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There's more than just the deep spot?!? :tongue:I don't. Extreme stress (like during exams) is one of the few times when I don't even want to think about orgasms (with toys anyway. As usual, it's different with humans).
I don't think it's all that uncommon to use sex or orgasms as de-stressers though, for men or women.
I use orgasm more as a distraction than a destresser. But then I don't tend to get that stressed, so maybe I would if I did. :smile:
By distraction I mean if something is bugging me I'll take my mind off it for a short while with a nice wank - a little injection of positive.
By distraction I mean if something is bugging me I'll take my mind off it for a short while with a nice wank - a little injection of positive.
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This is a great thread and I like Manly's 'functional' and 'leisurely'. I hadn't thought of it like that. Thanks to the ladies who have shared so openly.
Functional - middle finger on right hand provides hard stimulation in a circular motion around my clit. As I get closer to O, left hand under my left buttock pushes the lower part of my body upwards. Legs become rigid and straight. If I'm having problems reaching orgasm, then the g-spot stimulator comes out. Never any lube as there's no need and never, ever any nipple stimulation.
Leisurely - will start by reading some porn online (usually the Nifty site), then continue much as above. Usually reach O far quicker though and find there's no need for the g-spot stimulator.
Functional - middle finger on right hand provides hard stimulation in a circular motion around my clit. As I get closer to O, left hand under my left buttock pushes the lower part of my body upwards. Legs become rigid and straight. If I'm having problems reaching orgasm, then the g-spot stimulator comes out. Never any lube as there's no need and never, ever any nipple stimulation.
Leisurely - will start by reading some porn online (usually the Nifty site), then continue much as above. Usually reach O far quicker though and find there's no need for the g-spot stimulator.
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Melborne, your Functional Wank is nearly 100% what I do as well! Nice to see someone else have the same technique.
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This is a great post! I'm glad it's on here, as I've yet to take the freakin' time to take my pic and get into the women only group! lol....so....
Like Dolfette, I need uninterrupted alone time, but the rush of someone coming over sometimes adds to the situation, or other times, blows my O time.
I like to watch porn, and lately that's been more 'homemade' type vids of couples. Kinda like a peeping Tom? LOL.
Anyway, I love penetration when I'm wanking. I use a glass s-shaped wand, kinda like this: Pink indulgence glass wand - Glass wands - EdenFantasys. I also use a vibrator, but it's much too powerful some days, so I only let it rest on my clit. The triple stimulation - visual, penetration and vib usually work to set me off within minutes. I'm quiet when alone, loud with a partner. I don't think the two are anything alike -- sex and wanking. Wanking is private. Very personal. I could see sharing with someone I completely trust, but I'd have to completely trust them....lol. I do like watching guys though, if they're in the room with me. Watching men wank on camera just doesn't do it for me any longer. Maybe if the wanking is taking place, I want the person in the room so I can have some fun too! I dunno. Alone I hardly touch myself, but when having sex I love my breasts stimulated and to be touched all over. The two are simply completely different - both good, but apples and oranges.
Like Dolfette, I need uninterrupted alone time, but the rush of someone coming over sometimes adds to the situation, or other times, blows my O time.
I like to watch porn, and lately that's been more 'homemade' type vids of couples. Kinda like a peeping Tom? LOL.
Anyway, I love penetration when I'm wanking. I use a glass s-shaped wand, kinda like this: Pink indulgence glass wand - Glass wands - EdenFantasys. I also use a vibrator, but it's much too powerful some days, so I only let it rest on my clit. The triple stimulation - visual, penetration and vib usually work to set me off within minutes. I'm quiet when alone, loud with a partner. I don't think the two are anything alike -- sex and wanking. Wanking is private. Very personal. I could see sharing with someone I completely trust, but I'd have to completely trust them....lol. I do like watching guys though, if they're in the room with me. Watching men wank on camera just doesn't do it for me any longer. Maybe if the wanking is taking place, I want the person in the room so I can have some fun too! I dunno. Alone I hardly touch myself, but when having sex I love my breasts stimulated and to be touched all over. The two are simply completely different - both good, but apples and oranges.
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BJ, I was just thinking of you when I was tossing out the guys who sent their request to join the Ladies Group. Get your booty over there girl!
This. It's fascinating. It is also hot, too, I'll admit - but...kinda reading it more out of curiosity than anything.
I use wanking as a stress-release mechanism - prolly sex too if I actually had much of it?
Interesting Rouge's description of tensing up a lot to cum - I do that, too, but mainly because meds make it that much more difficult. Same thing - or have you always done it that way?
I'm all about the nipples, too, whoever said it (Dolf?).
LOL
Okay! I am making my stupid little sign now and doing it! lol. I'm going to so be decked out in a sweater and scarf though cause my room is FREEZING!!! lol
Okay! I am making my stupid little sign now and doing it! lol. I'm going to so be decked out in a sweater and scarf though cause my room is FREEZING!!! lol
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Joll, ever since I figured out the orgasm comes like 100 times faster when I do it. I want to get to the climax as soon as possible so I can get to the next one as soon as possible. When I first started masturbating in a way that caused an orgasm, I started tightening up my whole body to build up enough muscle tension to get there so I wouldn't be waiting around for it. I'm not a patient person and it shows in my masturbation techniques. LOL
LOL!
