Defining Sexuality

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  1. fournineteenfiftynine

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    Defining one's sexuality can be simple or complex. There is a lot of baggage associated with labels. Most of the time it is defined quite simply - you are gay, straight, or bi. I think it is more complex. Think about these questions and how your answers may define your sexuality. Obviously, if this topic bores you or doesn't apply, please don't waste your time. :)

    1. Do you desire to have women find you physically attractive?
    2. Do you desire to have men find you physically attractive?
    3. Do you find the male physique sexually attractive?
    4. Do you find the female physique sexually attractive?
    5. Do you find certain parts of the male body attractive?
    6. Do you find certain parts of the female body attractive?
    7. Do you tend to be more emotionally attracted to women or men or both?
    8. Do you have certain types of emotional attractions to women and to men?
    9. Do you tend to have "crushes" on one sex over the other?
    10. Do you desire to touch sexually certain female and/or male body parts?
    11. Do you prefer m-m, f-f, or m-f intercourse?
    12. Is there any type of m-m, f-f, or m-f sexual interaction that you find unattractive or even repulsive?
     
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    I HEARD A PSYCHOLOGIST ONCE who asked this simple question:
    "What do you fantacize about when you masturbate?"
    In many ways, that is a defining way. Dennis
     
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    I HEARD A PSYCHOLOGIST ONCE who asked this simple question:
    "What do you fantacize about when you masturbate?"
    In many ways, that is a defining way. Dennis
     
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    Thanks for the response. But even that question begs the same, more detailed questions.

    Do you masturbate when fantasizing about a woman admiring your dick?
    Do you masturbate when fantasizing about a big dick?

    I've done both. I think the detail analysis is important.

    Thanks again.
     
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    wow not that I have a problem with it but theres a lot of gay stuff on this website
     
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    Yes there is.

    Gay men generally don't mind posting their admiration for big dicks. Straight and questioning guys post more rarely unless they're comfortable talking about their penis or those of other men. As you may imagine, that number is relatively low. You will find far more straight men in the chatroom and hook-up sections. They definitely outnumber the gay guys and girls (few lesbians care about hung guys :wink:), they're just more stealthy about it.
     
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    May I suggest asking a moderator to move this to the sexuality forum? I don't think the New Member Introductions section will get you the number of kind of replies you're looking for. They're good questions, if a bit daunting in their depth.
     
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    The questions are interesting and I will lookforward to seeing other's replies.
     
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    1. Do you desire to have women find you physically attractive? Yes
    2. Do you desire to have men find you physically attractive? YES
    3. Do you find the male physique sexually attractive? YES
    4. Do you find the female physique sexually attractive? YES
    5. Do you find certain parts of the male body attractive? YES
    6. Do you find certain parts of the female body attractive? YES
    7. Do you tend to be more emotionally attracted to women or men or both? MEN
    8. Do you have certain types of emotional attractions to women and to men? YES
    9. Do you tend to have "crushes" on one sex over the other? YES, MEN
    10. Do you desire to touch sexually certain female and/or male body parts? YES
    11. Do you prefer m-m, f-f, or m-f intercourse? M_M and M-F
    12. Is there any type of m-m, f-f, or m-f sexual interaction that you find unattractive or even repulsive? F-F not very arousing
     
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    Thanks for answering the questions. Your responses are interesting. I think these questions can help one sort out defining their sexuality and bring more definition especially to one's bisexuality. I hope more people answer and comment.
     
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