Choking while being fucked.

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So since a lot of people seem to be into this, it got me wondering; the vulnerable, sweet, controlling, respectful kind of "choking" MUST be somewhere on the internet. If anyone here stumbled across this kind of porn, could you please *puppyeyes* do us all (and me ^^) a favour by posting the links here ? (I figured this was not the right place to start a "any videos?" thread :)

Thanks! :cool:
 

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I've never had a request for or even had this discussion with any of the women that I have been with about wanting to be choked. I can understand the increased arousal that might occur for some women, however fear in others.

I was on the receiving end of being choked, unintentionally.

It was while an ex lay on top of me, thrusting her hips while I was fully inside her. The top of her shoulder began moving tighter and tighter under my neck, she pulled her body closer to mine, eventually grabbing the headboard that was located in front of her. She slightly pushed her shoulder further into my neck, not forcefully moving back and forth but just pressing tighter and tighter. I felt as though she was going to cum, and I did not want to interupt her with a comment that would break the intensity. Of course if it was too much or I was completely restricted from breathing I would have motioned for her to stop.
She climaxed shortly after, releasing the pressure. While I did feel a heightened sensation, it is something that I did not forget. Having her body press that hard upon me, and the intense orgasm that followed was worth the temporary discomfort.
 
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I've been into the neck thing for some time now. However, I don't do it in the 'air' restiction area. I prefer it to be very low on my neck & cut off blood flow. I've usually used the tapping method to signal when to let go. However, my new BF pulled a new one on me - and I kinda liked it!! :eek:)

He pinched my nose & covered my mouth. Since we didn't discuss it first I was kinda paniced. I struggled more & more - AAALLLL the while he kept calmly saying "Just surrender & I'll let go" - "Give up & I'll let go"- stuff like that. It took a few moments of panic before I could register what he was saying. Then I just relaxed & he let go. It's also the way to make sure you don't die - you'll pass out before it's actually dangerous. INGENIOUS!!! *Now, one of his BIG things is for me to struggle... so this totally works for both of us! Next time I will fight back harder for his enjoyment - and keep testing myself for how long I can hold out before I 'give up'. It's all part of the game.

**Why do it in the first place?? Well, for me loss of blood or oxygen causes all kinds of hieghtened sensations and good tingles. Plus I'm a bit of a sub - it's a way to assert my strength by ALLOWING him to have my trust.
 
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I do this occasionally with my GF, it depends on the mood really, I know when to ease off and loosen my grip so she can catch her breath so never any worrys about going too far accidentally.
 

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I love it! My man knows when to do it, how much pressure to put and how hard to fuck me while he does it. It's a real turn on! Usually after he chokes me, he flips me over and pulls my hair while fucking me in the doggy style position. I'm so glad I work from home!!! (buzzzz...)
 
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YES.. THAT USUALLY HAPPENS...(CHOKING ) IF I PUSH IT IN TOO DEEP WHILE WE ARE FUCKING...lolololol
 

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I love hands on my throat during sex. It is about the vulnerability. I already feel a little vulnerable during sex - the hand on my throat does make me feel like I'm completely out of control- which for me, is a good thing.
I've only been lightly choked by two people and I'm not sure it even qualified as choking, it was more a 'definite pressure'. But that's a trust thing and I only do anything like that with partners that I trust.
 

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I've never been choked but I've certainly smothered him on more than one occasion! Death by boob would have been an interesting entry on a coroner's report! I didn't realize what I was doing and he wasn't complaining.

I'd like to see a photo of these lethal boobs :p
 

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I am seeing a women now who loves to be choked, whipped, peed on, fisted, and a lot more. She always wants it harder and harder. I dont think she has any limits when it comes to pain?
 

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Ok, before anyone flames me, this question is more for the hopefully one of these days sub-forum entitled, "Ask the Women":

What's the deal with women who like being choked (or at the very least have hands wrapped lightly around their throat) while being fucked? This isn't meant to be dismissive in any form or fashion. On the contrary, I actually love doing it. There's something so vulnerable, so dangerous, so soft and so controlling about having so much power to do harm and not. It's an almost instant boner for me.

Can anyone explain to me from the female's perspective the attraction?

not a woman (i don't think) but i love it, and aggressive sex in general. Slapping, choking, hair pulling, and don't even get me started on biting!

Perhaps surprisingly, I actually enjoy having it done to me by a girl far more than I enjoy doing it to her, which is really saying something!
 

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Oh my gosh! I should have waited tii after school to read this... I agree with some on here it is kinda scary, but I love it! The first guy that tried it with me talked to me the whole time and put me at ease. I don't even have to be haveing sex if my guy comes up behind me puts his hand 2 my throat and applies the right pressure......... Ummm damn :)
 

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My wife LOVES this. I found out by accident when I was attempting to grab her hair from behind. I reached forward and put my hand around her throat and before I could even grab her hair her pussy tightened up and she breathed "choke me fuck me hard" and that's all I needed to hear. It was extremely hot. She doesn't always ask for it but when she does she's never far from orgasm. Its always so intense, with me squeezing her neck and kissing her on the lips while I literally grind out her orgasm... She always cums extremely hard this way. Its a huge turn on for me to know how much she loves it. The power of it is intoxicating. I was a little afraid at first because I have what one would call "working man" hands and a helluva grip but that is what she likes. I'm really glad this topic was brought up its really awesome to see all the other responses and diff ways people experience this act.
 

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Oh, yah and I wonder if the topic of smothering has been covered? She on occasion will honor my request to sit on my face and suffocate me with her pussy which does something to me I can't quite describe. I get so hard I could break a brick. Must be some form of submissive behavior I guess. ( We are both still new to some of the Bdsm culture and styles and acts)