I guess that's part of it now with me - used to enjoy edging cos it was just so intense, but now I just wanna make sure I get there anyway I can, so sort of...go for it. Usually around 5 mins or slightly less.
i might be the lone hand humper.
is my preferred going to/back to sleep wank. hand down my undies/jammies cupped over my vulva, with a finger to either side of my clit. i roll over onto my belly then hump and grind my way to orgasm.
i don't often use toys or vibrators. when i do, i'm going for pressure on the happiest bits. for me is the fornix, posterior or anterior.. i enjoy some g-spot stimulation... but, the feeling is "good" when what i am looking for is "fuck yeah!". my FY! lives deep :tongue1:
with toys, i have a go to dildo.. is the perfect everything for the job. okay.. :redface:... i have a wank pillow.. sometimes used for the belly/hand hump wank.. more often used to straddle.. cuz i like something up against my rump. on my knees, toy inserted and parked in the happy zone of the moment.. i'll settle my weight back until the press is right, then wriggle and bump while playing with my breasts/nipples and my clit.
my pillow ride is my long wank... heaps of body teasing, edging/delaying climax.. when i finally decide to stop fussing around the orgasm is awesome..a few successive smaller orgasms. then the finale killer.. puddle of girl heap.
rounding out the top 3 - speed wank. finger, clit, real short count down. good for de-stressing, headaches and mood lifts.
Mr. Rawdog - stress wanking.. yeppers.
is my preferred going to/back to sleep wank. hand down my undies/jammies cupped over my vulva, with a finger to either side of my clit. i roll over onto my belly then hump and grind my way to orgasm.
i don't often use toys or vibrators. when i do, i'm going for pressure on the happiest bits. for me is the fornix, posterior or anterior.. i enjoy some g-spot stimulation... but, the feeling is "good" when what i am looking for is "fuck yeah!". my FY! lives deep :tongue1:
with toys, i have a go to dildo.. is the perfect everything for the job. okay.. :redface:... i have a wank pillow.. sometimes used for the belly/hand hump wank.. more often used to straddle.. cuz i like something up against my rump. on my knees, toy inserted and parked in the happy zone of the moment.. i'll settle my weight back until the press is right, then wriggle and bump while playing with my breasts/nipples and my clit.
my pillow ride is my long wank... heaps of body teasing, edging/delaying climax.. when i finally decide to stop fussing around the orgasm is awesome..a few successive smaller orgasms. then the finale killer.. puddle of girl heap.
rounding out the top 3 - speed wank. finger, clit, real short count down. good for de-stressing, headaches and mood lifts.
Mr. Rawdog - stress wanking.. yeppers.
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Hah!! I've always wondered if anybody else does it the same way! None of my girlfriends ever have (lovers, not platonic gf's) and I've often thought my way must be just too.....well....pedestrian. Really glad to know I'm not the only one - thanks for sharing MR! :wink:
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Sometimes I tend to be a creature of habit. I'll read stories on literotica or xnxxstories and masturbate with my wild g-spot vibe. Only the kinkest stories will do and it can be the fastest means to a horny end when I'm super exicted.
Other times I like to play in the shower with a dildo and the detachable showerhead running over my clit. I rarely sit down during this play which is exciting in itself, legs go all quivery weak and when I'm finished I can put the showerhead back and let the water soothe me.
Other times I just relax and play with whatever toy I wish. Sometimes I pull, pinch my nipples, massage my breasts, wear clamps because I enjoy the bite. I also like to get right to the edge and stop before I orgasm. If I have plenty of time I do it over and over again so when I do orgasm it rocks my world. Normally I'm on my back or propped up a little bit, but other times at the end I want to kneel up to grind down hard/ deep as I can. This is one of the best types of solo orgasm play for me, unhurried, relaxed but on edge.
I'll stop at this point so I can go back and read what everyone else has said on the other pages.
Comes back to edit: I rarely ever do clitoral stimulation by itself, I feel empty when I do, so I normally grab a silicone dildo to use while I rub away. Makes it much more intense for me.
Vocal, not unless I get to the point where I can't be quiet.
I've also experimented with a plug and a dildo, which I enjoyed.
So I don't have a way that is the best beyond the fact that I enjoy the dual clit and penetration masturbation.
Other times I like to play in the shower with a dildo and the detachable showerhead running over my clit. I rarely sit down during this play which is exciting in itself, legs go all quivery weak and when I'm finished I can put the showerhead back and let the water soothe me.
Other times I just relax and play with whatever toy I wish. Sometimes I pull, pinch my nipples, massage my breasts, wear clamps because I enjoy the bite. I also like to get right to the edge and stop before I orgasm. If I have plenty of time I do it over and over again so when I do orgasm it rocks my world. Normally I'm on my back or propped up a little bit, but other times at the end I want to kneel up to grind down hard/ deep as I can. This is one of the best types of solo orgasm play for me, unhurried, relaxed but on edge.
I'll stop at this point so I can go back and read what everyone else has said on the other pages.
Comes back to edit: I rarely ever do clitoral stimulation by itself, I feel empty when I do, so I normally grab a silicone dildo to use while I rub away. Makes it much more intense for me.
Vocal, not unless I get to the point where I can't be quiet.
I've also experimented with a plug and a dildo, which I enjoyed.
So I don't have a way that is the best beyond the fact that I enjoy the dual clit and penetration masturbation.
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