Thank you. Occasionally my moral compass needs re-magnetizing.This is a sex site, by being here you'd think we were all quite open sexually and able to easily understand that different people have different sexual likes and dislikes, but it seems that to many people if something isn't in their repertoire they're quick to label it disgusting. Watersports is one that when mentioned on here attracts a lot of negativity and it's hardly a minority sexual interest, there are vids on it, stories on it, sites on it, many people love it. When anything out of the bog standard norm such as fisting, anal roses, felching, etc is mentioned it gets a lot of ick and people are reluctant to mention they like it.
Remember to some people oral sex is disgusting.
For me if someone wants to eat shit while whistling dixie that's fine, they're not hurting anyone, the things I find disgusting are things that aren't consensual, someone can mention watersports and it gets a big thumbs down, then someone can mention incest and if we make negative sounds about it their are mutterings about 'the moral majority' - incest is often very damaging to the person who's being victimised, and it is a victimisation, the person at the receiving end is often in a position where they can't refuse for one reason or another.
There are a lot of sexual practices out there that we might not like, but other people do, and just because we don't like them doesn't mean they're disgusting.
:wtf2: You'll pee on a guy; but you won't have a threesome? :lmao:Sorry, but that amuses me no end.It's not my thing and I can't really understand how people could get enjoyment out of it, but if they do good luck to them they're not hurting anyone. There are things I don't like (threesomes for instance) but just because I don't like them doesn't mean other people aren't going to love them.
Until I met DC, I never realized how absolutely funny he is, even on the boards. He's got kind of a low key funny about him.
He can do all of the above. My hand still stings from my beating.
Oh, jeffie, please tell me your memory is that short. I have excellent aim. I was using a tawse, not a paddle, and snoozan is being such a baby about it. She only got one little swat.Your HAND? He's got bad aim at his old age.:tongue:
this thread sucks. why is everyone being so right on and saying "yeah if you wanna eat shit that is disgusting to me but i respect you". Bullshit- i doubt any of you really respect any fudge muncher- yeah do whatever but sometimes you gotta admit that shit is grim. animals equally grim but we cannot respect that cos it is illegal- love this site but some of the "I respect you" shit is fake and understandably so- we all human with our own prejudices...let's not lie about it
:wtf2: You'll pee on a guy; but you won't have a threesome? :lmao:Sorry, but that amuses me no end.
It isn't about being politically correct, Italian, it's about making the distinction between "that's disgusting" and "I think that's disgusting," (similar, but quite different) and also the distinction between "I think that activity is disgusting" and "you are a disgusting person because you enjoy that activity" (not as similar, quite, quite different, and out of line.)I tend to agree with this statement. Sometimes people are just too politically correct. There's nothing wrong with disagreeing or being grossed out by something and stating it.
It isn't about being politically correct, Italian, it's about making the distinction between "that's disgusting" and "I think that's disgusting," (similar, but quite different) and also the distinction between "I think that activity is disgusting" and "you are a disgusting person because you enjoy that activity" (not as similar, quite, quite different, and out of line.)
WTH?!! My first husband had a foot fetish, and he never once bought me a pair of shoes or boots or slippers or ANYTHING!!
Does that walk all over your theory?! :tongue:
Yes, I do understand that. The point I have been trying to make is that I do not think it is disgusting when I kiss my partner, but there are people out there who think it is disgusting when I kiss my partner. I wouldn't do it if I thought it was disgusting. I'm not willing to pass my narrow judgement on someone who is doing something consensual, simply because I would not do it... and I prefer that no one pass judgement on me for engaging in the consensual activities I choose.I see what you're saying. "That's disgusting" is very blunt and forward, but "I think" is just saying what you think, your opinion.
It comes down to the word "think" which many people use on here all the time, myself included. But if we are talking about a shit eater, many people would think not only the activity is disgusting, but they may equally feel that the person doing it is disgusting. Let's say a co-worker who you respected was involved in shit play. You may not respect that person very much once you heard that. Some things are best left unsaid, so when you do say something, you can either expect praise or criticism.
My aunt worked in a mental hospital years ago, and there were shit eaters, so I equate that with something very abnormal. They would also rubbed it on the walls and do all kinds of other weird stuff. She's told me many strange stories.
I don't feel like talking about shit anymore. uke: