where I'm at. All the black guys have had way bigger dicks then the white guys. I've been with alot of both. More so hung black dicks like the picture you posted tho. Every relationship I've been in has been with white guy tho. And yes I am a top most of the time. No one ever really knew I was gay. Still most dont.

So, not only do you objectify black men as being just vehicles to carry around those BBCs, but you also don't care to get to know any black men so as to get to know them a real honest-to-goodness humans with feelings, thoughts, interests, families, hopes, etc.
But maybe it's the other way around?Because you can only see their penises, they realize that it would be futile to look for a real human being inside your empty shell of desire and bad attitudes.

 

[longstroke7]

Man, if that falls under “average” then I’ve had some super polite past partners...

Porn and society have distorted men's perceptions of our own bodies. The dude has a straight up meat hook for a dick and he thinks he's average. When I was younger, I thought I was small after seeing guys like Lex, Mandingo, Peter North etc in porn, and then I started having sex and women's perceptions were 100% different from my own.

 

[deleted848353]

Sorry if this is going to sound harsh but I detest those who cheat on their partner who they supposedly love but I hope he finds out and kicks you to the kerb

 

[AVx22]

Sweetie, that’s not just it. You do realize that you’re explicitly sexualizing or objectifying black men, right? I mean, I loooove big cocks too but the color? You shouldn’t care. That’s not something you should be mentioning like it’s normal.

He’s sexualizing and objectifying Black men just as much as you're sexualizing and objectifying men in general for their dicks.
If the color shouldn’t matter why should the size?