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Beautiful post.

This should be for every man - please, stop obsessing about your cocks. Put that energy into being a better person - see where that gets you.

Dear men without a job,.......

dear nice guy,.........

xx

Dear men with low self-esteem,.........

I can relate to many at different points in my Life, Day, Week, Month. Great posts by all.
Gracias dolfette
Bravo Bravo.
 

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dear men with scars,

I wish my scars had cool stories associated with them.

It would be more fun to say, "I got that when I jumped my motorcycle over the burning school bus to save the kids who fell into the frozen river."

Instead of, "The doctor thought it looked cancerous," or "I was in a hurry and the blade slipped."
 

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Thank you Dolfette.

I'm small but, luckily, most partners I've had share your view. Only two girls in a long-long list were size queens and turned me down because of my size. I must say that I've had great partners who were also great lovers.

I've also learned that physical beauty and slim sexy shape in a woman are no indication of what kind of partner and lover she will be. I've had some surprises along the way: The sexiest swimsuit model I dated was the worst partner and lousy lover. One of the best partners and lovers was a heavy girl whom no one would describe as beautiful. She looked after me as though I was a king.

So yes: Beauty, geometry and size count for little.
Thanks for starting the thread.

Tiggerpoo.
 

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I venture into this forum with great hesitation but this thread is quite insightful. I have read it a number of times, wanted to post but decided against it.

First let me say what a great idea Dolfette and the others that have contributed.

I find myself posting this because I met a wonderful lady this past week that exhibits so many of these wonderful traits. I am nothing special but she made me feel special. She accepted me for what and who I am. She allowed me to be honest about my feelings even if it hurt. As she said, this is about you and I will put your feelings first, always be honest with me. What a wonderful gift to give to someone. I was so worried and concerned about living up to her expectations until I realized her expectations of me were to just be me and nothing else. The time we spent together was enjoyable, relaxing and fun. It ended with no regrets only warm thoughts.

Thanks again.
 

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I find myself posting this because I met a wonderful lady this past week that exhibits so many of these wonderful traits. I am nothing special but she made me feel special. She accepted me for what and who I am. She allowed me to be honest about my feelings even if it hurt. As she said, this is about you and I will put your feelings first, always be honest with me. What a wonderful gift to give to someone. I was so worried and concerned about living up to her expectations until I realized her expectations of me were to just be me and nothing else. The time we spent together was enjoyable, relaxing and fun. It ended with no regrets only warm thoughts.

Thanks again.

Lovely.....just lovely :hug:
 

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Dear men with greying hair....

Yes I see you in the aisle at the store looking for the right product to cover it up. I know the pressure to look young is very strong. Even more than the importance of feeling young. I know you probably stressed the first time you saw a grey hair and frantically plucked it out only to find a few more. I'm sure you got even more stressed when you took some time off of work and didn't shave for the extended weekend and there was a lot more in your beard than you thought.

It adds to your insecurities in the work place, on dates and especially around younger guys who seem to have nothing to fear about aging at this point in their lives. But know that there are women who find it very sexy. Note that there are plenty of women who aren't out there to find a hot young stud to be their pool boy. Some of us want a distinguished gentleman who has been around a few years. Sometimes we like quite a few years on our age when we are on the prowl. For we know that you have great stories to share- funny ones and sad ones- but you always have something wise to bring to the table.

A man who can wear his crow's feet and salt and pepper with pride is a man that I want to get to know. So put down that box of hair dye and embrace who and what you are and others will embrace it also. You just might be surprised that the younger attractive woman in the same aisle is wanting to know first hand if your chest hairs have a few greys too....
 

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Dear men with greying hair....

Yes I see you in the aisle at the store looking for the right product to cover it up. I know the pressure to look young is very strong. Even more than the importance of feeling young. I know you probably stressed the first time you saw a grey hair and frantically plucked it out only to find a few more. I'm sure you got even more stressed when you took some time off of work and didn't shave for the extended weekend and there was a lot more in your beard than you thought.

It adds to your insecurities in the work place, on dates and especially around younger guys who seem to have nothing to fear about aging at this point in their lives. But know that there are women who find it very sexy. Note that there are plenty of women who aren't out there to find a hot young stud to be their pool boy. Some of us want a distinguished gentleman who has been around a few years. Sometimes we like quite a few years on our age when we are on the prowl. For we know that you have great stories to share- funny ones and sad ones- but you always have something wise to bring to the table.

A man who can wear his crow's feet and salt and pepper with pride is a man that I want to get to know. So put down that box of hair dye and embrace who and what you are and others will embrace it also. You just might be surprised that the younger attractive woman in the same aisle is wanting to know first hand if your chest hairs have a few greys too....

This is something that I have never let bother me. My hair, what little I have left of it, started turning in my 30's. When asked why I don't do the dye job thing I tell them I earned these gray hairs. And yes, I have gray chest hairs too.
 

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ladies, in this thread i would like us to write open, positive, honest letters to victims of angst. pick your issue, write your letter.

dear men with small cocks,

i do not mind.
if we were to meet, if we really hit it off, if i liked you enough to actually get naked with you and it turned out that you were less than vast?
i would not mind.

ok i like an average size cock but there is so much more to sex than size. for my tastes, it's all about attitude. i'd prefer a small dicked man with the right attitude over an average dicked man with the wrong one.
i'll let you into a secret... when i wank i don't put anything inside me. what's put inside me isn't the key to my pleasure. but if you pin my wrists, bite my neck, growl in my ear and pound our pelvises together then my toes will curl. actually, i'll quite like that you can really let go without ever really hurting me... which is why my heart sinks a little when i get to the point of naked and find the guy is huge.

ok, i know that some guys have been jerks and some women have been bitches to you in the past. it sucks that some people feel the need to be shitty just because you don't fit perfectly into their personal tastes. please remember that we're not all like that. physical incompatibility happens but it's nobody's fault and nobody is less of a man, or indeed less of a woman, if it does.
i'm rambling... i guess what i'm trying to say is this: you're ok just the way you are. i won't spend my nights wishing you were bigger or dreaming of cocks i have had in the past.

so, man with a small penis, when we meet you should just smile, be charming, try to relax and... be kind about my stretch marks.

xx

First post.

The OP did make a really nice post.

It's very nice to hear, since i'm a small guy. And yea..some might think it's odd me being on this site, but meh, I guess we all have our insecurities and or fetishes.

It is also good to know what alot of women do not care, as long as your a good guy.

Tho I have to admit I sometimes feel that a guy that is actually small like myself, and not an average guy that is confused by watching porn, has to make up for it big time in everything else. Which isn't great on the self esteem, since it can make you think that you have to go the extra mile because your not enough for some women.
 

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porn is, as a rule, made by men and for men.
penis size in porn reflect the male fantasy.

for women, it's a matter of personal taste.
 

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porn is, as a rule, made by men and for men.
penis size in porn reflect the male fantasy.

for women, it's a matter of personal taste.

That and most of them aren't as big as they look.

Good camera angles FTW. :cool:

Tho to the ones that say it doesn't matter, what if the guy was not only short on length, but short on girth?

I have both of those issues.
 

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Sorry about that. Just felt it could be an extension of the discussion.

Oops.
 

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I have to say im impressed with all the contributions that were positive. I mean really its become a rare sight on the internet so to everyone involved in this thread raise your hand place it behind your back and start patting because you deserve it.